Without being partial to either Bani's or Meera's character in Kasam Se, all I want to say is that I feel extremely bad for both of them, so read on if you please.......
Don't mistake this post for being pro-Meera or anything like that. I am not trying to advocate anything on her behalf. I am simply talking from a woman's point of view (my own). I feel bad for the position Meera is in, maybe it is due to her own stupidity, and I feel sorry for Bani too and yes she is suffering the most, which again (sorry to point out) is due to her own stupidity........but at the end of the day, for me both of them are women and they deserve better.
Two little teardrops were floating down the river of life. One drop said to the other, "I am the teardrop of a woman who loved a man and lost him." Who are you?
"Well, I am the teardrop of the woman who apparently won him," replied the other teardrop. Love is very strange. Love is unconditional commitment to an imperfect individual. You need it but when you love, it's like destining yourself for pain. You become addicted and dependent on the person. You become strong and at the same time, you open yourself up to being hurt. Love can make you bear any kind of pain and any kind of sacrifice. It can also make you feel stupid and act stupidly. Sometimes when you love and end up giving so much of yourself, subconciously you only discover how much you've given when the person you love hurts you or says goodbye. Then you realize, an important part of yourself is already with that person. It goes away when he leaves and you are left with a sickening, empty feeling inside. Tears are bound to shed from your eyes no matter how you force yourself to keep them in. Most teardrops ever shed on this earth have been for love or lack of it. When tears dry, a silent loss sticks to your heart for a long, long time.Well, that's what you get for caring so much about someone. But how can you regret it? To give yourself freely and lovingly is the most beautiful thing you can do. Loving makes you real. Loving also makes you cry.
And that is why a teardrop is also BEAUTIFUL in its own unique way.........whether Bani sheds it or Meera does not really matter.