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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: prabharajani

my trust on atharv had not wavered even a single minute not even yesterday, coz i knew he was not able to comprehend what vividha really wants, today he has shown he always places her above his happiness, his pain and his insecurity, this is atharv sujatha for you



That's why there can only be one man for Vividha! She's the centre of his world <3
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: beagleboy



True and stays true to Atharv's characterisation - how it was initially conceptualised by the writers and understood by the audience. There is a clarity of thought and dignity in Atharv. There is no deviance from what Atharv was in the start. As much as Vividha has changed, Atharv is changed too. But his core is the same. As is Vividha's.

Asking a woman her choice and giving her the freedom to make it is so important. Both Ravish and Atharv love/have loved Vividha and wish/wished to free her. Their way of doing so is so very different. Atharv wants to do it silently and with dignity, where Ravish made a public spectacle and created a drama that bound her to him (by feelings of guilt) rather than freeing her - she is neither able to move forward nor does she want to step back. Atharv, irrespective of what he wants or may think, wants to know her choice and give her the freedom to walk her chosen path, and he wants to help her do it- without aplomb.

The two men can be compared to two types to give to charity - one does so loudly shouting from rooftops about his generosity so the whole world knows that he is magnanimous and donates to charity. The other type is more silent. Donates even more. Silently without the world's knowledge because he really BELIEVES in the cause and not because he wants to be applauded.



You reminded me of that line which Vividha said to Ankit about how Atharv doesn't need to try to get love, people fall in love with him because of how he is. That's what everyone loves about him. He's not there to show how great he is, nor does he have the intention to act selfless. He just believes that each individual should be able to live the life they want to and Vividha's choice matters more than anything even if it gives him the greatest of pains. He will do silently instead of making a spectacle.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: whispa

If only Vividha had heard what Atharv said today. It would have overwhelmed her like it overwhelmed me.



We all know how much Atharv loves Vividha. He fought the world and came back from death for her. Yet if she told him right now, that she loves Ravish, he would say it's fine. It would break his heart and soul but he would be happy for her because it was her choice.

Doesn't that just make you cry Reemz.

Today's episode made me really sad and emotional Reemz, . I'm seriously in need of one of your happy PM's!



He's so naturally beautiful, his only intention is to see Vividha free so she can make her choices without any burden. He gives her those wings to fly to wherever she wants and that itself is such a selfless trait without even showing it off. Their love makes me cry because it's so painful yet so complete.

You know what I said? It's 100% :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

vitharv r together today cz of vividha being strong in her love...Even if Ravish doesnt want vividha to go she can apply for divorce...vividha was never Ravish's ...but in vitharv's case vividha has loved him...now atharv letting vv go if she wants R is sumthing very painful...he has fought the death for her...he is yet to face KK for her...

nowhere atharv n ravish's sacrifice r same



He's experienced Vividha's love, he's been with her but after what she's been through, hes silently considering the options. Ultimately what she wants will happen! He sets her free and that's why she loves him so much. Others will shackle her, he will free her!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

Agree with you that the best of Atharva's character is the genuine respect he has for both his mother and Vividha, and all women...


He trulycares what they think and gives them both thefreedom to choose and be in control of their own decision...

I feel for Vivdha and herstruggle to come to terms with her feelings of guilt about her choosing Atharva over her forced marriage to the man she has developed to respect and like, it is not easy for Vividha as she is now caught between a rock and a hard place where she has to come out of it all and be confident enough to stand up to pressure from the so called "Samaajh"
and her undying love for her soulmate...

Have to wait and see how Vividha will eventually come out of this dilemma and make her decision that will make her truly happy...

Some may say she is selfish but I see it as her heart wants what makes her heart sing with joy ,
when she is with Atharva...where she was felt happy and learned to stand up for her rights...




It's such a contrast isn't it. Vividha felt suffocated and burdened in that house because she was just drowning in guilt to the extent that it still hasn't left her! On the other side, Atharv has now recovered and he's already probing in to what the love of his is feeling, what she wants. He wants her to feel free again. That's why they're so beautiful! He's always empowered her, Atharv is Vividha's soul which is ultimately yearning to be free & happy!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Do you know the saying that true love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own? Well Atharv seems to have embodied that today.

And you are so right that this is the first time somebody has actually considered, what does she want and need?

Her mental wellbeing is certainly not great, she seems unsettled and all out of kilter. Who's surprised after the last few months she has had?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Alishah-

Do you know the saying that true love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own? Well Atharv seems to have embodied that today.

And you are so right that this is the first time somebody has actually considered, what does she want and need?

Her mental wellbeing is certainly not great, she seems unsettled and all out of kilter. Who's surprised after the last few months she has had?



She was so used to suppressing herself and being shackled, she doesn't know what it's like to be free again. It's such a real approach! Kudos to the makers for actually showing how a marriage like this can have traumatic after effects.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*



He's so naturally beautiful, his only intention is to see Vividha free so she can make her choices without any burden. He gives her those wings to fly to wherever she wants and that itself is such a selfless trait without even showing it off. Their love makes me cry because it's so painful yet so complete.

You know what I said? It's 100%
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