Misunderstanding and silence. *Edited* Reply on page 5 - Page 4

Originally posted by: baubles

Whispaaa🤗 I'm pretty late, but had to comment.

Firstly, wonderful post. Thanks for being among the few who see both sides of the story, cos all I have been seeing since yesterday's episode is Vividha being bashed.

With no offence to anyone, I just have to say this because I literally have seen this everyday. People see Atharv's pain, his hurt even if it's little. The few days when I found him wrong and spoke a word against him, the number of people who came in his defense is unimaginable.

And their justifications were- Atharv is human, he can't read Vividha's mind to know what's going on in there, he has flaws. And I agree.

But none of this is considered for Vividha which is sad.

Vividha doesn't see Atharv's insecurity cos she had done all she can to erase it. All she sees now is DISTRUST. She sees him doubting her and her love, not his insecurity cos she can't read minds either.

Insecurity makes you want to correct it, take that extra effort to reassure that person you are theirs. But distrust hurts, makes you angry cos your love is suddenly being doubted after everything you've done. And it's the distrust Vividha sees from his side that makes her angry and unbothered. 'If he can't trust my love, I can't prove myself again and again' is perfectly normal.

Having said that, yes she should have spoken yesterday. She isn't a showpiece to be praised by people around her.

And going by the heat thing the other day, the normalcy with which Vividha reacted the next morning...if Atharv feels she would take that big a thing so normally while she isn't sure of her love for him then he's being an ass too.

So the fault is on both sides for me and they are right in their own ways too. And I sincerely wish I could see Vividha defendes the way people defend Atharv..the bias is HUGE!

Originally posted by: whispa

Thank you so much everyone for your replies. I really do appreciate the time you all took to write your reviews.

I know that no one(except Soumu) agreed with my review yesterday but I still stand by Vividha. But of course you are all entitled to your opinions and everyone's views are respected.😳

I'm just going to address a couple of things.

Yesterday, in the jeep scene many of you have taken issue that Vividha looked after Ravish instead of Atharv. For this I'm definitely going to blame the cv's as it was a way of keeping the dead 'triangle' alive. I guess it didn't bother me as much as it did most people.(A lolipop as Julie would say).

After Vivi had settled Ravish in the front, the first thing she did was look at Atharv but he avoided her eye. Perhaps, maybe she wanted to say something to him or even for him to say something to her but he didn't even look at her. Again, when they both sat in the jeep she looked at him but he looked away. I think we've all been in the situation where we've wanted to say something to someone and maybe explain, but they've just ignored you, so you refrain from saying something either. I felt Vivi was in that position yesterday.

And then when they arrived and were bombarded by questions from journalists, again the first thing Vividha did was look at Atharv. She was as shocked as he by all the questioning. Can you imagine travelling all night, you're tired, you're not thinking straight and you arrive home to all this drama and then have a microphone thrust in your face. Anyone would be rendered speechless. Ravish and Suman are used to dealing with the media, ViTharv aren't.

And I feel(even though I know you all don't agree), Vividha was absoultely right in keeping quiet. The reporters are all about sensationalising news. Can you imagine the tamasha if Vividha had grabbed Atharv's hand right there and told everyone she was engaged to him! What Vivi did had dignity. She kept quiet because it was no one's business but hers, Atharv's and the family's. None of us want to air our laundry in public because it's no ones business what happens in our own home except ours. I'm sure Vividha will address how she feels in the privacy of their own home.

Atharv right now is misunderstanding every act and gesture of Vividha. Vividha doesn't know about the letter and she can't understand why Atharv is misunderstanding her and doubting her love for him when she 's told him she loves only him.

Like I said before in my review, I understand both Atharv and Vividha's point of view. They are both right and both wrong and I don't feel it's right to blame either one of them because they have both clammed up and are not letting the other know how they feel.

This is not the ViTharv we know but all the circumstances of the last three months have brought them to this point where they are reacting to what they see, rather then relying on what's in their heart like they used to.

Again, I'm not expecting anyone to change their mind but I do hope people will give Vivi the kindness and understanding that's always given to Atharv regardless of his mistakes.

Originally posted by: whispa

Thank you so much everyone for your replies. I really do appreciate the time you all took to write your reviews.

I know that no one(except Soumu) agreed with my review yesterday but I still stand by Vividha. But of course you are all entitled to your opinions and everyone's views are respected.😳

I'm just going to address a couple of things.

Yesterday, in the jeep scene many of you have taken issue that Vividha looked after Ravish instead of Atharv. For this I'm definitely going to blame the cv's as it was a way of keeping the dead 'triangle' alive. I guess it didn't bother me as much as it did most people.(A lolipop as Julie would say).

After Vivi had settled Ravish in the front, the first thing she did was look at Atharv but he avoided her eye. Perhaps, maybe she wanted to say something to him or even for him to say something to her but he didn't even look at her. Again, when they both sat in the jeep she looked at him but he looked away. I think we've all been in the situation where we've wanted to say something to someone and maybe explain, but they've just ignored you, so you refrain from saying something either. I felt Vivi was in that position yesterday.

And then when they arrived and were bombarded by questions from journalists, again the first thing Vividha did was look at Atharv. She was as shocked as he by all the questioning. Can you imagine travelling all night, you're tired, you're not thinking straight and you arrive home to all this drama and then have a microphone thrust in your face. Anyone would be rendered speechless. Ravish and Suman are used to dealing with the media, ViTharv aren't.

And I feel(even though I know you all don't agree), Vividha was absoultely right in keeping quiet. The reporters are all about sensationalising news. Can you imagine the tamasha if Vividha had grabbed Atharv's hand right there and told everyone she was engaged to him! What Vivi did had dignity. She kept quiet because it was no one's business but hers, Atharv's and the family's. None of us want to air our laundry in public because it's no ones business what happens in our own home except ours. I'm sure Vividha will address how she feels in the privacy of their own home.

Atharv right now is misunderstanding every act and gesture of Vividha. Vividha doesn't know about the letter and she can't understand why Atharv is misunderstanding her and doubting her love for him when she 's told him she loves only him.

Like I said before in my review, I understand both Atharv and Vividha's point of view. They are both right and both wrong and I don't feel it's right to blame either one of them because they have both clammed up and are not letting the other know how they feel.

This is not the ViTharv we know but all the circumstances of the last three months have brought them to this point where they are reacting to what they see, rather then relying on what's in their heart like they used to.

Again, I'm not expecting anyone to change their mind but I do hope people will give Vivi the kindness and understanding that's always given to Atharv regardless of his mistakes.