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Posted: 9 years ago
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When I saw Vividha's cold lifeless expressions in the last 2 minutes, I remembered an old scene from Phase 1 where Vividha tries to explain her love for Atharv to her kameena baap.

She said 'You gave me life but Atharv taught me the meaning of life, he taught me how to live, gave me a new thinking'.

Bringing someone in to existence is one thing but bringing their true self alive is another. Atharv brought that new life to her.




Sighhh their love
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well written Reemz.
Atharav had introduced Vividha to herself.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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"She said 'You gave me life but Atharv taught me the meaning of life, he taught me how to live, gave me a new thinking'.

Bringing someone in to existence is one thing but bringing their true self alive is another."


These words reminded me of the original Sati in stasis. Completely unaware of her true form. She lived her life with only one identity: that of a beloved daughter.

Until one day, when Shiva introduced her to her own Adishakti swaroop. Her core of strength. Her true self.

After that she was the dormant Sati no more. She was Shiva's Shakti. The source of all feminine power.

PHASE 1 had such beautiful parallels. Sigh! 😳


Speaking of parallels, after Sati incarnated as Parvati, she did a lot of tapasaya to awaken Shiva. Finally, after a great struggle, she succeeded in rousing him.

However, despite noticing her, he refused to recognize or acknowledge her. But she did not lose hope and wowed to win him once again.
^^Am I looking at Phase 3 parallels?! 😉😛








Edited by 13thwish - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This is reminding me of another line she said after the temple separation " He who introduced myself to me", actually I don't remember the exact lines but this is what it meant though!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: 13thwish

"She said 'You gave me life but Atharv taught me the meaning of life, he taught me how to live, gave me a new thinking'.

Bringing someone in to existence is one thing but bringing their true self alive is another."


These words reminded me of the original Sati in stasis. Completely unaware of her true form. She lived her life with only one identity: that of a beloved daughter.

Until one day, when Shiva introduced her to her own Adishakti swaroop. Her core of strength. Her true self.

After that she was the dormant Sati no more. She was Shiva's Shakti. The source of all feminine power.

PHASE 1 had such beautiful parallels. Sigh! 😳


Speaking of parallels, after Sati incarnated as Parvati, she did a lot of tapasaya to awaken Shiva. Finally, after a great struggle, she succeeded in rousing him.

However, despite noticing her, he refused to recognize or acknowledge her. But she did not lose hope and wowed to win him once again.
^^Am I looking at Phase 3 parallels?! 😉😛








Wish I have become your fan! I seriously love reading your POV it's different yet the same thing that's on most of our minds but worded beautifully.
But this phase 3 parallel never stuck me, what do you think would make Atharv angry at Vividha? Because as hard as I try I am finding it difficult to imagine how Atharv's reaction to the changes around him be, which is exactly why I am eager for phase 3 to begin!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Their love has been no easy task.
But then we have not witnessed (at least me) such a feminist male lead and such a daring female lead .

I got inspired with their trust for each other and see the creativity and the uniqueness of creating ones own vachans. Not only they create but they also lived and still living upto the promises made. What a couple. In my mind they r married when they took the 7 vachans in front of 5 powerful elements of nature.

Agree with wish here. It's reminded to us time and again they both are shiv and shakti. Definitely I see a parellel with their story here.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes, that was a beautiful line she said.

Even after the separation scene she says,

Atharv Sujata- Jisne mujhe mujhi se milwaya.

I'll never never forget that monologue of her's. Every word she spoke that day for Atharv came from her soul, with utmost devotion for her love.

He taught her to live life on her terms, freely...without any restrictions. He brought out a new Vividha who was trapped within her.

Every word of the monologue of her's still makes me tear up.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: FortunaMajor

Wish I have become your fan! I seriously love reading your POV it's different yet the same thing that's on most of our minds but worded beautifully.

But this phase 3 parallel never stuck me, what do you think would make Atharv angry at Vividha? Because as hard as I try I am finding it difficult to imagine how Atharv's reaction to the changes around him be, which is exactly why I am eager for phase 3 to begin!

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Thank you (in baby A's style😛)

Naah.. Not angry.. Shiva was never angry at Parvati.. He only pretended to be because she was not ready.. Her growth was not complete enough to accept the Adishakti form. So, he kept her at a distance and put her through a series of challenges that would help her evolve and understand herself.

As far as ViTharv are concerned, I always knew that even after Atharv's return, they would not reunite immediately because Vivi is not ready either. She is still weak and dependent in sooo many ways. Her growth is far from complete.
Anyway, the CVs have played really smart here. Atharv is on the path to recovery but not completely cured. This achieves two important goals:
1) It keeps him in the V family house without butchering his character. Clearly, by the time he is cured, he would've bonded with all of them, so he would agree to stay himself.

2) With the secret out, Vivi has the opportunity to become her real self too.
I do not think he will be angry per se. He may not recognize her. Or his mental state might not be suitable enough to understand her. Regardless, the point is, whatever his current state of mind is, it will present challenges to Vivi and act as a catalyst for her growth.
Personally, THIS is what I want to see. Vividha's journey to self-acceptance. Owning her decisions and overcoming her own guilt. All by herself. If they are truly going to maintain the Shiv/Shakti parallels, then this would be the best direction to go.
By the time Atharv is perfectly cured, I want Vivi to stand as his equal. Serene and unapologetic. Wise and confident. Fearless and free.
^^This would be my version of an ideal story and ending.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I just want him back, so she can fly freely again knowing she has it within herself to do so. Vividha was always strong, but unaware of her strength. It was him, who taught her to look within herself and use that strength to her advantage. <3 She has always been grateful to him for that. He taught her how to love herself <3
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: 13thwish



Naah.. Not angry.. Shiva was never angry at Parvati.. He only pretended to be because she was not ready.. Her growth was not complete enough to accept the Adishakti form. So, he kept her at a distance and put her through a series of challenges that would help her evolve and understand herself.

As far as ViTharv are concerned, I always knew that even after Atharv's return, they would not reunite immediately because Vivi is not ready either. She is still weak and dependent in sooo many ways. Her growth is far from complete.
Anyway, the CVs have played really smart here. Atharv is on the path to recovery but not completely cured. This achieves two important goals:
1) It keeps him in the V family house without butchering his character. Clearly, by the time he is cured, he would've bonded with all of them, so he would agree to stay himself.

2) With the secret out, Vivi has the opportunity to become her real self too.
I do not think he will be angry per se. He may not recognize her. Or his mental state might not be suitable enough to understand her. Regardless, the point is, whatever his current state of mind is, it will present challenges to Vivi and act as a catalyst for her growth.
Personally, THIS is what I want to see. Vividha's journey to self-acceptance. Owning her decisions and overcoming her own guilt. All by herself. If they are truly going to maintain the Shiv/Shakti parallels, then this would be the best direction to go.
By the time Atharv is perfectly cured, I want Vivi to stand as his equal. Serene and unapologetic. Wise and confident. Fearless and free.
^^This would be my version of an ideal story and ending.

If only the makers had enough sense to take the story towards this path. It will truly establish Vividha as one of a kind type of character in Indian television.

Also your take was beautiful, especially the way you've compared it to Shiv/Sati *Shakti*'s story.

@bold! That is very true of Vividha. She stood tall against her father but she has been so guilt-ridden lately. Vividha just needs to find herself within herself again, in order for her to stand tall because she has done nothing wrong.

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