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Posted: 8 years ago
#11
I feel she should have at least respected her in-laws choice by wearing a piece from their collection. We all know her mother's swabhimaan is everything but what about her future husband/in-laws?? I thought she was going to wear both as i saw it on the forum.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: -Enigmatic-

And why do you think so that it was her abhimaan & not swabhimaan
Infact it was neither about abhimaan or swabhimaan but about old relation over new relation.
She did wear her mom's lehnga cos since childhood many memories of her were attached with that lehnga.
In my opinion Meghna did right.
If suppose tomarrow my in laws force me to make a choice between Old & new relation and i will definitly choose Old relation.
Sandhya didn't give her a chance to explain anything.
And come on this is drama itna toh suspence banta hain.
She made her own way cos Sharda's words gave her strength.


but dont you think there should be balance between old and new relations what meghnna did was right but partially she chose love over money nd i appalaud her for that 👏

but she could have kept the words of her in-laws too by wearing at least the duppta
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13
All of us here applaud her for her choice but the way she did it wasn't right. When new relationships are formed, balance is the key.
Every married woman knows that. Not sure how many of us on here are married.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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most likely swabhimaan since the spokesperson taunted about meghna's choice being downmarket & all...since her mom made it for her, i think she felt irked about it...now how she handles future rituals is yet to see
Edited by _Meena_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#15
In marriage both parties have to make some adjustments...Chauhan parivaar agreed for this marriage without thinking of status...But meghna disrespected her inlaws..I respect her swaabhimaan and all.but she should balance both the relations..
Edited by mittykutty - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#16
This girl has chutzpah!

She is not going to take things lying down. Granted Sandhya and NK are going to be upset - but they were being too high handed and demeaning towards an educated young girl!

Yes, Meghna could have been diplomatic but what the heck - it is her sagaii and she can choose whatever she wants to wear.


Edited by anonee - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17
I love Meghna but did you all notice that Sharda couldn't hold Sandhya's gaze. That's what's bothering me. She was irked for sure and Sandhya was very rude. But Meghna was just as rude.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Namita_

I love Meghna but did you all notice that Sharda couldn't hold Sandhya's gaze. That's what's bothering me. She was irked for sure and Sandhya was very rude. But Meghna was just as rude.


To tell the truth - I find Sharadha odd. Which mom does not stay back with her daughter and doll her up on her sagaii or wedding day? Which mom is unaware of the day that her daughter has to sign a job agreement?

Sandhya is habitually rude - with Nirmala, with the press, and with any one she considers below her status. She walks over Nirmala and was planning to walk over Meghna too. This one act of Meghna will give her pause! So, I am glad Meghha put NK and Sandya in place. Sandhya is just an employee - she is not Nirmala's sister!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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That's true. NK and Sandhya aren't nice people. I suppose the execution should have been better. That being said the elders are going to get a talking to. That's not right.
Meghna kinda sealed the deal that her upbringing isn't great just like NK and Sandhya think. We viewers know it's not true but that's what her father-law is going to think.
Those two are going to be at loggerheads. Would be interesting to see what Kunal does.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agreed with various POVs here about decision being right but not the execution. It's Meghan's sagai, she can wear whatever she deems right esp something which hold sentimental value for her - like her mother's bridal dress. BUT she could have been assertive earlier when Sandhya was shoving her choice on her.


I get it, maybe Meghna was too caught in the moment so she couldn't muster up the courage maybe? But it doesn't seem in character for someone like her. I liked the fact how she told Sandhya Nirmala and others about the fact that she went for the contract signing. More so I like the fact that no one opposed her choice of job (as it's so typical in hindi serials).

From a personal pov, Meghna should wear what she wants but atleast inform others beforehand. Everyone was blindsided and that irks people. If say Sharda had given something to Kunal to wear in a wedding function and he didn't wear it (for whatever reason) and didn't even tell anyone, even Meghna might be somewhat irked.

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