no means well...NO ONLY

Originally posted by: anjs

HIs one dialogue, that 'You love me, you just dont know it yet' That he said in phase 1, spells to me what he is... that kinda of lover is not right.

In phase 1, Vividha so many times said no, yet he kept challenging her father that he will get engaged to her at any cost. Even Sujata accepted this in the Diwali episode, that, 'he announced his marriage with a girl, who didnt even reciprocate his feelings at that time'

So i dont understand how he understand No means No.

Another thing, this Man talks about a woman's right and freedom to make her own life's decision. Yet he never let his own mother peacefully love her lover / husband. No matter how wrong or coward RK is, but it was her choice to love him despite all his short-comings. But every time that she even tried a do a mere pooja in his name, Atharva would create a ruckus, scream at her and walk away in anger, there by ruining her peace. I dont know how then he allowed his mother the freedom to love her own husband.

This Guy himself had told Vividha that if something happens to him, she should move on. Yet, the moment he heard of her marriage. He accused her of cheap things, of enjoying a physical relationship with her husband, despite knowing he was also living in the same house. He even accused her of being a gold digger.

Yesterday, the moment he heard the name Ravish on her mouth, he immediately got insecure and pouted like a girl, till she told him that she wasnt speaking to Ravish but his mother.

I dont understand what nayee soch this character is showing. Whatever it is, is just in preach, but zero in action.

Originally posted by: anjs

HIs one dialogue, that 'You love me, you just dont know it yet' That he said in phase 1, spells to me what he is... that kinda of lover is not right.

In phase 1, Vividha so many times said no, yet he kept challenging her father that he will get engaged to her at any cost. Even Sujata accepted this in the Diwali episode, that, 'he announced his marriage with a girl, who didnt even reciprocate his feelings at that time'

So i dont understand how he understand No means No.

Another thing, this Man talks about a woman's right and freedom to make her own life's decision. Yet he never let his own mother peacefully love her lover / husband. No matter how wrong or coward RK is, but it was her choice to love him despite all his short-comings. But every time that she even tried a do a mere pooja in his name, Atharva would create a ruckus, scream at her and walk away in anger, there by ruining her peace. I dont know how then he allowed his mother the freedom to love her own husband.

This Guy himself had told Vividha that if something happens to him, she should move on. Yet, the moment he heard of her marriage. He accused her of cheap things, of enjoying a physical relationship with her husband, despite knowing he was also living in the same house. He even accused her of being a gold digger.

Yesterday, the moment he heard the name Ravish on her mouth, he immediately got insecure and pouted like a girl, till she told him that she wasnt speaking to Ravish but his mother.

I dont understand what nayee soch this character is showing. Whatever it is, is just in preach, but zero in action.

Originally posted by: cool_kriti

I get where u r coming from. But you actually missed a stmt by ATharv where he clearly said - "Agar mujhe ye lagta ki aap mujhse pyar nahi karti toh mei kabhi bhi aapke peeche nahi aata" .

Atharv was sure of the fact that VV loves him. She kept visiting the tabela often in in the context of meeting Payal. She kept coming to his house by making reasons. Athrv was sure Vividha liked him. She pleaded her dad to save Atharv more than once. Her father even went insecure seeing VV's love for Atharv. But Atharv also knew she is suppressing her feelings as she is always dependant on her father's approval. She wanted her to think on her own and take her decision and not based on her father's feelings. And thats what he did. Even after VV proposed him he didnt accept but waited till he was sure she is thinking from her own individuality and not a forced opinion. That is where he empowered her.

Secondly, he is portrayed to be very angry on his father and thr is a reason cus he left them all. If u remember the puja scene when VV scolds Atharv to let his mom do the puja.. Thats when he learns tht he shouldn't interfere in her faith and post tht he never questions. So Atharv is flawed but he learns from his flaws.

Like I said he is not Mahaan . Atharv's 6th vachan asking Vivi to move on was 'if something hapnd to him(death)' but he was in front of her eyes and still he felt she moved on. So obviously he is angry on her

Of course he is insecure abt Vivi Ravish but he isn't forcing his opinion on her. Instead he asks her clearly as to what she wants. R u telling me ppl shouldn't even react to news? Normal human beings react to stimulus🤣

Atharv is the first amazing character on TV. If you do not agree to my post its ok. Just gave a try to clear few things

Originally posted by: anjs

HIs one dialogue, that 'You love me, you just dont know it yet' That he said in phase 1, spells to me what he is... that kinda of lover is not right.

In phase 1, Vividha so many times said no, yet he kept challenging her father that he will get engaged to her at any cost. Even Sujata accepted this in the Diwali episode, that, 'he announced his marriage with a girl, who didnt even reciprocate his feelings at that time'

So i dont understand how he understand No means No.

Another thing, this Man talks about a woman's right and freedom to make her own life's decision. Yet he never let his own mother peacefully love her lover / husband. No matter how wrong or coward RK is, but it was her choice to love him despite all his short-comings. But every time that she even tried a do a mere pooja in his name, Atharva would create a ruckus, scream at her and walk away in anger, there by ruining her peace. I dont know how then he allowed his mother the freedom to love her own husband.

This Guy himself had told Vividha that if something happens to him, she should move on. Yet, the moment he heard of her marriage. He accused her of cheap things, of enjoying a physical relationship with her husband, despite knowing he was also living in the same house. He even accused her of being a gold digger.

Yesterday, the moment he heard the name Ravish on her mouth, he immediately got insecure and pouted like a girl, till she told him that she wasnt speaking to Ravish but his mother.

I dont understand what nayee soch this character is showing. Whatever it is, is just in preach, but zero in action.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Is there any wonder why Atharv Sujata is loved so much? He is one of a kind!

He KNEW vividha loved him but was suppressing her desires and that's exactly what he doesn't want! He wants her to be free of shackles, free of any suppression. He gives her wings and that's why Vividha is herself with him.

It's no mystery why Vividha's life begins and ends with him. He makes her feel alive!

Lovely topic :)