Vividha could be blamed for the first month

I know nothing I will say will stop the bashing of Vividha. It just happens without head or tail.

Still I need some things clarified.

So Vividha married Ravish. There's two sides to it, one is that she was pretty much placed at gun point to marry someone else if she wishes to save Atharv's life and the other side is that she took a selfish decision in terms of how she forgot how this would affect a whole family especially the husband and mother in law who have treated her very well.

Ok so from a neutral perspective, I hope we can all accept that she married Ravish to save Atharv but there was also the aspect of cheating a family.

This went on for a MONTH. So even putting my bias aside for her circumstances (I'll throw the coercion out) she hid the truth from Ravish for a month. Then obviously he was very hurt because he had fallen in love with her. Not nice Vividha! You left a guy heartbroken.

After that Vividha was ready to leave so she doesn't hurt Suman further by hiding the truth. Either way she was going to hurt her anyway so she may as well be honest and get it over and done with. She accepted she made a mistake and unwillingly hurt very nice people.

However, Ravish said she has to stay in the house so Suman is not hurt and so she can also look after Atharv. Vividha agreed because she had already wronged this man who was at no fault for the situation he was put in.

So Vividha was going to confess ages ago but Ravish stopped her. Even if I blame her for that first month, how is she to be blamed for hiding the truth from Suman? Her own son doesn't want her to get hurt so why is it up to Vividha to tell her everything? Why is she the b*tch after that month? She was ready to leave with Atharva and Sujata.

Yes, she wronged Ravish and was/is still genuinely apologetic about it. What was she meant to do after that month? Leave with atharv & sujata which would make her look even more selfish to you anyway! What did you want her to do exactly? Because whether she left or stayed, you will still only blame her for being selfish.

Her selfishness is that she refuses to stop loving Atharv. Her selflessness is that she will go out of her way to take care of the people who took care of her. So in this case, what was the right thing to do? Walk away or stay because Ravish asked her to do so? Which option makes her look less of a bitch?

Even if ravish gives a monologue supporting vividha they will be like

Originally posted by: jonjimmy

Even if ravish gives a monologue supporting vividha they will be like

"Ravish is so nice even now he is supporting her. She doesn't deserve him

PS : shanky was awesome today"

So no use

You know what? I'll accept even that. If someone tells me how great Ravish was supporting Vividha then fine, very noble of him but just please clarify WHY and HOW is it Vividha's fault for hiding something which Ravish asked her to do so?

How is it ok for Ravish to lie for the betterment of his mother but it's not ok for Vividha to support him in that matter? How is Vividha more to blame than ravish?

Anyone?

c the only thing vv shud do is to move on with Ravish...cz he is a good guy..😆i just want to ask this mess was not created by KK but by Ramakant...KK just played wise...thats it..

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

You know what? I'll accept even that. If someone tells me how great Ravish was supporting Vividha then fine, very noble of him but just please clarify WHY and HOW is it Vividha's fault for hiding something which Ravish asked her to do so?

How is it ok for Ravish to lie for the betterment of his mother but it's not ok for Vividha to support him in that matter? How is Vividha more to blame than ravish?

Anyone?

Reemz even after clearing today also to suman and suman being witness to it that Ravish asked her that he needs time to disclose the truth.. She is blamed yet again to put the onus on Ravish.

Vividha is never going to win here. Whether she had left or stayed when she told Ravish about the truth, she will still be called all sorts of names.

Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

c the only thing vv shud do is to move on with Ravish...cz he is a good guy..😆i just want to ask this mess was not created by KK but by Ramakant...KK just played wise...thats it..

if vv moved on with Ravish she will be called mahaan patni...she left atharv in his unconscious state n kk almost killed atharv bt y shud v even bother cz ravish deserves love...atharv is a sinner so he doesnt deserves justice...

n vv only told R pls dont tell the truth to maa...vl play this game forever n il romance atharv n take care of him..n vv never showed inch of guilt neither she said sorry to R...bt R he just feels guilty n keeps saying sorry to Atharv for chaining n slapping him

u get it ryt????

By logic, should Atharv/Vitharv fans be more angry at her? Why didn't she run away from the manado and inform the police. Then my mind says, KK could've easily killed Atharv by then.

I know what you're saying is right but I'm hoping for one explanation which can prove to me that Vividha hiding all this from Suman is more her fault than Ravish's!

Originally posted by: Shweta13

Reemz even after clearing today also to suman and suman being witness to it that Ravish asked her that he needs time to disclose the truth.. She is blamed yet again to put the onus on Ravish.

Yesterday also she went to Suman thinking that she knows truth and never feared to face her wrath .. infact she ended up into more guilt by Suman.

Some people's delusions are She leaded on Ravish ... when did that happen, I have not seen 235 episodes as well as she is not guilty is also a tag to her ... I donno how much more guilt people want from her to weigh her down.

It just feels pathetic to be here on forum and read such thoughts from women.

Exactly. Vividha would be the last person to blame Ravish for hiding it from suman because she already feels like she's wronged them both. But how is what she said a lie? I'm pretty sure soon enough Ravish will tell suman himself that it was his idea to hide it. Vividha's just saying FACTS!

She hasn't led anyone on, she's told Ravish more than once that she loves Atharv. So what leading on? Her feelings have been clear since Day 1!

Originally posted by: whispa

Vividha is never going to win here. Whether she had left or stayed when she told Ravish about the truth, she will still be called all sorts of names.

We're biased when it comes to Vividha but not that biased to accept the fact that she has wronged the family and Ravish by marrying him to save Atharv. She didn't think through the consequences and how she would be hurting people who had no fault in what happened to her and Atharv. Of course, we know she got married to save Atharv's life.

So after a month, she told Ravish the truth and was willing to confess everything to everyone but he stopped her. He asked her not to tell his mother until he told her himself.

So how is it Vividha's fault that he fell in love with her.

How is it Vividha's fault that his mother is in the dark about everything and treats her as a perfect bahu.

How is she the selfish one, when it's Ravish who is keeping her apart from Atharv who she desperately wants to be with?

Viviidha is called all sorts of names under the sun but she doesn't care. She is willing to be called all that and accept all her mistakes just to be with Atharv.

But who is the one stopping her? Who is the selfish one here?

You know I just want to know what exactly would be the 'correct' decision for Vividha to make. She got bashed for the marriage decison, right ok there was a selfishness in there but Ravish found out after a month of the marriage.

If she had left with Atharv & sujata, one she would most definitely be called a selfish b*tch and what not but also the family drama angle would come to a halt! You can't run a show without that.

She stayed because Ravish asked her to and what followed after was Vividha clearly saying who she loves more than once! No lies or cheating Ravish. Any lies to Suman were because of the promise to Ravish.