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Posted: 17 years ago
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Without being partial to either Bani's or Meera's character in Kasam Se, all I want to say is that I feel extremely bad for both of them, so read on if you please.......

Don't mistake this post for being pro-Meera or anything like that. I am not trying to advocate anything on her behalf. I am simply talking from a woman's point of view (my own). I feel bad for the position Meera is in, maybe it is due to her own stupidity, and I feel sorry for Bani too and yes she is suffering the most, which again (sorry to point out) is due to her own stupidity........but at the end of the day, for me both of them are women and they deserve better.

Two little teardrops were floating down the river of life. One drop said to the other, "I am the teardrop of a woman who loved a man and lost him." Who are you?

"Well, I am the teardrop of the woman who apparently won him," replied the other teardrop. Love is very strange. Love is unconditional commitment to an imperfect individual. You need it but when you love, it's like destining yourself for pain. You become addicted and dependent on the person. You become strong and at the same time, you open yourself up to being hurt. Love can make you bear any kind of pain and any kind of sacrifice. It can also make you feel stupid and act stupidly. Sometimes when you love and end up giving so much of yourself, subconciously you only discover how much you've given when the person you love hurts you or says goodbye. Then you realize, an important part of yourself is already with that person. It goes away when he leaves and you are left with a sickening, empty feeling inside. Tears are bound to shed from your eyes no matter how you force yourself to keep them in. Most teardrops ever shed on this earth have been for love or lack of it. When tears dry, a silent loss sticks to your heart for a long, long time.

Well, that's what you get for caring so much about someone. But how can you regret it? To give yourself freely and lovingly is the most beautiful thing you can do. Loving makes you real. Loving also makes you cry.

And that is why a teardrop is also BEAUTIFUL in its own unique way.........whether Bani sheds it or Meera does not really matter.

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davia389 thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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bani si suffering more than anyone.. only jb are amde for each other

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Posted: 17 years ago
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oh myyyyyyyyyyyy!!
that was beautiful n so true sabsj!! 👏

n ya our opinions DO matter ..im being positive as im loving the current track

Edited by jani4eva - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Of course only Bani, she loves Jai and Jai loves her and we have seen that in the past few episodes as to how much. JB are made for each otherand yes Bani has suffered more than Meera

As for Meera well what can i say, yes true that she is not treated right but who told her to get married to Jai and then fall in love with him too. She knew that he loved Bani alot and on top of that she knew that even though Jai says Bani is dead for him but he is and was still married to Bani and now even after knowing that he still loves Bani, Meera is still after him.

So therefore if i had to pick between Bani and Meera it will always be Bani
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Posted: 17 years ago
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nice to see ur post after so many days dii... 🤗

regarding the post... i pity meera more than bani... 😊
Edited by abhilashasharma - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Of course only Bani, she loves Jai and Jai loves her 👏
WE WANT JB=KASAM SE
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Posted: 17 years ago
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one and only bani
she suffered a lot for jai from beginning and jai-bani relation is true
Edited by banibanijai - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Sabby ,

Hello baby ,Good to see you and Happy New Year😊

Promise me that u wont lecture me this time 😉 ..last one on Motherhood i still remember see i am a good student 😊

U know right now i feel more pity for JW more than anyone else,JW for some strange reason was never able to gain Bani and Maasi's trust,these two women are most imp in his world and they never had enuf faith in him that he would be able to handle the situation.He failed there and for a Man TRUST and FAITH comes before anything else.

JW always blindly trusted bani in all occasions the Daksh time he did see bani with Daksh ,he still gives her benefit of doubt and asks her where she was and she lies him,next again bani gives a miss to kids Annual Function JW loosing faith in bani wasnt instant it came all gradually and slowly.
On that day too he asks was she with Daksh when kids were kidnapped she says YES and when he asks whether pics were true she says YES.

I Pity JW more than them as,this Man's only mistake was he is JW and loves unconditionally and once bani's truth is out he will break again!!!

Bani still has a chance she can walk out,move out and yea may marry another guy and leave happily so is Meera she knew what she was getting into when she was marrying JW,she hoped things would turn out in her favour but she cant deny she knew things may even go other way,she entered into this hole all knowingly,without any obligation.

Second person who comes close is Myself,self pity allowed na

And one person whom i feel like smacking and killing is The One and Only One EK

Edited by who am i??? - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hey Saby, nice to see you on the forum after a while!🤗

I have to say that your post was beautiful as usual and very much missed!😊

Coming to Bani and Meera - they are both suffering....Yes Meera's character has no potential in the current track of KS and possibly an alternative character could have been more exciting but isn't she suffering the same amount as Bani did in the initial days of KS?😳

Meera is married to a man who loves another women like crazy but is burning in hatred for Bani...

I.e. JB were married in the initial days of KS where Jai screamed and ranted at Bani and vowed to destroy Pia because she betrayed his love.

It was Bani who faced his wrath then and it's Meera who is the target of his pent up frustration now.

Also, if Meera shouldn't have fallen in love with Jai [who is her husband and as she has amnesia (? - -I didn't watch the show for ages so there are gaps in my knowledge) so has every right to feel something for him] doesn't that mean that there shouldn't have been a RanRan angle?🤔

After all, Rano married Ranveer who was in love with Raashi.....what right did she have to take away another women's love; even if she was away for 5 years?

Yes I'm a JB supporter and will probably pick up my belan for bashing if JM ding-dong or something equally as annoying; but after actually reading a few updates I don't think Meera is the one to blame.....as far as she can remember, Jai is her husband and life - even if he lashes out at her.....sorry to say it guys but if there is a JB angle then Bani will be the 'Other Woman'😒

Urgh - I hate the Kreatives!....And no; I'm not a member of the PMC!

And sorry for the whole essay....probably sounds bodged as well but all the thoughts just came to my mind so I penned them!😃

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Happy New Year Saby.

Nice to see your post and so nicely put the situation of two women, in love with the same man, but who may only love one. No one asks you to fall in love, it just happens...

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