Garib ki beti is a better mother in law

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mamiji has more brains and knew how to be in her son's good books. She did not interfere in Elena's personal life. Respected Vicki's choice even when she did not have high opinion for Elena's family

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yaa of course. Till now she is better than ishwari.bt dis was possible all becoz of vikky
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Maybe, but Vicky also must be factored in. As horrible as Vicky is, when it came to Elena, he put his foot down. Told GKB first hand that if she dared insult Elena/ didn't accept her, he would leave the house. And Elena is bindas too. I bet if GKB even tried to misbehave w/ her, Elena wouldn't hesitate fixing her and giong to Vicky.

The problem with Ishwari is not only that she's a selfish and bad MIL. But that Dev also never really said anything to her ot told her to back off. Sona tried to retaliate but even then she never went too far b/c of Dev. TBH, the entire problem could've been solved if Dev just put his foot down to Ishwari.

I know that this is just a show, but in a way, I'm also glad that Sona didn't have a child when she was living w/ the Dixits. B/c even tho Ishwari had begun changing and focusing more on the baby than Dev, you know she'd start up her same my-child/ insecurity bullshit as soon as the baby was born. She'd claim grandmother rights and get jealous over Sona mothering the baby/ Sona-Dev playing w/ their baby. Ishwari hasn't change one bit and never will unless she gets an explicit wake up call given by Dev.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Imagine the extent of Ishwari , she is pitted against RR n even my vote is in favor of RR.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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And that credit goes to two people - Vicky and Elena. Vicky made it clear that if his wife is mistreated, he will leave home with her. Whether he would have actually left home or not, that's not the point. But he put Elena's respect off limits to his mother on day 1. Elena did not try to be the best Bahu. She was who she was, in all her honest, selfish, insensitive self. She made it clear that she is not changing herself an inch since this is the version her husband fell in love with.

The result - the most unlikely pair are still together after 7 years. On the other hand, the pair we could have placed the bet on to last forever, didn't last even 7 months trying to please everybody.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

And that credit goes to two people - Vicky and Elena. Vicky made it clear that if his wife is mistreated, he will leave home with her. Whether he would have actually left home or not, that's not the point. But he put Elena's respect off limits to his mother on day 1. Elena did not try to be the best Bahu. She was who she was, in all her honest, selfish, insensitive self. She made it clear that she is not changing herself an inch since this is the version her husband fell in love with.


The result - the most unlikely pair are still together after 7 years. On the other hand, the pair we could have placed the bet on to last forever, didn't last even 7 months trying to please everybody.


You nailed it! Indirectly Dev and Sona encouraged her to behave that way.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kaustuv

Imagine the extent of Ishwari , she is pitted against RR n even my vote is in favor of RR.


Yeah! My sentiments too.
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Maybe, but Vicky also must be factored in. As horrible as Vicky is, when it came to Elena, he put his foot down. Told GKB first hand that if she dared insult Elena/ didn't accept her, he would leave the house. And Elena is bindas too. I bet if GKB even tried to misbehave w/ her, Elena wouldn't hesitate fixing her and giong to Vicky.

The problem with Ishwari is not only that she's a selfish and bad MIL. But that Dev also never really said anything to her ot told her to back off. Sona tried to retaliate but even then she never went too far b/c of Dev. TBH, the entire problem could've been solved if Dev just put his foot down to Ishwari.

I know that this is just a show, but in a way, I'm also glad that Sona didn't have a child when she was living w/ the Dixits. B/c even tho Ishwari had begun changing and focusing more on the baby than Dev, you know she'd start up her same my-child/ insecurity bullshit as soon as the baby was born. She'd claim grandmother rights and get jealous over Sona mothering the baby/ Sona-Dev playing w/ their baby. Ishwari hasn't change one bit and never will unless she gets an explicit wake up call given by Dev.


Oh,absolutely! Son having a child post separation is a blessing in disguise
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruti.

Yaa of course. Till now she is better than ishwari.bt dis was possible all becoz of vikky


Vicky is definitely a better husband. In his own style he manages stakeholders well.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovely_lady

Maybe, but Vicky also must be factored in. As horrible as Vicky is, when it came to Elena, he put his foot down. Told GKB first hand that if she dared insult Elena/ didn't accept her, he would leave the house. And Elena is bindas too. I bet if GKB even tried to misbehave w/ her, Elena wouldn't hesitate fixing her and giong to Vicky.

The problem with Ishwari is not only that she's a selfish and bad MIL. But that Dev also never really said anything to her ot told her to back off. Sona tried to retaliate but even then she never went too far b/c of Dev. TBH, the entire problem could've been solved if Dev just put his foot down to Ishwari.

I know that this is just a show, but in a way, I'm also glad that Sona didn't have a child when she was living w/ the Dixits. B/c even tho Ishwari had begun changing and focusing more on the baby than Dev, you know she'd start up her same my-child/ insecurity bullshit as soon as the baby was born. She'd claim grandmother rights and get jealous over Sona mothering the baby/ Sona-Dev playing w/ their baby. Ishwari hasn't change one bit and never will unless she gets an explicit wake up call given by Dev.





Sorry could not resist to pit in imagine Dev he is compared with Vikky and what's worse he is emerging out as a better husband. Just for record both Dev n Sona thought Vikky was bad choice for husband for Elena. 😉 Plz Sonakshi it's time u reconsider ur decision babe.

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