Misunderstanding and silence. *Edited* Reply on page 5

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Manali started off so beautifully. ViTharv fighting with each other, then Atharv saving Vividha and eventually both of them protecting and shielding each other from all danger and harm, walking hand in hand every step of the way. Just like a husband and wife.



Until they found Ravish.

The last one and a half episodes have been horrible to watch. In the name of patriotism, they have made each one of the characters say and do pathetic things. I'm not even going to talk about some of the things shown because they just made me feel so uncomfortable. I think I was even more happier then ViTharv and Ravish to see the indian army because then i knew that this track was finally all over.

I think we all know by now the spoiler that Atharv is going to pretend to become baby Atharv again because he thinks Vividha loves Ravish. I kept thinking how would this even be possible. This is Atharv we are talking about. The man who knows Vividha inside out, and who knows exactly what she is feeling just by reading her eyes. The man who is so passionately and completely in love with Vividha that he defied death twice to be with her. So why would he give her up? Why would he lie bacause the Atharv we know would never pretend.

And when i saw the jeep scene today so many of my questions were answered.

Atharv has always been the centre of Vividha's universe. When he is around, she sees no one and cares about no one except him. Yet today, he watched as Vividha made Ravish comfortable and took care of him.He saw his brother looking at Vivdha with love in his eyes. He noticed that it wasn't Atharv she was worried about but Ravish. And it hurt. The stab in his heart was reflected in the pain in his eyes. He totally misread Vividha's care for something else. Already, there was a doubt in his heart that she was in love with Ravish and her actions only multiplied that thought.

And when they finally reached home, the media was there to greet Ravish as the hero and Vividha as the wife who saved him. No mention of Atharv. Not one word about how he had helped Vividha cross the border to save his brother. Not one mention about how he had saved Ravish by not only freeing him from the terrorists but saving his life by throwing away the bomb that had been attached to him. Who cares that Atharv was shot for trying to save Vividha's izzat. All the media cared about was the army hero Ravish.

As Atharv was simply pushed out of the way by the reporters because he was deemed unimportant, Vividha was bombarded with questions and was constantly referred to as Mrs. Vashisht. As she remained silent, a proud and deluded Suman told the reporters that she was as proud of her daughter in law as Ravish was of his wife. And when she asked Ravish if he was too, his 'Yes' shocked both Vividha and Atharv.

I know many people are going to question Vividha's behaviour yet again. Why was she acting so concerned for Ravish in the jeep? It's simply because he is her friend. She wanted to make sure he was comfortable and not in any pain. Yet with Atharv there was no communication or eye contact.

And when again, when she was being bombarded with questions by the reporters, she didn't say a word. What could she say at that moment? It would have been more of a tamasha if she'd told everyone the truth about the divorce.

ViTharv 's misunderstanding has reached breaking point. All Atharv sees right now is Vividha being concerned about Ravish and all Vividha sees is Atharv avoiding her. They are both in so much pain, and yet both are silent. If Vividha isn't speaking, then neither is Atharv.

I'm not going to blame either of them in this situation because I can see everything through both points of view. ViTharv like this are going to be hard to watch.


P.S. Thankyou for all your comments. I've posted a reply on page 5.







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Posted: 9 years ago
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am so sorry whispa ...today am not gonna defend vividha...cant she just hold his hands???i mean is that more to expect from ur love wen ur hurt???
the marriage was announced to everyone n so shud b the divorce...cant she just say they re divorced...if she has swallowed something n cant open her mouth cant she just hold his hands..but no...till he helped to find ravish she was lyk atharv atharv n now??? atharv got the bullet for her not ravish...is it not necessary to comfort him???
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa 🤗

I'm sad for Atharva!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa you know that I have never questioned Vivi ever! even when she was ping ponged by the CVs in every possible way! For the first time ever I felt disappointed with her in yesterday's flag-strip scene I couldn't believe what the CVs were doing! But I thought the worst was over but they proved me wrong with today's episode!
I always say that when it comes to vitharv I just cannot pick sides and both are my favourites but I have my Vivi days and Athu days and today was definitely Atharv's Day. I honestly do not blame Atharv for feeling insecure any body would! and like Archie said I am not questioning Vividha's love but her actions! I can understand concern for a friend but the guy whom you love & who loves you back is standing next to you, he took bullet while saving your dignity? is silence the only thing she could offer him? Even if it is Atharv i.e ignoring Vivi she has never let that stop her before has she?
She is the same girl who looked into her father's eyes the same man that she worshiped & never got tired of singing his praises and tell that she loved Atharv even though she knew that it would break her father, She is the same girl who fought with the samaj for her love? Who broke her marriage, told her husband & In-laws she would prefer to be Atharv's widow and now when facing the media she is lost for words? Even if it is shock, how long does it take to recover? Others speak for her & jump into conclusions because she has given them that chance!
I seriously felt bad For Atharv more than Vividha today! He was treated like an outsider in Her & Ravish's life.

I hate the CVs for doing this to Vitharv😡 I just want them to be happy!
Edited by FortunaMajor - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa...🤗
Thanks for the patient review as always ...

But I really choose to disagree wrt vividha today ...When i say that I am not questioning her love ...but I am questioning her actions

SITUATION 1
A terrorist asks you to undress and while you are doing it 2 of your men , one a friend and 1 a Love are being held ...While your love breaks everything and runs towards you to protect ur dignity and gets SHOT ...

SITUATION 2
Sometime back this was the same man who did everthing to protect you , get u back from the perils of death and take you to a person you wanted to go to

SITUATION 3
An even earlier situation when the same man felt insecure that you do not love him

Now look at the reverse order ...Atharv loves u , then feels insecure , then still accompanies you to reach where you want to and then does everything he can to save ur dignity ...

NEXT SITUATION 4
You are now rescued ... and the only person you choose to pamper is ravish when Atharv has also got shot ... That too saving you ...I wont talk about the Dupatta scene because that was CV's karni ...

Ok a friend is a friend ... and you will be concerned ... How does that justify ur non concern for your love , Atharv ? Sometimes even loved ones need to be told how much you love them when they feel insecure and here she knows he is insecure ...and then the media thing where she stayed silent ... What up with being so mute ... ?

Somethings needs to be said and said at the right time ... These are the things that make relationships stronger for life or crash forever ... Its the times in need that people react make relationships that last a lifetime or perish forever in real life ...

No wonder they say ' You know who are your people when you are at ur lowest " This was his lowest when all that was needed is a sign of assurance from her ... even holding his hand would do ... but just letting him be for the sake of a friend is not done ... I will not blame Atharv this time


Edited by ARCHRE - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Haven't seen the epi so will comment honestly after watching. But all I want to say is, there are times when silence is golden. It helps keep peace and save face. But there are other times when silence kills and ruins lives. Vividha's silence towards Atharv is going to be the latter kind.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm going to have to disagree with you for the first time. All this while I could understand Atharv's insecurities to some extent, but at the same time I knew Vividha wasn't at fault. But not today. No I don't doubt Vividha. I know she loves Atharv only, but when you know the love of your life is already disturbed by the equation you share with your ex-husband, why would you fuel his insecurities by your overtly care for him.

Atharv is at his most vulnerable at this time and needs some sort of reassurance from Vividha. That dubatta scene was ridiculous and more than that Vividha, the way she completely ignored Atharv's presence. Again not saying I doubt Vividha's love. I don't. It's the makers I'm angry with for pandering with Vividha's character for sake of TRPs and sidey. ViTharv and their love are the sole reason why I'm watching this show and seeing their characters behaving so ridiculously (even though i know it's all for drama's sake) hurts.

Just standing their like a statue and listening to the reporters addressing you as somebody else's wife knowing very well how much it's going to hurt Atharv and still not doing anything is not the Vividha I know. So I just cannot blame Atharv for feeling so insecure.

Sorry for my rant Whispa, but I'm actually so fed up and it's like we're back to square one and it's getting exhausting. So I think i'm just going to take a break until makers sort their show out!
Edited by mcdreamy. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am so sorry Whispa 🤗... VIvidha is not defended by me for anything today,
She literally made Atharva fel like crap today or someone least impirtant in life.

She loves him, she shouts at top of her lungs that she loves him, infact we get fed up at times that how many times she neds to prove her love but we ahve to admit that actually where she shall admit and say it loud she is been avoiding it in a more lavish way.

You know when a child goes to a fair holding his dads finger,the kid enjoys all the toys, rides, voices, colors everything but even if by mistake that hand gets seperated, that very moment entire world comes crashing then the child realizes even if all the stuff still remains there but he was only able to enjoy all those until he is secured in life with that holding hand. Till then he juat took that hand for granted and avoided holding tight to it, its father who is holding.

Well this is father son analogy but this same applies to Vividha. She always always took Atharva for GRANTED when he was and is always there. FIRST for Kailash Kashyap and now in her guilt for Ravish and Suman.

Her love comes to the fore only when she loses him. Any no of instances till date you take. Kk killing Atharva, she getting maried, Atharva sent to Asylum, Atharva losing life again in terrorsits track, Atharva losing life again becos of that Sr. Vashisht. All the times she shouted that she loves Atharva but now knowing his insecurites forget shooing them away, she is fueling them knowingly or unknowingly.

One moment she says to Atharva that she died the moment you doubted my feelings but the very same women takes care of her friend ignoring that her soul mate got shot too that too for her only.

She doesnt have any explanations for Atharva for anything that is happening or she is doing. And seriously her guilt is too much overpowering her love just to prove herself innocent and in process she is ignoring Atharva way beyond his limits to tolerate. She thinks he will understand and he loves her, if not today or 2mrw.

ATHARVA

He doesnt know this Vividha at all. Hes lost three months of his life, came back only to findout Vividha is married, she got divorced and came back with him, he wanted to marry but she needed time and all he could see is she is missing, missing his old Vividha. He questioned her clearly and was told not to doubt her love. He didnt and then she says she wanna get married and soon.

He sees Rs name on plate, snaps in her wallet, letter written to Ravish, when confronted in anger she leaves him and goes to Ravish.

She then goes to endanger her life to look for Ravish, entire kashmir time he was her shield and guiding her, gets hurt, gets shot, and still entire trip all she could utter is how is ravish, where they must have kept him, how he will be rescued. And after everything is done She takes care if Ravish more than anything and ignoring Atharva yet again.

She doesnt shout that she loves him but being acknowledged as Rs wife for so many times she doesn't speak is beyond my understanding and she is definitely unfair and weak there. This is not Vividha who is afraid of people around to confess her love, hold his hands and V fam taking all advantage of it.

Atharva knew Vividha loved him but took time to realize but he doesnt know this vividha who knows whatvshe wants and still thinks that she loves R but ia not admitting to it becos of him. Her speech of words in any form will not help Atharva becos he believes she says one thing but her actions speak otherwise.

Earlier I was so excited for Atharva to be slapped by Vividha to be such a moron but I must Admit Vividha needs those Atharva doses too. I dont blame him at all. At the moment her guilt and his insecurity are overpowering their love including external forces too but everything said and done Vividha is not forgiven for today. Period.


Edited by Shweta13 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa I love you... I won't say anything because everyone is already angry... But stay strong... And you just proved something... Atharva is never out if sink... Before today no one could understand why he would pretend but now we all ohhh I get it... Cvs love this man...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ARCHRE

Whispa...🤗

Thanks for the patient review as always ...

But I really choose to disagree wrt vividha today ...When i say that I am not questioning her love ...but I am questioning her actions

SITUATION 1
A terrorist asks you to undress and while you are doing it 2 of your men , one a friend and 1 a Love are being held ...While your love breaks everything and runs towards you to protect ur dignity and gets SHOT ...

SITUATION 2
Sometime back this was the same man who did everthing to protect you , get u back from the perils of death and take you to a person you wanted to go to

SITUATION 3
An even earlier situation when the same man felt insecure that you do not love him

Now look at the reverse order ...Atharv loves u , then feels insecure , then still accompanies you to reach where you want to and then does everything he can to save ur dignity ...

NEXT SITUATION 4
You are now rescued ... and the only person you choose to pamper is ravish when Atharv has also got shot ... That too saving you ...I wont talk about the Dupatta scene because that was CV's karni ...

Ok a friend is a friend ... and you will be concerned ... How does that justify ur non concern for your love , Atharv ? Sometimes even loved ones need to be told how much you love them when they feel insecure and here she knows he is insecure ...and then the media thing where she stayed silent ... What up with being so mute ... ?

Somethings needs to be said and said at the right time ... These are the things that make relationships stronger for life or crash forever ... Its the times in need that people react make relationships that last a lifetime or perish forever in real life ...

No wonder they say ' You know who are your people when you are at ur lowest " This was his lowest when all that was needed is a sign of assurance from her ... even holding his hand would do ... but just letting him be for the sake of a friend is not done ... I will not blame Atharv this time




Archie this is so brilliantly written Nd explained.👏

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