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@Unique I read your post don't worry. But I am also with ani that he should have told the truth to his family atleast in privacy. See everytime it is not I will do what I want and then give no explanation. Sometimes you have to give when the behavior is abnormal. That's what I said under normal circumstances things are fine, not under abnormal circumstances.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Unique I read your post don't worry. But I am also with ani that he should have told the truth to his family atleast in privacy. See everytime it is not I will do what I want and then give no explanation. Sometimes you have to give when the behavior is abnormal. That's what I said under normal circumstances things are fine, not under abnormal circumstances.

Now since Arjun didn't tell Saanjh or Vandana will go to Ashwin and get his truth. Then they will clash with Arjun as his truth is different from Ashwin's truth. His truth is what Maya told, while Saanjh truth will be what Ashwin told.

What is the real truth it is the combination of both which as you rightly said only Jhanvi can tell.

Our problem is that ( I mean all humans have) we hear one part, we assume the next part based on our experiences, hence the experience repeat till we can change the perspective on it. If we need to change experience we have to change perception regarding experiences. You should be open for perception breaking. I had many perception breaking experiences in life, which has stopped me from being judgmental in many cases

We are afraid of perception breaking feeling then we will cease to exist. Because we identify perceptions as our identity. Need not be.

I say 1+1=2, but when you do things are you sure it is the plus sign that is coming in between. Many times no. When we do action we forget between 1 and 1 there are 4 operators which give 3 results. Only when we get zero instead of 2 we scratch our head, what happened or a 1 where we feel nothing is changed. Instead of blindly doing action we need to understand how the operator works, it will help us in directing our actions better and a 2 will come.

Saanjh is an insecure girl now. She is like a wife who feels her husband is going to GF 😆😆. What to do again perception. Same with Vandana, she has seen Saanjh as Arjun's wife shayad bacha bhi hua 😆😆( I mean her thoughts would have reached there)

@Radha Maya knows theory but she applies it incorrectly, that is her problem. It is not to hide her flaws, because Maya is a woman who doesn't know her real flaw. Her perception is her flaw is her past actions. But that is not the truth. Her real flaw is not understanding the fact that she is living in a cage Ashwin had made her build. Whatever she do, she remains in that cage. That cage makes her do those actions whatever she is doing.

Looking at the Info that saanjh is also going to Mauritius does not Sit well with me ... why on earth does saanjh goes there IT spoils the excitement

Do u think that once maya is out of the cage and stands for herself Will she leave arjun ... she only needs arjun for the security once job done why would she still want arjun unless she falls for him in the process ...

@shruthi I will try to visit those threads

Coming to beyhad again , it's not just half-truth but many things are unexplained.

Like how maya knows about ashwin never wanted jhanvi to continue her pregnancy or ashwin married only for money. There is possibility her maternal grandfather simply fuelled things.

If jhanvi delivered ashwin's child it was more advantage to him to strengthen grip over money , or when property is on name of maya he should have pampered her to get money.

Major event happened at age of 9 , but appears she had issues before ashwin's mistreatment . certain schizophrenia are passed in family , intrapartum trauma to amygdala etc. there could be possibility that doctor advised against pregnancy n jhanvi continued it . if jhanvi had to die ashwin would have lost money so he opposed it and half truth was fed. There is possibility maya was extremely possessive about mother could not share her with newborn or ashwin. May be accused wrongly that tym for ashwin and took steps which changed her life or ashwin was actually having affair and maya decided to take things in her hand . at that time I wish jhanvi instead of hiding had taken psychiatric help ( even if suppose it was murder - juvenile rehabs are there ) maya would have got 2^nd chance . so ya your theory possibly explain it , to hide one thing 100 more wrong things were done and tolerated , and maya got trapped in this vicious cycle to deal with ashwin she started taking wrong way to handle it , and her entire view , thoughts changed because of this.

@Radha you have made some good points. See some of the things Maya would have heard from her mother. Believed her mother way too much.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Radha Maya knows theory but she applies it incorrectly, that is her problem. It is not to hide her flaws, because Maya is a woman who doesn't know her real flaw. Her perception is her flaw is her past actions. But that is not the truth. Her real flaw is not understanding the fact that she is living in a cage Ashwin had made her build. Whatever she do, she remains in that cage. That cage makes her do those actions whatever she is doing.

Ashwin has the power on her, she doesn't know how to take that power from him. So she runs away from him. Certain things you have to confront, to get liberated. Today she was happy Arjun beat up Ashwin, that is not the solution to her problem. Only when she stands upto Ashwin her problem will be solved.

Coming to your other point. Yes I write. I am writing a fiction Seven Vows in writers corner. Link is in my signature.

My other writings you can see in my writing index link is again in the signature. Do check out. Connecting mythology and modern science is my favourite topic 😃. Lot of my writing in Siya Ke Ram forum is based on this concept

Absolutely . These lines ''Ashwin has the power on her , she doesn't know how to take that power from him . So she runs away from him. Certain things you have to confront to get liberated. Today she was happy Arjun beat up Ashwin , that is not solution to her problem. Only when she stands upto Ashwin her problem will be solved ''. ... they are just so perfect & aptly defines Maya & the state she is in. Even this time around she's running away to Mauritius with Arjun so that Ashwin can't reach him . But for long can she keep him away ?! Ashwin will surely make it a point to tell Saanjh & co & then one day Arjun will know it too. But I want to see after knowing Maya's anger issues mental instability ..& all what he decides to do ! For I really don't want to see him abandoning Maya & she ends up in an asylum

Sorry this was your reply for someone else but I had to intrude cuz those lines so aptly described Maya's condition.
Now this delusional Saanjh will go to Mauritius also behind them to save her unrequited love & cry buckets ..such a torture for my eyes her crying scenes have become 😆

Also this thing is always in my mind like in a promo before the show had began they showed Maya destroying things over which she has no control cuz she believes in control & when she loses it she decides to destroy it. Then how come Ashwin is still moving around so fearlessly & over him Maya has no control ... this guy enters there house rather appear everywhere & scare Maya & her mom to death ...but Maya cannot do anything about it . Knowing Maya its so unlike her ...

@shruthi ashwin is darkest ckt but like every other ckt he will have sum positive traits which will make him think he is right . I am just guessing what could it be ?