Suman should slap Ravish

Yess Suman should slap Ravish much more than Vividha. He has done so many things which makes him worthy of her slaps.
First slap for hiding truth of his perfect marriage from her.
Second for making Vividha to be a part of his lie.
N his biggest sin for which he should get slap is for hiding his pain from her for such a long period. Yess he has no right to hide his pain from his mother just for thought that she already hv bear so much in her life. When she could bear the pain of giving u birth, she can handle anything. No matter u say it or not but a mother can always sense her cub's pain. He was heartbroken, shaken n crying but yet chose to hide this, Suman must take his class tomorrow.


About Vividha, I don't why this dialogue writer always come in btw me n her. I was all set to be her fan today, formatted all the things she done in my mind palace but again that "HUM" spoiled things all again. Koi na better luck next time 😉

Despite some sarcasm within your content, am going to try and formulate a discussion (or answer).

Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Despite some sarcasm within your content, am going to try and formulate a discussion (or answer).</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I believe Ravish SHOULD have told Suman the truth because Suman is his mother. They share a relationship that nobody can break. He had that responsibility towards her to tell her the truth but he didn't, citing he was waiting for the right time therefore pertaining in a false facade of a perfect relationship.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Vividha is no one to Suman. She doesn't need to tell Suman anything. Had she done so, it would have been out of courtesy rather than anything else. Vividha and Suman have no blood relationship therefore have no allegiance to one another. However, the same cannot be said for Ravish.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Ravish even kept Atharv and Sujata hidden from Suman (wasn't that dhoka?).😆</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Him hiding this nonsense for so long has served to break Suman more. She said tonight, why did Vividha marry a man who she did not love. Well Suman, the same can said to you my dear. Why did you remain in a relationship when your husband was very clear that he never loved you? She had her reasons as did Vividha, one could argue.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Vividha deffoo has some fans because no girls on TV have depicted such guts (that's how I perceive it)! To each their own!</font>

will u plz try to elaborate about which part u thought I'm being sarcastic?? Cuz I had no any intention of sarcasm while posting. About that "HUM" word, I found that out of place that's why mentioned it. About Vividha n Ravish responsibility take, for me Ravish n Vividha are both responsible for their actions but separately. U r not responsible for ur blood relations only. If ur actions or talks are clearly designed to hurt someone from any angle, person is responsible. Be it Vividha, Ravish, Suman or anyone, this hold no exceptions. Any circumstances can't change a right thing to wrong or vice versa

when Ravish got time to sit with suman and make her understand Can't you see how many things happened from the time he himself came to know the truth ?where he had time to sit with her and talk to her ?

Originally posted by: Ilovecoffee

u plz try to elaborate about which part u thought I'm being sarcastic?? Cuz I had no any intention of sarcasm while posting. About that "HUM" word, I found that out of place that's why mentioned it. About Vividha n Ravish responsibility take, for me Ravish n Vividha are both responsible for their actions but separately. U r not responsible for ur blood relations only. If ur actions or talks are clearly designed to hurt someone from any angle, person is responsible. Be it Vividha, Ravish, Suman or anyone, this hold no exceptions. Any circumstances can't change a right thing to wrong or vice versa

Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Aahh, my bad..if you wont being sarcastic. Guess I read your post with a different tone.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Of course both were responsible for not stating the truth, but since some are interested in blaming only Vividha (not referring to you here) Ravish being the son of Suman should have told his mother about whole charade, rather than expecting a girl who is nothing to Suman to do so. (That's my take which clearly differs from yours). </font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The *hum* surely was not out of place? I mean the reason I say that is because if we go back to when the truth was revealed to Ravish by Sujata...Ravish said this *"Ek rishtey se hum aaj bhi jude hue hain, meri maa ke rishtey se ... aap meri maa ke liye iss ghar mein rahengi."* Thus why Vividha said *hum* today when Suman asked her those very valid questions.</font>

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">EDIT @Hannah...Since your comment was in reference to my above comment, thanks! I agree about being Vividha being a flawed character and that's why I like her. And time nahi hai lecture dena! Discussion ke liye aayi thi yaha aur kuch nahi!😛</font>

okay nice defence u put for that "hum" word. But my point is when we are so used hear the word 'me' everytime even when there should be "we" so it sounds little out of place. About responsibility, hv made my views already clear.

Originally posted by: Ilovecoffee

okay nice defence u put for that "hum" word. But my point is when we are so used hear the word 'me' everytime even when there should be "we" so it sounds little out of place. About responsibility, hv made my views already clear.

I just don't understand how that "hum" was out of context though. No one can deny that Vividha wanted to tell Suman the day she told Ravish only, but she only kept the facade up cos Ravish asked her to do so and said he would tell Suman when the time is right. So if she used 'hum' instead of 'I' then I don't see anything wrong with it. She could have even said that, Ravish asked me not tell you .. that would have irked you guys more lol but instead she took the blame upon herself too. Anyway to each his/her own ..

Originally posted by: mcdreamy.

I just don't understand how that "hum" was out of context though. No one can deny that Vividha wanted to tell Suman the day she told Ravish only, but she only kept the facade up cos Ravish asked her to do so and said he would tell Suman when the time is right. So if she used 'hum' instead of 'I' then I don't see anything wrong with it. She could have even said that, Ravish asked me not tell you .. that would have irked you guys more lol but instead she took the blame upon herself too. Anyway to each his/her own ..

maybe as per ur pov this track is limited to hiding truth from Suman that Vividha loves Atharv n not Ravish. But this is not all about hiding truth from Suman only. Question is she ruined Ravish life by marrying him out of whatever circumstances. N marriage is itself a big deal specially in Indian context. Suman wasn't just questioning her for hiding truth, it has much broader scope of marrying someone else inspite being in love with someone already. Ravish is responsible for hiding truth from Suman but he is not guilty of this marriage facade. This is own by KK n Vv only. If she had said like " I wanted to tell the truth but Ravish stopped me" I wouldn't hv find that offending or out of place as this was the actual scene they hv shown. But that 'hum' was out of place for me.

Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">#Lool Coffee, I got your point albeit I disagree. Anyways, am glad even though we didn't agree, we still had a healthy discussion! Phir milenge forum par.😆</font>

yeah why not. I'm sure in future we gonna hv too many chances for discussion as I find this show too much viewers pov oriented. Makers are religious believer of Einstein. In every track one can apply theory of relativity 😉 no hard n fast things 😆