Who ruined/ruining Ravish's life?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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So I have been reading that Ravish's life is ruined, Ravish has hurt the most in all 3 of them, so I just want to know who is most responsible for his heartbreak..

Ramakanth: He knew that Atharva-Vividha loved each other, but while talking to Kailash instead of saying Atharva's name came out giving genious idea to ruin all 3's lives. And also senior R had the decency to call Suman and tell her that he found bahu for her knowing how much she hates Sujata.

Kailash: Well nothing is hidden from anyone what he did, and how he did. So not to going to write more about it.

Suman: First of all for believing KK(an unknown man) and her good for nothing husband. Secondly, she emotionally blackmailed Ravish to get married to Vividha. Thirdly she trusted everything Kailash told her. Fourthly without talking to Vividha she kept ranting to Ravish how much Vividha loves her. She kept giving hopes to Ravish now and than without knowing Vividha's feelings. She knows that Vividha loves Atharva crazily but still wants Vividha to stay married to Ravish by hook or crook

Ravish: I know I know he just said yes to this marriage because of Suman and Ramakanth only, but still he had an option of telling Suman that he wants to talk and know the girl he wants to get married to, but he didn't. He like a dutiful son accepted what Suman said but never talked to Vividha about it. When he came to know about Vitharv's truth he asked to stay in this drama. Her likeness towards her started after he came to know about Vitharv's truth ( I have a reason to say this. If you want to know what is that reason ask me without making fun of my opinion and I will let you know)

Vividha: She wanted to save Atharva's life so she said Yes without knowing whom she is getting married too. She never lead Ravish on. She even used to flinch at his touch. She tried to leave the house three times, since she wants Ravish to move on but everyone stopped her by some kind of stupid excuses. She even asked for divorce. Also she tried to remove everyone's favorite mangalsutra in today's episode.

So I want to know who was that person who is responsible for Ravish's life dilemma right now?! Just so you know I am only going to answer people with some sensible answers and not to the people who thinks Vividha needs to redeem herself and stuff.

P.s. About mangalsutra. I have said this before and will again say it. This story is about 3 people Atharva, Vividha and Ravish. So mangalsutra is not going to come off until Atharva gets to know the truth. Secondly, if she gives back mangalsutra does not mean that she Is free from this sham of marriage. For her this marriage is not important, but for Ravish it is. Thirdly, mangalsutra is to prove that how much being married to someone else in front of society is stopping her from Doing what her heart wants to do or what her desires are.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lyk u know vv can redeem herself if she falls for Ravish😆 seriously???wat u expect from this type of viewers???if that happens will there be anyone to blame vividha ruined atharv's lyf???
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Your post is not based on facts You say you will be answering to sensible people but you are so BIASED and illogical yourself You just want to cover up Vividha nothing more

while your blames on KK Ramakant suman are fine but your blame game on Ravish and defense system of Vividha is out the facts of serial and does not make any sense either


You are blaming Ravish He should have asked suman he wants to talk the girl This that but didnt you see his conversation was interrupted with suman that day when suman send him the mail .? The guy was busy at border in tense situation You were expecting him to make wedding plans in this situation ?Here suman is at fault she should have given him time to come back She should have given him choice Even if he does not want to marry the girl Ramakant chose for him it should be ok but suman was blinded with Ramakant's wish He has to fulfill it on every cost Thats suman's fault not Ravish . Ravish trusted his parent's choice . He trusted his mother who never did wrong to any wrong to him He trusted her If trusting your mother is wrong then yes Ravish is at fault Even i will marry on my parents wish to anyone they will point to but fortunately my parents are not dumb to make such blunder with my life which Ramakant and suman made with Ravish's life Ravish is not at fault for trusting his parents His parents are at fault for messing up their innocent son's life

Did Ravish not tell his mother the truth on same day itself for his sake or was it for Atharva's sake?How he would keep Vividha and Atharva under same roof if he would have told suman right at that day Even sujata hated Vividha and did not want to go with her Atharva wanted to be with Vividha , suman hated sujata What should Ravish have done in that situation ?

Vividha herself vowed in front of sujata mein Ravish ka saath nibhoan gi , mein bahu ki har zimmadari nibhaon gi Ravish only asked her to take care of Atharva When did he ask her to take care of him and his mother ? Ravish did not want to shock his mother suddenly because he knew she will be angry and hurt knowing this He wanted to make her understand so that she is able to face it but a lot of problems came in between which delayed that and those problems were not Ravish's fault Family was suffering from one after the other problem How would Ravish bombard his mother with this in between that?


You said Vividha never lead Ravish on ?Instead of telling him the truth when she was acting as his wife Wasn't that her leading him on ? Now dont give the illogical excuses she did not trust him enough She trusted him enough to sleep on his bed very first night without any fear he will try to touch to her then why she did not feel the need to tell him the truth right away ? He asked her so many times but she did not tell Her priority should have been get KK arrested , find Atharva , cancel this marriage but Vividha madam was playing marriage drama so how she was not leading Ravish on ?If she would not have seen Atharva in the house she had decided to move on with Ravish keeping Atharva in her heart This is what she was thinking

Cvs are also behind for even the truth being delayed in front of suman because they inserted so many problems for Ravish in between but they gave it reason One cannot blame Ravish for it but there is not one justified reason for Vividha for not removing Mangalsutra Why she does so much drama on it ?Remove it and go to Atharva Ravish is asking her but she cries so much and unable to do it on her own Once Ravish removed from her neck She wore it again now it has become her jaan Her life slips out of her each time Ravish asks her to remove it

Ravish is victim of kailash , Vividha , Ramakant , suman
Edited by _Hannah_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No one .. like cyclops of Ulysses story.. nobody ruined.. its he himself
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes Ravish himself ruined his life for ViTharv fans 🤣 but where his life is ruined ? He is perfectly cool Only mahan mata Vividha and pita ji Atharva sujata are victims of the world including Ravish 's
Kudos to such NONSENSE
My mistake for posting in this thread
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If tomorrow my parents came to me and said marry so and so, lets call him Dave, and:

I had never seen Dave
I had never spoken to Dave
I never met Dave
Didn't even know what he looked like
Didn't consider if he wanted to marry me
Didn't consider that we might not be compatible
Didn't consider what kind of a person he is

And still married him just because they said so, who would people blame then?


Yeah people can say Vividha ruined Ravish's life, but tell me what reason he had to marry her? At least we know Vividha was forced into it, Ravish wasn't.

No one should take a lifelong decision based on someone else's say so.

When someone is about to get married they're always told to think carefully, not rush into anything etc. When people have short relationships and then get married and the marriage breaks down, people always say they rushed into things, they should've taken time. When people get into relationships and say they're in love within a few days, others sometimes consider them to be rushing.

Yet Ravish married without even knowing the person, but that's ok apparently. It's normal for him to also fall in love with a woman who never gave him any attention. Remember he fell for Vividha when she was still so distant from him. Sorry but that is so unrealistic. Now Vividha has asked for a divorce but still the dude wants to play a hide and seek game. He can't keep her trapped forever.
Edited by lionstar - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ridz I just have one question.
Rk's last wish (they thought ) is marry viv ravish. And they did.

Now they came to know Rk wanted atharv viv marriage. Now last wish is not important?

They respect last wishes which is convenient for them. Period.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I hate this vividha...kire lare uspey...jal k rag ho jaye (shivani salamat rqhe talking about V)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Princess bang on post! It's a team work but I would hold Ramakant & Suman the most responsible, Ravish and partially Vividha too.
First, Vividha has done a mistake in Ravish's case but no she never led him on and to be honest if watching Atharv die was not the only alternative she would have never married Ravish.
Besides Ravish still has a way out he can get a divorce, and try to move on because staying with a wife who does not love you is going to be difficult than moving on from a wife who never loved you back.
Second Ravish is also responsible and that cannot be denied either, he was in the border agreed he still could have told that he wanted to come back & get to know the girl before he made a decision. Weren't he & Suman communicating via email too?
Ramakant was an absolute A**ho** in this situation! Why on earth would he call Suman & say he found a Bahu? Why on earth did he ask for Vividha's hand for Atharv from Kailash and not tell him the name of the guy?
Third Suman, this woman is really dumb, to trust her son's life with a stranger especially with the way her own marriage turned out. She was so happily jumping with the delusion that Vividha love's Ravish but did she think how? How on earth is a girl who has never met her son in love with him?
Fourth Kailash he ruined Ravish's life by marrying his daughter to him just to upgrade his status and boost his own ego. But this man did not just Ruin Ravish's life but almost killed Atharv and turned his daughter's life upside down.
But I would say that Suman is most responsible, let us for. Second agree that Ravish is obedient and let his mom make his marriage decision there are quite a few people like that but did his mom deserve that trust? She just got him married for her husband's last life and kept convincing herself that Vividha loved Ravish without any solid reason.
Edited by FortunaMajor - 8 years ago

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