Everyone's changed. - Page 3

Originally posted by: ARCHRE

Whispa...🤗

Awesome review ... what were you saying its not ok and all...its absolutely excellent 😛

Saddening and real the episodes are , arent they ?

I just find it very difficult to even look at vividha so lost and in pain these days ...

I really missed guddi today...

Just the way Atharv has Sujatha to show him reality , guddi was the one to show that to Vividha... She would have helped if she was around ... Every time Vividha cries I feel a pain in my heart...She is so closed herself to everybody ...how much they have destroyed her all together...

I feel so

Seeing her

And the whole onus to heal her now is on Atharv ... because he is the only one who cares , isnt it ...How painful is thi journey going to be ...😭

Like Ravish hit the final nail in the coffin and did the maximum damage and it was like ... here she is yours , i have scared her for life now ...I so hate the entire V- fam ...

I hope the journey to finidng each other starts soon ... and we see them heal ... Atharv Sujatha made me feel really good today that he is a part of vivis life and soul...

and now whispa ...

for you not replying to my post yesterday

Originally posted by: baubles

Whispa🤗 Wonderful post...like literally everything you've written is so well thought of, this is gonna be one of my favourites among all your reviews.

I really don't have anything to add..it's perfect. So I'll just put down my favourite bits from the post...and a lil on them.

We always felt that once Atharv would come back, everything would be okay. But life's not like that. There's no magic wand that suddenly takes away your hurt and pain. When you've lived for three months with words suppressed, feelings hidden and grief masked, it's suddenly very difficult to show those feelings because you just become so good at hiding them.

This is so true. Like she said yesterday, she was lifeless when she went there. A little life, a reason to live, a small hope bloomed within her only once she got Atharv back.

But a major part of her was still in shackles. She was still lying to people, albeit unwillingly. She was still carrying the burden of the marriage she never wanted. She had her Atharv right here, but it broke her to see what he had come to.

She needs time to understand and process her thoughts, gather herself before being able to pour it all out to Atharv.

He's finally realised everything is not okay. Vividha has changed and it hurts because he can't read her like he used to. The vivacious Vividha, whom he only had to look at to see what she felt, is hidden behind this dark cloud which he can't seem to reach.

This has got to be my favourite bit. I don't know what it is about these lines, but the last line hit me hard.

He is trying his best to get her to open up.

He is there, ready to do anything and everything he can to reduce her pain. He is there for her every second, to readily share or even take away all her pain.

But alas, he can't read her the way he could cos those three months of her life are a blank book to him. He knows she has suffered, she's lost herself but doesn't have the slightest idea HOW.

What exactly happened, the situations she faced, the incidents that took place..he had no clue. And she isn't able to say it all either. And he can hardly do anything knowing nothing. He's lost as well.

Vividha has to heal and Atharv is going to help her through it. I just know he wouldn't give up till he sees the smile on Vividha's face..the smile HIS VIVIDHA SMILES.

I'm glad Sujata was of some use today. I still don't like her one bit though. But again, I'm not a forgiving person as such so it's normal.

To end it, I don't know why I say I don't have much to write in the start. I end up doing lotsa bakbak any way😆

Originally posted by: dreamer.ankita

Hi Whispa,

Today every single post is just making me cry!

ViTharv's love is just draining me emotionally!

Their love is so heartbreakingly beautiful it hurts to see them like this!

I loved that the makers did not forget guddi!

Vivdha crying for guddi was so painful to watch! Her pain is just unbearable to watch!

I am so glad our sujata is back! Loved how she made Atharv see things!

I always wanted sujata to explain vividha's sufferings to Atharv bcos she has witnessed it all!

Atharv again proved why we all love him so much! Why we know everything will be alright becos he's there to ease away all the pain!

Its time to unravel a new chapter of their life... its one hell of an emotional rollarcoster😭

Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

Hey whispa

Isn't this what we were saying since past 4 months. That atharva would ASK her what she wants. And not impose his decision on her.

Today was the beginning to address his fears ,insecurities.. her grief,guilt. . This girl wasn't even allowed to mourn for her sister. Suman wanted her to move on so that her son could be happy. When she came back all that grief of missing her sister has return ten folds.

I feel really bad for ViTharv. But this ain't the first time they r facing difficulties. I'm sure they ll pass this phase too .. like always. Together.

Originally posted by: KK84

This is heartbreaking to read. You have penned it down perfectly as usual Whispa.

It's funny isn't it usually 3 months fly by but for those who go through an ordeal, it's like 3 years. Vividha aged 3 years in these 3 months.

So much has changed and they just can't pick up the pieces of that broken glass and fit it all together, even if they try will there always be cracks there? But that's the beauty of Vitharv, they don't expect a picture perfect finish. They accept that the gaps may never be filled so they give each other space and they will sacrifice one another for the sake of the others happiness.

They have changed, their love has changed too but so does everyone else's. your love will grow as you grow.

Vitharv will make it work because both want the same thing.

In this doom and gloom, we def need some light moments that bring them back together.

I don't believe that things will never go back to normal- it's just a thin ice that needs cracking. Vividha is just in an ordeal which she will overcome because she has been through the worst, now whatever she decides...end of the day will only bring her happiness.

I guess it is a big deal - she got married and she married a man who accepted that she lived for only one person- he set her free - that's a huge amount of guilt on your head - she will always have this lump in her throat until he finds someone he can truly be happy with.

Her focus has changed but her love for Atharv hasn't. She has matured but she can only be herself with Atharv and I am sure with time, she will open up.

It def is a sad feeling for us all. We are engulfed in their sadness to the point that how do we even smile. It makes me so sad I feel like I know these two, I want to do something to help our Vitharv. It hurts to see them both feel so helpless.

Hats off to Shivani and Vikram for their sincere and amazing performances. They live breathe eat drink sleep Vitharv and because of this, we feel like we are a part of them.

Originally posted by: whispa

Archie🤗

Yesterday's episode just really made me sad. Vividha and Atharv who could read each other like a book and today they are both hurting because circumstances have changed them.

It was really hard to see them as they were yesterday confused and in pain. All Atharv wants to do is see Vividha happy and make her smile again. But she has been through so much, it's just not that simple anymore.

And apologies for missing your post yesterday! I'm so scatty sometimes. Next time I do that, just PM me😳

Originally posted by: harmanjot

Beautiful post Whispa 🤗

You put your thoughts so well & you penned down Vividha's pain brilliantly.👍🏼

Im really shattered to see Vividha in so much pain. Past three months was not only difficult but its take Vividha life's full on roll. She not only went through mental trauma but due to this she deeply shattered & lost herself😭

Sometimes its not person fault to change them but circumstances & situations makes person to change. These hard situations makes person more wiser & mature.

As archie said Vividha was broken into pieces & only Atharav can join these broken pieces again & heal her. Its not easy for Atharav it will take time. At present she subdued her feelings. This guilt completely takes her. She lost herself.

She properly not mourned her little sister Guddi death. Because of Suman who only wants happiness for her son. She was devastated when she looks Guddi belongings & remebering her & says " kaash yeh sach hota, kaash tu yaha hoti, kaash aisha nahi hua hota, kyoun guddi! kyuon chali gayi!". These dialogues shows how deeply she misses her.

Atharav realises that her Vividha is changed & he can't read her & this things hurts him more. He knows she battling inside & only wants to know what she wants. For him her happiness is more important.

I loved mother son convo. Its good to see old headstrong Sujatha again. She see his pain in his eyes & ask she doubts Vividha love. He say he wants Vividha to rediscovered herself again & wants to help her. Sujata explains her sufferings & pain which she bears. Each breath she take has only his name & well being. But Atharav wants to know only truth.

" Main bus sach janana chahata hu maa!, sirf yeh sach ki Vividhs chahiti kya hai, Agar woh kuch chahti hai, Aur phir woh sach mere khilaf hi kyoun naa ho, Main uska saath dunga, Kyunki woh uski Khushi ke liye hoga".

See this man beauty the women he loves more than his life & for him her happiness is important than his pain to lose her forever. This is pure love & why we all love Atharav Sujata.

And thanks to god he didn't ask this to Vividha otherwise she hurts more. Sujata explains Vividha only wants you & wants to starts new life with you. And its upto to you how you give her reassurance that everthing will be alright.

Atharav love & support not only rebuild her lost strength again but brings her out from this guilt & helps her in healing again.

The gift of life, gives you the greatest opportunity to live and chance to rise above any situation. With hopeful attitude you can overcome any struggle.

Lailah Gifty Akita, Think Great: Be Great!

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

It's tough isn't it. When you've had to suppress yourself, your entire personality for so long that you don't know how to return to it. Atharv is trying to fathom her mindset, he will get her out of this.

Don't be sad Whispa, outdoor hai na!