no means well...NO ONLY - Page 2

Originally posted by: _KOMAL

Hey welcome to the forum.
By reading your post it seems you went through a rough patch in your life... assuming it as the post is really deep with your own connection.

Definitely agree with you. Atharv is a true gentleman... who understands the word NO.

Sorry I don't have the time to post something good as I'm going clubbing. Will comment in the morning.

Originally posted by: cool_kriti

I get where u r coming from. But you actually missed a stmt by ATharv where he clearly said - "Agar mujhe ye lagta ki aap mujhse pyar nahi karti toh mei kabhi bhi aapke peeche nahi aata" .

Atharv was sure of the fact that VV loves him. She kept visiting the tabela often in in the context of meeting Payal. She kept coming to his house by making reasons. Athrv was sure Vividha liked him. She pleaded her dad to save Atharv more than once. Her father even went insecure seeing VV's love for Atharv. But Atharv also knew she is suppressing her feelings as she is always dependant on her father's approval. She wanted her to think on her own and take her decision and not based on her father's feelings. And thats what he did. Even after VV proposed him he didnt accept but waited till he was sure she is thinking from her own individuality and not a forced opinion. That is where he empowered her.

Secondly, he is portrayed to be very angry on his father and thr is a reason cus he left them all. If u remember the puja scene when VV scolds Atharv to let his mom do the puja.. Thats when he learns tht he shouldn't interfere in her faith and post tht he never questions. So Atharv is flawed but he learns from his flaws.

Like I said he is not Mahaan . Atharv's 6th vachan asking Vivi to move on was 'if something hapnd to him(death)' but he was in front of her eyes and still he felt she moved on. So obviously he is angry on her

Of course he is insecure abt Vivi Ravish but he isn't forcing his opinion on her. Instead he asks her clearly as to what she wants. R u telling me ppl shouldn't even react to news? Normal human beings react to stimulus 🤣

Atharv is the first amazing character on TV. If you do not agree to my post its ok. Just gave a try to clear few things

Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

Nice post...its really hard to finda guy lyk atharv who stands by truth whether it hurts or not...even now he wants to know wat vv wants ..if she has fallen for R it may hurt him...but still he wants to face that truth n let her have wat she wants...no wonder vividha cant leave him...which girl will leave a guy lyk atharv sujata who loves u even when u moved on in life with ur husband aftr loving him so deeply...who will let go a man lyk him who blasts wen ur wrong n wen u urself is not wanting ur freedom...a guy who can misunderstand yu blast yu bt the very next moment is ready to fall on yur feet asking forgiveness...

Atharv Sujata is a complete man with his flaws making him more likable to every girl..

Coming to "aap mujhse pyaar karti hoon yeh aap nahi jaanti" wasnt that soo clear at that tym vividha was in love...if she wasnt y she didnt blast him for holding her??

Instead she was lost in his eyes saying nahi karti😆even aftr running through whole ajmer to hug him infront of everyone she didnt accept she loves him😆does that means she didnt love him??

I dont know love for particular character can turn all other character dumb in someone's eyes ...funny..

if Ravish is supporting suman's love for rk is it necessary atharv shud support sujatha's love???then wats difference btwn the two??suman's love for rk gave ravish his name n status in society...but sujata's love for rk gave atharv only the tag illegtimate...he is the victim..il hate him if he didnt hate rk...

Originally posted by: himanshup85

u said exactly my opinions on the first two parts.

Thirdly i want to ask something -

WOULD ANY SON/DAUGHTER BE HAPPY IF THEIR MOTHER IA DOING THE THING WHICH IS THE SOLE REASON OF ALL THE MISHAPS OR DISRESPECT DONE TO HER?

WOULD YOU NOT WANT YOUR MOTHER TO MOVE ON IN LIFE SO THAT SHE COULD BE HAPPY WHEN THE OTHER PERSON HAS ALREADY MOVED ON?

WOULD YOU WANT YOUR MOTHER TO GET DISRESPECTED EVERYDAY OR EVERY SECOND JUST BECAUSE OF THAT MAN WHO DIDN'T EVEN CARE TO LOOK BACK AND CHECK THEM IF THEY ARE ALRIGHT?

27 YEARS ARE A VERY LONG TIME FOR ALL THESE WOUNDS.

Now coming to the last part i don't think Atharv was insecure when name Ravish was called i think it was more about the fact that he was thinking about Vividha if she had fallen in love qith Ravish and trying to suppress or hide her feelings so that he would not get hurt

P.s: Its all my opinion u r free to disagree.

Originally posted by: cool_kriti

I get where u r coming from. But you actually missed a stmt by ATharv where he clearly said - "Agar mujhe ye lagta ki aap mujhse pyar nahi karti toh mei kabhi bhi aapke peeche nahi aata" .

Atharv was sure of the fact that VV loves him. She kept visiting the tabela often in in the context of meeting Payal. She kept coming to his house by making reasons. Athrv was sure Vividha liked him. She pleaded her dad to save Atharv more than once. Her father even went insecure seeing VV's love for Atharv. But Atharv also knew she is suppressing her feelings as she is always dependant on her father's approval. She wanted her to think on her own and take her decision and not based on her father's feelings. And thats what he did. Even after VV proposed him he didnt accept but waited till he was sure she is thinking from her own individuality and not a forced opinion. That is where he empowered her.

Secondly, he is portrayed to be very angry on his father and thr is a reason cus he left them all. If u remember the puja scene when VV scolds Atharv to let his mom do the puja.. Thats when he learns tht he shouldn't interfere in her faith and post tht he never questions. So Atharv is flawed but he learns from his flaws.

Like I said he is not Mahaan . Atharv's 6th vachan asking Vivi to move on was 'if something hapnd to him(death)' but he was in front of her eyes and still he felt she moved on. So obviously he is angry on her

Of course he is insecure abt Vivi Ravish but he isn't forcing his opinion on her. Instead he asks her clearly as to what she wants. R u telling me ppl shouldn't even react to news? Normal human beings react to stimulus 🤣

Atharv is the first amazing character on TV. If you do not agree to my post its ok. Just gave a try to clear few things