Milind's trust. - Page 3

Shabz, let us presume everything is resolved. What if tommorrwo something else crops up which on the face of it gives the impression that Prachi is still having the hots for Neev? Would he then again go into his doubting mode. Should the rest of Prachi's life be spent in sorting out his doubts? That is a very unhealthy way to lead one's life. There needs to be some trust in one's spouse even without requiring explanations everytime.

Let me give you an example. Prachi may be out shopping one day and meets Neev and they converse. Milsi happens to be there and witnesses it. He waits for her to tell him about her meeting Neev. She may never think much of the meeting and may forget to mention it. Would he then immediately conclude that they are having a thing going?

The money bag issue and the reunion party issue may have been big things in the past. If the baby raaz comes out and Milsi knows the extent to which Prachi went to protect his family even at the cost of hurting her ex-lover, would that not be proof enough that she loves him? If so, would she have stolen money from him to give to Neev. Would she have gone to the party to flirt with Neev? These now become non-issues.

Milsi needs to realise that an essential part of love is faith just as Prachi needs to realise that an essential part of marriage is communication. By that I dont mean she should tell him anything and everything that happens to her in a day and bore him to death. But atleast she should not keep from him important things which affect both of them.

optimist u've mentioned some good points but to be honest i think that if everything was resolved he wouldnt have any reason to doubt prachi again... we all know that the basis of their marriage was anything BUT love and that the money issue and the prostitute scandal was shown to happen early on in their marriage…a time where he thought prachi still loved neev hence it was not hard to believe that she was indeed hand in glove with neev. No doubt that after the whole baby scandal milind would have to admit that he is the only one prachi loves, but he would still think that she was unfaithful to him at the start of their marriage with neev and I think this misconception of his needs to be erased from his system at the earliest before it crops up again later on in the future. The unresolved issues being cleared will show milind that prachi never thought once about neev after their marriage and that will assure him that he was her number one priority right from the start!

Originally posted by: shabzc1

optimist u've mentioned some good points but to be honest i think that if everything was resolved he wouldnt have any reason to doubt prachi again... we all know that the basis of their marriage was anything BUT love and that the money issue and the prostitute scandal was shown to happen early on in their marriage…a time where he thought prachi still loved neev hence it was not hard to believe that she was indeed hand in glove with neev. No doubt that after the whole baby scandal milind would have to admit that he is the only one prachi loves, but he would still think that she was unfaithful to him at the start of their marriage with neev and I think this misconception of his needs to be erased from his system at the earliest before it crops up again later on in the future. The unresolved issues being cleared will show milind that prachi never thought once about neev after their marriage and that will assure him that he was her number one priority right from the start!

Shabz I hate to repeat myself. It would be good to have all the past secrets come out tumbling out of the cupboard. No doubt about that. That should only reaffirm Milsi's faith in Prachi. But the resolution of all the raazs itself should not be the basis of that faith. The resolution of the baby raaz is proof enough of Prachi's love. There cannot be a bigger proof. That is why the creatives thrust this sordid, illogical track on us (or so I think).

About your point that Milsi would have thought that Prachi was unfaithful to him at the start of the marriage, I really dont think he would. Remember earlier too these issues were not resolved and yet he chose to trust her only because she told him she had thought of only him all along and that for her her past with Neev does not matter but her future with Milind. He did not require any proofs of that at that time. He accepted her word for it and ended up concretising their relationship. But the lack of proof came back to haunt him in the form of the baby raaz. That is why those past issues got revived and became issues again. Thanks to Ayesha's help, the guy connected these and came up with his own version of Prachi's betrayal.

Now the problem of lack of evidence of Prachi's love would be solved because there is no bigger evidence than the resolution of the baby raaz. The guy still cannot doubt Prachi after this.

Even in the unlikely event that he thinks that Prachi continued her affair with Neev for sometime after their marriage before she fell in love with him, I think he will not hold it against her. He is not so much interested about what she did in the past but is more interested about the present and the future. His anger right now is that he believes that she is still continuing with her affair, not that she had one in the past. Aferall the guy himself believes he had a one night stand with Ayesha (while still being married to Prachi) which he wants to put behind him. On the other hand, I would expect him to be secretly pleased that Prachi too was not too faithful to him at the start of their marriage so his ONS can be set off against her unfaithfullness!

The past details such as the money bag issue, the truth behind Prachi attending and lieing to Miland about attending the re-union party should come out, the reason being, that all these issues no matter how small they may appear compared to the big baby raaz has haunted Miland for a loong time now and these issues did bother him. But he never looked back on those issues since 0ct 15th, but its seems that they were in a hidden corner in his mind....and since Ayesha the ..... cared to mention these unresolved issues in Nov 7th epi, I for one would love to see these issues resolved once and for all, but this is like asking for the moon in Kym land. Anyways if the divorce goes through, none of this will matter to me anymore :(