It's weird/interesting that everyone is okay with Saanjh's obsession - Page 3

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

again today both girls were praying and said Arjun sirf aur sirf mera hai! The guy doesn't even know about this madness. Both of these women are equally obsessed!

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

I think both Maya and Saanjh are equally obsessed with Arjun (who knows why) But while Maya's obsession is portrayed as a deadly obsession, Saanjh's one is not. Everyone around her not only normalizes her attachment to him, but they encourage it. The only one who was somewhat freaked out by this was her dad.

Today Ayaan mentioned Saanjh doesn't even let him go to their shaanti spot. This is her spot with Arjun and no one gets to go to it, no one. In the past Ayaan's mom had made a comment to Saanjh saying you have never let a third person enter between you two before, don't let it happen now. That is such a weird thing to say!! That is such a weird thing to do! Especially because I don't think Arjun is aware of it. When Arjun says no one is going to come between us he means that no one will ever come between us to create problems, or no one will ever be more important than my best friend Saanjh. Arjun is okay if Saanjh gets married to a 3rd person. But for Saanjh it is different. She doesn't want a third person to enter their relationship because Arjun is all hers. Her problem is not that Maya is weird, and may not be the right person for Arjun. Her problem is simply that there is a person who might take Arjun's love.

It's interesting that Saanjh was devastated because Maya got to be the hero instead of her. Ayaan was in real danger, who cares who saved him? What mattered was that he was saved. But it mattered to her. Saanjh comes off as bubbly, and happy but her behavior is coming off extremely negative and to be honest scary. She basically wants to be the only one that matters in Arjun's world. She is used to being Arjun rock since they were young and she wants to keep it that way.

Usually in dramas we have one negative character and one positive character. But here both characters are a mix. It is not that Maya is a villain but she is mentally unstable, and actually suicidal. One has to wonder if she will ever get better with stable relationships and treatment. What I like about her story is that she already told Arjun how she feels and she is not forcing or blackmailing him to love her back. I was afraid that was a route they were going to take because that is usually what we see on screen. What's interesting about Saanjh is that she is not the typical mahan dayalu good girl who wants to sacrifice her happiness for Arjun's. She wants him and she wants to keep Maya away.

Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

As the cvs promoted maya as obsessive psychopath even before the show is started all r thinking she is obsessive otherwise saanjh is no less than maaya.atleast maaya try to know what he loves.but saanjh forcing everything on him.but I like both the girls.both loves arjun.i can feel saanjh pain in her eyes as she loves him and I feel same with maaya.how daringly & dashingly maaya expresses her love to arjun.but saanjh has no guts to propose him.their parents are too much dey have to talk about saanjh feelings first wat he feels without forcing him