You shared your fear with me

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This line had both right and wrong in it today. Yes Arjun was right partially but not fully. True when someone share their personal weakness with you trusting you, you should not be telling it to others at normal circumstances.
But it is the not the same in abnormal circumstances. What happened between Arjun and Ashwin was abnormal. His family including Saanjh doesnt know the truth of Ashwin or what he has done to Maya. To them Ashwin is Maya's father. As Saanjh says elder. In our society the perception is that you are not supposed to misbehave with elders, they are always right and a father obviously a father cannot do anything wrong.
Just like the perception of step mom was fed into Arjun, perception of father is fed into others. Just like Vandana didnt try to break Arjun's perception, today by not revealing Maya's truth Arjun allowed the perception to prevail.
If he had spoken the truth maybe everyone would have had some soft corner for Maya. But now for them Maya's presence is harmful for Arjun. He is doing everything wrong. How can he be a rowdy and beat a man just like that.
So when you do abnormal actions you need to justify it, for that truth has to be spoken. Who were they. it was not to the crowd right. It was his friend, his mother, his brother. After seeing such rash behaviour from Arjun the people who are part of him deserved a honest answer. Not put in your head in unnecessary things.
If there is one thing the CVs are beautifully dealing in Beyhadh that is perceptions. How perceptions affect you and how those perceptions needs to be broken

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely right.. I was thinking the same.. This is not such personal thing that he cant share wth his family.. Forget whole secret, atleast he would have said her father tortured her.. That reason was enough..
Anyways, it a tv shw.. If everything is cleared at once how will show procced...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yup you said right..they are doing.. best what they are doing till now..
"Maya.:..displaying..infront of us.."Maya."
"Maya hain Maya sab moh Maya hain"that's what i can say about todays episode..
Really Arjun should have Justified his actions..he should have told everyone..about Maya's past..
Or at least.. Ashwin is not a good father..he tortured Maya very badly..
That would be enough about Ashwin' s Karnama..then might be everyone would have some sympathy for Maya ..but now they will think...thay Maya is taking Arjun away..just like today Arjun..fight with Saanjh..infront of them..
But hoping.. we will get to know about Maya's full truth someday..
But love the understanding between ArYa..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yea that's true
He could have said ashwin ne Maya aur Maya ki maa ke saath bahot burra kiya hai...
then maybe they would have at least gotten a hint that there are some serious family problems
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Posted: 8 years ago
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For the way Vandhana, Saanjh and her mom and all talk about Maya..
Acc to me they don't deserve knowing in the truth yet... They couldn't even smile at her for how she reunited their family, the last thing one can expect of them is to understand Maya..

Saanjh said kisi ki sunai baton pe bharosa nahi karte, so obviously she was hinting at Maya. Acc to her he blindly believed Maya and beat up Ashwin, so even if he did tell them, there;s no guarantee they would not judge Maya. Why would he tell Saanjh anything given how she has nothing good to think of Maya ever? I thnk he was right in not sharing Maya's past with anyone yet.

I doubt it would have made a difference to them if Arjun said anything. First they need to stop looking at Maya as someone trying to take arjun away, then maybe they can actually understand her.

Last point being, why is Arjun questioned on whatever he does related to Maya. He has his own right to take his own decisions, first Sanjh and everyone needs to back off and hound him for everything he does, be it a gift or anything. It will annoy any person. Everyone one of the family except Aayan is annoying at some point.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I disagree. Arjun and saanjh's family are not really interested in what arjun wants so they don't really have rhe right to know the reason behind arjun's behavior. They would havr given arjun the benefit of doubt if they truly respect his choices. That is maya's secret and story to tell not arjun. Arjun respected maya's trust and just coz his family is jumping up and down and pouncing on any chance to reject maya, it does not give them the right to know something so personal aND sensitive abt maya. They all are giving cold shoulder to maya just coz they love saanjh. I don't think maya needs to prove anything to such people who won't even give her a chance. There is nothing that can be done when someone's miND is madeup.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anu_IshraDivan

For the way Vandhana, Saanjh and her mom and all talk about Maya..
Acc to me they don't deserve knowing in the truth yet... They couldn't even smile at her for how she reunited their family, the last thing one can expect of them is to understand Maya..

Saanjh said kisi ki sunai baton pe bharosa nahi karte, so obviously she was hinting at Maya. Acc to her he blindly believed Maya and beat up Ashwin, so even if he did tell them, there;s no guarantee they would not judge Maya. Why would he tell Saanjh anything given how she has nothing good to think of Maya ever? I thnk he was right in not sharing Maya's past with anyone yet.

I doubt it would have made a difference to them if Arjun said anything. First they need to stop looking at Maya as someone trying to take arjun away, then maybe they can actually understand her.

Last point being, why is Arjun questioned on whatever he does related to Maya. He has his own right to take his own decisions, first Sanjh and everyone needs to back off and hound him for everything he does, be it a gift or anything. It will annoy any person. Everyone one of the family except Aayan is annoying at some point.





I agree with u. If arjun tells them the truth they will say maya tumhe phasa rahi hai uski bataon mein maat aao and if he doesnt tell them they will say maya arjun ko humse dur le jaa rahi hai. Joo bhi ho pise ga arjun hi. I agree arjuns behaviour was not normal but if the family knows arjun well, they will understand that there is some reason behind his behaviour. Maya trusted arjun and told him her truth so he shouldnt dhare it with anyone without her permission.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ur post 👍🏼

Is the truth something else, ashwin is not the bad one but maya is the one ... ashwin may be greedy for money but have not done anything... is the flashback a correct thing or is maya just imagining things like she wants 2... what truth with proof that ashwin is talking abt ... I'm really curious to know ...

I am with arjun ... no matter what even if arjun would have told the truth the whole gang won't believe him and think maya is manipulating him ... i liked it he did not share with anyone ... it's just between him n maya ... and I think he gain maya s trust here ...

Mauritius ... I wonder how long maya can avoid ashwin , and how long she can keep the truth from arjun... neway looking forward for the Mauritius track ...

Going by the track now I think the end game won't be arya... but I think it won't be saanjh and arjun as well ... both of them will finally make up and be frens only once again ... either maya will be killed or she will be in jail or some centres ... I hope I'm wrong ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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See to those disagree on the fact Arjun shouldn't be sharing as the people will do this and that. Again it is the assumption, that they wont listen to him or they wont change views if they listen to him.
See beating a man left and right on the road is not right, whatever be the case. Any family will feel disturbed. Frank talk is the only way there that can help you. For me it was an abnormal circumstance and if Arjun had decided to bare his heart, atleast 1 of them would have understood is my take. it is my assumption as I believe many a times a open talk at right time can help resolve many issues. Because now Arjun is building the perception of Maya is bad for Arjun
@riyya I don't think what Maya told is lie. She has suffered. But something happened post her 9th birthday, where this fearful Maya started doing certain things. Her alter ego started doing things. Maybe Ashwin knows how to bring out that alter ego in full force. I still remember the look Maya gives Jhanvi and she running away. There is a shade of Maya that enjoys Aswhin's torture or rather the torture of people who doesn't accept her. Arjun is unaware of that shade which both Vandana , especially Saanjh has seen. Maya has not told Arjun that shade of hers.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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arjun could have said it to clear things out but he did not perhaps because he thought this was something very personal to maya. Now this will only make everyone fear maya, which is justified but the problem is, they will think that arjun is being manipulated by her. while maya is manipulative, I don't think she was lying. Ashwin tortured for several years before she finally snapped, now whether that is a split personality or psychopathic tendencies, I'm not sure.
As soon as saanjh gets over her heartbreak, she will seek out ashwin to know the truth but will he even tell the truth? not sure.

as far as my guess goes, maya tried to kill ashwin once but only permanently injured him. this is not entirely her fault and I don't see arjun running away but I understand why maya is scared if it is a form of "mental illness" just like all her friends left her. In our society, there is a huge stigma surrounding mental illness. Instead of offering support or trying to understand, society runs away from them or pretends it does not exist. Maya was always described as a grey shaded character, I don't think they will turn her into an out and out villain.

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