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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think I saw this episode slightly different from most of you and I know most of you won't agree with my views so please feel free to disagree. 😳


First of all my poor Vividha. Right now this girl is suffering the most. I know many people might feel that it's Atharv, but at this moment in time, he's got it the easiest. Yes, he fought his way back from death to be with Vividha but as far as he is concerned, his problems are over. He has no memory of what he's been through and most importantly he doesn't know Vividha is married. So he is in peaceful ignorance of all the problems that he is going to be facing. As far as he is concerned, he has come back to his Vividha and he just wants to marry her as soon as possible.

And Ravish.

When I started to watch the episode, I was dumbfounded when he told his family that they had to keep everything a secret from Atharv, especially the fact that he was now married to Vividha. And I thought to myself, what an idiot! Not again. Didn't Ravish remember the horrible impact all his lies had last time when he kept Atharv a secret from everyone. But as the episode wore on, one fact became glaringly obvious to me anyway.

Ravish loves Atharv more than he does Vividha.

Ravish would be fine if Vivi went away from his life, he would get over it. But not Atharv. His actions proved that to me today. From making sure that all evidences of the Vashisht name were removed from the mansion to asking Vividha to remove the mangal sutra, Ravish wanted to protect Atharv. Yes we all know that when Atharv finds out he's going to hate the fact that he was lied to. But Ravish is not Atharv. They are two different people with different personalities. Ravish is dealing with the situation in the way that he thinks is best. And the fact that he asked Vivi to remove that mangal sutra shows me that he will keep his word about getting Vitharv married.

And that brings us back to Vividha. Why did it seem that she was reluctant to take off the mangal sutra. Was she feeling guilty? Is she feeling in love with Ravish?

No, no and no.

Vivi didn't feel guilty, after all she was going to divorce Ravish anyway, nor did she have any epiphany either that she loved her husband. It was simple. The makers cannot afford to show their female lead happily handing it over to her nice husband so she could be with the man she loves. That would just make her look like a real heartless vamp. But the fact is, she was going to hand it over. She was willing to remove it because for her, it is a burden underneath in which she is being crushed.

Vividha is only her real self when she is with Atharv. So when he takes her by the hand to the mandap and tells her he can't wait anymore to get married she smiled. And when he tells her that he will whisk her away if he makes her wait next time, she blushed.

And despite that mangal sutra round her neck, she still can't keep away from him. As she caressed his face and hands gently reminiscing about how much he has been through to come back to her twice, she can't help but cry because his pain is her pain. And as she turned to leave, Atharv holds her from the back, telling her that he can't keep away from her much longer. And it takes every ounce of her being to stop from responding because in his arms, the world just melts away.

In the pre-cap, Vivi is slaying Uma who tells her not to break her marriage. This is the real Vivi. The one who will defy society and anyone else who will stop her from being with the man she loves.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa 🤗

Last three minute was nice 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you Whispa! This reassurance was much needed as I fear with every episode that when Atharv finds out what will he go through. Will he try to be the 'bigger' man and 'let' Vividha go? And tbh this would be the worst thing the makers can do in terms of nayi such esp since SP aRe always hell bent of showing women empowerment.

I am praying they show that a marriage only due to saat pheras and all doesn't make it sacred. People have divorces for a reason. Let's get practical now.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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TBH I'm fed up of defending Vividha because she's so clear that there's no room to doubt. Listen to what she says and look at what she does. Her character naturally feels guilt towards others but then that same girl will go caress Atharv's face because she can't control herself, that same girl question her own mother about the sanctity of marriage. LISTEN to her! LISTEN to what the makers are trying to show via her ideals.


Interesting perspective of Ravish. I guess you're right. He was willing to let Vividha go before too but he doesn't want to let go of Atharv because he is his brother. It's just a shame that I don't feel the brotherly love onscreen!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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To be perfectly honest Whispa, reading the updates and then watching the episode does make one think differently!

RAVISH:
I have decided I will carry on with my assumption of him being evil later on. Therefore, I refuse to acknowledge anything he does. (😆)! However reading your perspective on the episode, does make one think differently. He says he loves Atharv (actions speak otherwise) as such he wants to protect him but how does lying to him protect him? The doctor merely said he was suffering from exhaustion so of course he could have told her the truth, no? Well then we have the moment where he fainted just seeing Ramakant's picture, which begs the question of, how strong is he mentally to withstand the truth? From that perspective, I guess what Ravish did could be understood. However he was then giving Vividha those weird look, which tells me, he won't let her go because he will expect Atharv to repay him back all the favors he has flourished on him. (BUT again thats yet to come to play...we'll witness it in the near future😆)


ATHARV:
He is still living in his bubble thinking he has defeated KK and that his Vividha is still there with him. As long as he is in that bubble he does have it easy but when that bubble burst, a lot of people will suffer. He just wants to be with her, and no matter how much she wants him back, circumstances have become such that it will be very difficult for them to go back to things like before. His reaction is what is making everyone so impatient! 😆


VIVIDHA:
She is not in a difficult situation per se because her path is very clear for her. She knows what she wants and she knows how she is going to get it. She feels bad for Ravish but she knows he understands her and therefore she will carry on with her quest of being with Atharv. HOWEVER, she is shit scared of hurting Atharv when the truth is revealed. Like she said, Atharv has gone through a lot just to be with her, he even fought death twice just so he could come back to her. How does she tell him now that she is someone else's wife? His own brother's wife? She feels like she has betrayed him and him constantly mentioning marriage is not helping her. Her monologue reminded us of where her heart was, her smile when she realises his restlessness of wanting to marry her was heartbreaking. And then when he wakes up and tells her he cannot wait any longer, those 5 days were like death to him, he just wants to be with her, broke her heart. She wanted to hug him and explain what had happened but she couldnt. How does she tell him its been more than 5 days, how does she tell him things have changed ? How does she tell him she blames herself? Will he understand, or will he want to leave her? She knows he is a man of principle but surely he will understand her? She loves him and him only, dear god please make him understand! (her plea was ever so evident).


Precap was the best. She is too good! Go girl, slap her with some home truths!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You know after watching today's episode i am feeling some sort of ways, and i am not sure i like the way i am feel.

Though Ravish may have good intentions, and is doing the right thing according to his understanding, at the end of the day, it is adding up to the Blow that Atharv' is going to feel when the truth is revealed. He already has a painful chapter of Vividha's life to read and to know. He already has a broken soul to heel, amend and make whole.

At the end of the day, it's not Ravish, it's Vividha who's loyalty, and honesty will be at stake. I am absolutely against the idea of hiding the truth from Atharv, because he DESERVES to know the truth.

I get the sentiments attached to MS, and as much as it frustrates me, i will my opinions to myself. I just have one question: How can one piece of string that has absolutely no Emotions attached to it, alter the way a woman thinks? How can it stop that woman from following her heart?

Anyway having said all that, i feel extremely bad for Vividha right now. She has become a Kathputli between her family and her situation. She wants to be herself, but the world wants to make her something she's not.

Vividha is triggering too many of my struggles and i can't help but feel her pain. I' get frustrated with her for not just slapping that MS on everybody's face and telling them off. but on the other hand I feel her helplessness in being so bogged down with the family expectations, society and utter non-sense.

I just wish this dram is over soon, so ViTharv can together help sort this problem. The truth will be the REAL test of their love and bond.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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After yesterday's dhamakedar episode today it was a bit dull except those last 3 minutes. I felt.

Fast and foremost Vividha. She is may fav and she will remain my fav always. Just imagine her plight, she wants to be with her man, the man whom she loves but the only thing holding her back that she can't as she is legally married' atm. And I don't know why people still doubt her, she is not at all guilty, and why she would be guilty? What she has done? Nothing. She knows what she wants. She is very clear about her choices. And upar se people are forcing her and de-motivating her to not to divorce Ravish. There is no one who can stand by her. And the most important thing is she is scared. Scared of Atharv's reaction, when he will come to know about the truth, she knows that Atharv will be heart-broken, she knows that his worst fear has become a reality for them both. Her sufferings are something I can't put it into words, it's something which is killing her from inside.

I don't know what Ravish's problem is, why he always wants to hide everything from everyone. What bothers me so much is he is an army officer but he lacks truthfulness and self-respect. He should have learnt something at least from his previous mistakes. Hiding things will only create problems.

The last 3 minutes. A ViTharv moment, it was bliss to watch. Their intensity is something out of this world.

ViTharv are ethereal.

ShiVik are effing HOT!!!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whispa

You have said it all. I ll just pose few questions here.

How did ravish decide that not telling the truth was the best option? Bcoz he always does this. Hide the truths until they them self come out.

R asks to give MS. But marriage is still intact. Won't it be correct to give divorce papers instead of constantly asking to hide the marriage? Again lies here.

Marriage being postponed y are they still staying in v house as per Atharv?

Y didn't he remember seeing rk pic after waking up?

Atharv saw rk's pic in v house. He recognised R as an army man. For the guy that he is I'm surprised he is not connecting the dots.

After this I really feel there is something else to the story. Atharv does know something more than he is letting on.


ViTharv scene was everything we could ask for. His restlessness.her obligations stopping her from being herself.

R loves his Bro. He can show it rather than keep saying it. Coz I don't feel it .

Apart from this I feel viv should really take a stand and tell R that she wants the truth out.

Edited by sweetygirl28 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

Whispa 🤗

Last three minute was nice 😊


Linda🤗


Nice? The last three minutes were hot!😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I find your views awesome even if I don't agree😆

Completely agree with the struggle of Vividha. She can't relieve herself from the burden that she has been bearing even though he is back where he belongs. Must be so difficult to hide, she probably feels as though she is betraying him!
Not a pleasant situation for all involved.

Not really sure on my thoughts about Ravish for the moment. Will ponder over it for a few days before commenting. You make some fair points about him though!

That was the best little inclusion of today's episode I thought. Even though she knows it is not yet possible and despite the fact that she is married to somebody else, a smile still played on her lips at his suggestion of marriage. If that is not true love, I don't know what is.

Precap Vividha = Amazing Vividha
Should be good tomorrow!

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