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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nandini says love is life and there is need for sacrifices
The need for sacrifices and compromises is often mentioned in discussions of romantic relationships. According to Romantic Ideology, love is frequently described as involving .sacrifices. But relatioships require fewer sacrifices and more compromises.

Here C an N need not do any sacrifices, but in dire need of compromises. Both have lost their precious ones.So to compromise is to give up the pursuit of the vengeance and not to risk the existing friendly situation, .


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Siva let's rather call this as an adjustment and a few willing life style and thought process changes. Love or no love, any relationship needs this for one person to get attuned to the other and start understanding them. I cannot see much of a sacrifice or compromise in any of this. But you know how Nandini is. She is so lovable and at the same time fanciful about the concept of love. She keeps talking about love like a Ph.D professor though she has never fallen in love actually. If she was plainly going to talk about how she loves her Pitha Maharaj, even Chandra does it for his mother, his Acharya, his sister, and all the people around him. The difference is he doesn't rant or make a show about it. This essential difference is all the beauty about this characterization of Chandra and Nandini.
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Originally posted by: shailusri1983

Siva let's rather call this as an adjustment and a few willing life style and thought process changes. Love or no love, any relationship needs this for one person to get attuned to the other and start understanding them. I cannot see much of a sacrifice or compromise in any of this. But you know how Nandini is. She is so lovable and at the same time fanciful about the concept of love. She keeps talking about love like a Ph.D professor though she has never fallen in love actually. If she was plainly going to talk about how she loves her Pitha Maharaj, even Chandra does it for his mother, his Acharya, his sister, and all the people around him. The difference is he doesn't rant or make a show about it. This essential difference is all the beauty about this characterization of Chandra and Nandini.


As you said it is a thought process change and both of them do not aware of the changes they undergo internally

We can say there are in transient and human thought is the process by which human ends...both are possessed by an undercurrent desire which may evolve as love

I really loved your analysis and have to read twice to understand this.Thank you
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shaillu nandani also like praised how he's r pita maharajah used to praise her I think she's looking for that in Chandra too and Chandra does his duty yes he doesn't see it as love as he dislike anything to do with love and nandani has grown in a very loving family at least to her she doesn't realise her father brothers duel personality, they both have sacrificed a lot and compromise all of us need to do it in some way or another let's see how It goes I love your take shallu so nice
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Posted: 8 years ago
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For nandani love is beautiful and way of life she's loving person and so is Chandra but unfortunately Chandra had a very difficult life and he saw love as something burdensome because that's how he saw it had his foster parents been loving it would have totally different at least he's foster mom.was kind and loving but very weak person so he had that in his head it makes you weak I guess the way one grow up

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