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Posted: 9 years ago
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@reemz I agree they haven't shown Ravish feeling guilty of hiding truth from his mother but tell me after truth revealed to him, when we hv seen him thinking about his life, his mother, his marriage? Not even once. He is been always busy since then from molestation track to terrorist track. If I'm ready to give Vividha chances n scope for doing mistakes then why not Ravish. From all these days his chief priority is always Atharv. Just like U can see Vividha's guilt through her tears, Ravish fans can see guilt through his eyes. And this show is not black n white show, it is a show of people orientation. Everything shown in this is highly dependent on pov of viewer.
N about name calling for Vividha, she is not alone in this. Name calling is there for Ravish also for things he never did like he is eyeing Vv but he actually never did so. Even the standards of name calling gone upto the actor who's playing Ravish. Here it is just limited to Vividha a fictional character only.
Things are simple to understand we tend to overlook faults of our favourites. That's it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ilovecoffee

@reemz I agree they haven't shown Ravish feeling guilty of hiding truth from his mother but tell me after truth revealed to him, when we hv seen him thinking about his life, his mother, his marriage? Not even once. He is been always busy since then from molestation track to terrorist track. If I'm ready to give Vividha chances n scope for doing mistakes then why not Ravish. From all these days his chief priority is always Atharv. Just like U can see Vividha's guilt through her tears, Ravish fans can see guilt through his eyes. And this show is not black n white show, it is a show of people orientation. Everything shown in this is highly dependent on pov of viewer.
N about name calling for Vividha, she is not alone in this. Name calling is there for Ravish also for things he never did like he is eyeing Vv but he actually never did so. Even the standards of name calling gone upto the actor who's playing Ravish. Here it is just limited to Vividha a fictional character only.
Things are simple to understand we tend to overlook faults of our favourites. That's it.



I appreciate how you've put your point across. However, if Ravish hasn't given himself a thought, how has Vividha? Except for the fact that she loves Atharv and that's something which she CANNOT change. It's about time people respect that. Love isn't a switch on/off button! She's really connected to him!

Name calling of characters happens I agree, but if you are on about THIS particular situation where you are blaming Vividha for something Ravish encouraged then the hypocrisy stands out big time! I don't think Ravish has been called cheap or disgusting for hiding the truth, so why is Vividha cheap and disgusting? That's my arguement.

She's now being called a liar when she said Ravish wanted more time to tell Suman. But tomorrow, if Ravish tells suman himself that he asked Vividha to keep quiet, who will you blame?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*



You know I had to put a stone on my heart whilst I blamed Vividha for that first month because what she went through was horrid!! Like we can't even fathom the mental state of a woman who has seen so much within a day! It was scarring to say the least but I thought for THEIR sake, let me blame her for that much at least and accept she could be deemed as wrong.

Vividha - She TELLS its wrong, she HIDES its wrong. Whatever she does is wrong!! Then someone tell me what is her right?

Do you want her to f*ck off or fall in love with her societal husband? You can't have both!


You know what reemz? forget Vividha I as a woman wouldn't be thinking of My victim forced husband & his family, especially after finding out that the father I worshiped was a criminal, manipulator & wife beater, then witness my boyfriend beaten to death!
After all this My first thoughts wouldn't be about coming out clean to my In laws, no matter how good they are, they are still strangers? I need to know that telling the truth wouldn't jeopardize my boyfriend's safety or my safety?
I could be hallucinating, feeling depressed and suicidal because of what happened to me! I would be feeling suffocated having all my dreams snatched and the love of my life snatched in matter of 24 hours! Not having a single clue about how my heavily injured boyfriend is or where he is?
It is not the difference of opinion that disappoints me but it's women calling another woman names without even trying to empathize with her situation!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*



I appreciate how you've put your point across. However, if Ravish hasn't given himself a thought, how has Vividha? Except for the fact that she loves Atharv and that's something which she CANNOT change. It's about time people respect that. Love isn't a switch on/off button! She's really connected to him!

Name calling of characters happens I agree, but if you are on about THIS particular situation where you are blaming Vividha for something Ravish encouraged then the hypocrisy stands out big time! I don't think Ravish has been called cheap or disgusting for hiding the truth, so why is Vividha cheap and disgusting? That's my arguement.

She's now being called a liar when she said Ravish wanted more time to tell Suman. But tomorrow, if Ravish tells suman himself that he asked Vividha to keep quiet, who will you blame?


I will blame Vividha partially to ruin Ravish life n Suman's trust as marriage is itself a big deal no matter love or arranged n Suman's expectations were so evident from the first day n Vv was able to saw that.
I will blame Ravish for keeping Suman in delusion of his happy married for so long n Vv to be a part of his mistake when she herself is capable of denying his thoughts n expectations right from head. As for me Vv was never a abla bhartiya naari, In my opinion she is capable controlling her actions. Simple 😊
Edited by Ilovecoffee - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said @Reemz👏👏
I guess I reiterated same thing in my post unknowingly 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Marriage day is one of the most beautiful day of a brides life, especially for a person who is getting married to the love of their life. It was for Vividha too. She was finally getting married to Atharva after long wait & he was finally excepted by KK whole heartedly (in her mind). But what happened instead?! Two persons whom she loved the most, without one of them she can't see her life at all went away from her life. One was snatched away whereas another one chosed it himself. Her whole existence shattered. But even after that she is going on strong because Ravish asked Vividha to make sure my mother is not hurt. She is doing every possible thing since then to make sure that people who are nicer to her are not hurt. But unfortunately she is the one who is blamed. Nobody wants to see the situation she made the decision, but is calling her coward instead.


I have mentioned this once, that if Vividha will be selfish for Atharva she will be called bitch, if Vividha will be selfless for Ravish she will be called bitch, so why not be a bitch by being selfish for Atharva.
Edited by princess2507 - 9 years ago

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