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The picture is quite clear today behind Sharma family problems. I blame Arjun's dad partly for not making him understand the situation though he was small and just took promise to take care of Vandana. Saanjh might have saw the whole picture but there is difference between watching and experiencing things in life. I won't blame her for this may be because I didn't have expectation from her to understand such deep connections. For today's incidence I can say both Arjuna and Vandana poured out their emotions and frustrations and indirect credit goes to Maya baby too (not an offense here just being sarcastic😆)
Vandana's dialogue of Arjun not understanding relations. Dear its elders responsibility to make children value relations which the Sharma family forgot to instill in Arjun. I can see the genuine love for Arjun as mother and is still making efforts today, appreciate that. One has said it rightly there are certain times to heal every wound and same thing goes for relations. All this years was like calm before storm and it will blow away all hatred, misunderstanding. Vandana's insecurity of losing Arjun made him drifted away in all this years. In one of the interview I heard that time will come when Arjun will realize that whatever his mom did was out of love for him rather than his dad.
Arjun : One can understand what happens when a kid loses their mother and suddenly another person makes entry in place of your loved ones. Often people are short tempered and behave rudely with elders, tell everything what they have in heart but those are the ones who care for their family most. Yes he might have not given that mother right but in worst time he would stand as shield to protect his brother and mom. Only way to handle Arjun is to hear his part of story which nobody was willing to do so and guess what the unexpected person who is blamed for ruining relations in family is putting her hands to join the family. Now that Pandit's prediction I see that thing right now when Arjun does not have anything, he is still alone, what would change when he will have everything he want. He badly needed somebody on whom he can pour his feelings, burst his anger and listen to him very calmly without interrupting.
Saanjh : What should I say about this girl? this is the difference between best friend and life partners. A person can share his happiness, tears with best friends but friend like Saanjh leave the hand in midway. Life partner is somebody we consider that would never leave our side. Saanjh looks like very family type person who has not seen the real world where people often have faced such situations. Her normal life did not let her think an outsider's pain. This is not something I would expect from a lawyer who without going deep down to bottom takes decision and judging any person no matter what type of person they pretend. She will learn lesson very hardly that relationships cannot be forced be it her love, her friendship or Arjun and Vandana's case.
Maya ; This girl never fails to prove me right everytime I make prediction about her. From the very beginning it was predicted that girl who lost all relations in her own why would she want somebody else to go through that pain again. Even tommorrow she becomes the reason of Arjun separating from his family, she will only drag him back to them. The right time of Maya to reveal her truth to Arjun is after they get into relationship because right now they are only friends. Once in relation it would draw Arjun more towards her and bring her out of dark. Right now it might not make big different between them since they are nothing more than friends.
Ayaan is the link connecting Arjun and Vandana all this years. He is still a kid to understand such deep wounds so he cannot be blamed here either. But only thing I want is the past history should not affect his relation with Arjun or else the whole family will shake up which I see it happening once in a while.
Last being not least today's episode belonged to Vandana, Arjun and Maya.
Anupamaa
