Choice of lehenga

Why do you think Meghna wore her own lehenga for the ceremony? Do you agree with her choice

And why do you think so that it was her abhimaan & not swabhimaan
Infact it was neither about abhimaan or swabhimaan but about old relation over new relation.
She did wear her mom's lehnga cos since childhood many memories of her were attached with that lehnga.
In my opinion Meghna did right.
If suppose tomarrow my in laws force me to make a choice between Old & new relation and i will definitly choose Old relation.
Sandhya didn't give her a chance to explain anything.
And come on this is drama itna toh suspence banta hain.
She made her own way cos Sharda's words gave her strength.

Soni and Karaali.

@Enigma - I don't think it was abhimaan either but she did want to give it back to them. I can't blame her for that as Sandhya was totally obnoxious. Suspense is OK for the audience - but it was not nice how she put her mother in a spot.

Originally posted by: Karaali

@Enigma - I don't think it was abhimaan either but she did want to give it back to them. I can't blame her for that as Sandhya was totally obnoxious. Suspense is OK for the audience - but it was not nice how she put her mother in a spot.

@Namita - I think she was motivated by revenge and not swabhimaan. She should have at least discussed with her mother. She could have found a diplomatic way of resolving the issue, instead of throwing it up in everyone's face.

Originally posted by: _Namita_

It's the letting her mom down that's bothering me. Like I said, she keeps talking about her mom's swabhimaan but she was the reason for the disrespect today.

I loved that she possess the strength to give it back, but the way it was done wasn't good. It came off vindictive!! We know she isn't vindictive.

Looks like we all agree that we love her choice of lehenga just her method wasn't good.

Originally posted by: _Namita_

Soni and Karaali.

Did you both notice how everyone's face fell when Meghna arrived and her sheepish look.??

I felt Meghna should have at least kept the dupatta from her in laws lehenga.

I understand the concept of swabhimaan (self respect) but it shouldn't come at an expense of someone else. In this case Sharda's. Did Meghna think for a moment that what the consequences would be? I know because we saw that Sandhya was arrogant and disrespectful. Meghna did the same. Where is the difference??

I don't think your issues should be aired out for the world to see. Solve it diplomatically. That's what I expected from Meghna. Like use both lehenga's and don't let anyone down. She keeps talking about her mom's swabhimaan but she herself made the situation so that Sharda couldn't meet Sandhya's gaze.

This incident is a reminder that Meghna is not going to react well to certain things.

Makes for interesting TV that's for sure!!

Originally posted by: gemini54

Hi I am new to this show have been in one other forum before. I have not watched this show but I liked what you wrote below. As I view it Swabhimaan is your own self worth and not for show

Originally posted by: _Namita_

Soni and Karaali.

Did you both notice how everyone's face fell when Meghna arrived and her sheepish look.??

I felt Meghna should have at least kept the dupatta from her in laws lehenga.

I understand the concept of swabhimaan (self respect) but it shouldn't come at an expense of someone else. In this case Sharda's. Did Meghna think for a moment that what the consequences would be? I know because we saw that Sandhya was arrogant and disrespectful. Meghna did the same. Where is the difference??

I don't think your issues should be aired out for the world to see. Solve it diplomatically. That's what I expected from Meghna. Like use both lehenga's and don't let anyone down. She keeps talking about her mom's swabhimaan but she herself made the situation so that Sharda couldn't meet Sandhya's gaze.

This incident is a reminder that Meghna is not going to react well to certain things.

Makes for interesting TV that's for sure!!