Originally posted by: whispa
I think I saw this episode slightly different from most of you and I know most of you won't agree with my views so please feel free to disagree. 😳
First of all my poor Vividha. Right now this girl is suffering the most. I know many people might feel that it's Atharv, but at this moment in time, he's got it the easiest. Yes, he fought his way back from death to be with Vividha but as far as he is concerned, his problems are over. He has no memory of what he's been through and most importantly he doesn't know Vividha is married. So he is in peaceful ignorance of all the problems that he is going to be facing. As far as he is concerned, he has come back to his Vividha and he just wants to marry her as soon as possible.
And Ravish.
When I started to watch the episode, I was dumbfounded when he told his family that they had to keep everything a secret from Atharv, especially the fact that he was now married to Vividha. And I thought to myself, what an idiot! Not again. Didn't Ravish remember the horrible impact all his lies had last time when he kept Atharv a secret from everyone. But as the episode wore on, one fact became glaringly obvious to me anyway.
Ravish loves Atharv more than he does Vividha.
Ravish would be fine if Vivi went away from his life, he would get over it. But not Atharv. His actions proved that to me today. From making sure that all evidences of the Vashisht name were removed from the mansion to asking Vividha to remove the mangal sutra, Ravish wanted to protect Atharv. Yes we all know that when Atharv finds out he's going to hate the fact that he was lied to. But Ravish is not Atharv. They are two different people with different personalities. Ravish is dealing with the situation in the way that he thinks is best. And the fact that he asked Vivi to remove that mangal sutra shows me that he will keep his word about getting Vitharv married.
And that brings us back to Vividha. Why did it seem that she was reluctant to take off the mangal sutra. Was she feeling guilty? Is she feeling in love with Ravish?
No, no and no.
Vivi didn't feel guilty, after all she was going to divorce Ravish anyway, nor did she have any epiphany either that she loved her husband. It was simple. The makers cannot afford to show their female lead happily handing it over to her nice husband so she could be with the man she loves. That would just make her look like a real heartless vamp. But the fact is, she was going to hand it over. She was willing to remove it because for her, it is a burden underneath in which she is being crushed.
Vividha is only her real self when she is with Atharv. So when he takes her by the hand to the mandap and tells her he can't wait anymore to get married she smiled. And when he tells her that he will whisk her away if he makes her wait next time, she blushed.
And despite that mangal sutra round her neck, she still can't keep away from him. As she caressed his face and hands gently reminiscing about how much he has been through to come back to her twice, she can't help but cry because his pain is her pain. And as she turned to leave, Atharv holds her from the back, telling her that he can't keep away from her much longer. And it takes every ounce of her being to stop from responding because in his arms, the world just melts away.
In the pre-cap, Vivi is slaying Uma who tells her not to break her marriage. This is the real Vivi. The one who will defy society and anyone else who will stop her from being with the man she loves.
I understand what you are trying to say. Vividha is hesitating not because of the fact that she was "Married" to Ravish .,
CVs want to show that one should not hesitate to break marriage just because they were forced to marry someone.
That is true.
Vvidha however dumb she is (and she is a real dumbo cvs take pleasure in showing her as dumbo but that is another "story") did not want to marry Ravish.
She did not want to marry Ravish. But before she could explain things started happening.
Now the message cvs want to convey to us is this . Vividha need not consider her marriage to Ravish real.
Vividha is going to tell her mom how much is she /uma considering her marriage to KK.
That is the reason she is going to give to show that just because one is married need consider it final and binding.
Fire vows not withstanding Vividha's life has become tangled now. It would not have mattered so much if she married another guy instead of Ravish's half brother.
But that is the story.
They do not have to beat around the bush. Need not show garbage like ulte phere saying bakwas like they "practice" in "some" "parts" of Rajasthan . They need not show pandit coming and conducting "ulte phere"
Then it would become a national issue. You bring in religion and pandit then it becomes controversial.
So many relgions say marriage is unbreakable.But people in these religions also divorce
But it also has to do with the heart. Just saat phere does not make a marriage real. So there is no need to do "utle phere" and ruin religion.
Just go to court and get divorced. that is why they have courts. they cannot make it religious --the divorce.
Would they dare do undoing marriage vows in some other religious place of worship? would they dare do it with priests from some other religion?
No they won't dare. why bring fake made up rituals showing Hindus doing it for divorce? Just like some other religions which do not have divorce in them but still those people get divorced in courts go to court and get divorced Vividha.
No need for explanation. Uma also can get divorced. Not worth being with a goonda like KK.
If Vividha's love is so strong then that is what matters.
Why are suman and sujata bullying Vividha with an imaginary ritual like "ulte phere" I Have never heard of such crap.
Also Suman and Sujata have no say in the matter. Nor can they threaten Vividha. Uma cannot do emotional blackmail . That too boing in her place.
It is Vividha's own free will to do what she wants. to be Atharv's widow if he had died. or his wife if he lived. Her wish her pleasure. that is it.
Why show more nonsense? Fire vows are important. But what is more important one has to decide.
Don't bring in fire ritual undoing vows to break a marriage. Religion does not break marriage. Court does that. For those who are in such kind of compulsion. It is not wrong. You can even say marriage vows taken under compulsion do not hold good .
We are not saying don't break a marriage just because you married under pressure. Nobody is such a fool. But yes marriage is serious business and one has to take their vows seriously.
If they get married of their own free will. to persons of their choice. and then they want to break it then this advice is given to such people.
Not in Vividha's case. She was dragged into marrying Ravish. She should explain this to Ravish. Under what circumstances she was forced to marry him.
It is not a compliment to Ravish to hear how she married him.
But com'on Vividha out with it. Tell them what a villain your father was and what a criminal your brother was. Tell that to Suman and Sujata
I laughed when Sujata told suman that marriage vows cannot be "reversed" this who will know better than them.
Su Su got married of their own free will. Sujata was in love with RK. married and procreated. without caring for consequences and suffered a lifetime.
Suman lived as second best knowing there is someone else. without knowing the other side of the story.
But they both wanted their life partner . They were not compelled to live with him.
How can they compare Vividha's life with theirs? They are heartless bullies and true MILs in the real sense of the word.
Let Vividha make the decision. Let court help her. Don't ruin religion with your half baked stupid ideas like ulte phere. It does not sanctify the breaking of marriage. Rather it makes us feel insulted as followers of the great sanatana dharma.
And numerous others who follow those religions which also have vows which say "till death do us part" but if one partner is unfair to the other partner they still go to court and divorce.
But the religion does not do it in the religious premises. Even though divorcees still marry in the religious places.
Think well before writing any dialogue. Do not justify bakwas. And do not show bakwas to justify a perfectly justified decision
Where compulsions exist such stands should be taken by people like Vividha
KK should be jailed and along with him Vividha's brother too.
Though I cannot understand if such persons like KK exist. 😡
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