Arjun and his past

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today's episode show us totally a different side of Arjun..his past..
I know Vandana was little too much with scolding Arjun..
But Arjun shouldn't have behaved with her like this..😡
I mean Vandana isnt your own mom right.. but she is still an elder person..same age your own mom..!!
But for arjun none ever tried to clear his misunderstanding like..
He thought that Only because of Vandana his mother Raksha died within 2 months
. or only after 6 months of his mother's death Vandana got married to his dad...
I know he was a child back then.. maybe 6 years old then..
But..some one should have made him understood that Vandana married his dad only for him
.or her mom was in third stage of cancer ..when he was old enough to understand..
But nobody gave a thought that Arjun is old enough to understand this..that he isn't a kid anymore..!!
But to Arjun's Family..He is still a kid..lile Suman said even today!! and that's the reason he is getting rifted away from his family time and again..🤢
At least someone had made that move to clear his misunderstanding . .then
And now maybe vandana won't in the place as she is now today..
Maybe Arjun would give her Her most desired place.."as arjun sharma' s Mother"..
But no one really try to understand Arjun fully...
I feel sad for him in the whole episode..
Even when he needed his best friend most ..by his side..she was not there!!..
He was left all alone..!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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How do you know nobody ever tried to explain him?
Or is it like he never tried to listen to anyone...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I felt so bad for vandana today.. She doesnot deserve such hurtful words.. But still i sympathize more wth arjun today.. Thinking about him as a small kid who has a view that his stepmom wishes for his mom death..it must be so painful for him.. He is carrying so much burden on his heart...why didnt his father( when alive) or anyone explained him patiently... Child is like wet mud...can easily be mould in any way.. Instead of forcing his new marriage on him his father must hve dealt in more patient manner..
And realy today what arjun needed was best frnd to explain him calmly and not order him.. Saanjh knows he is hot headed...instead of shouting she must hve dealt peacefuly.. Taking him away from house that time, letting him cool down and thn make him realise hw rude he was..
By the way what maya said to him was so meaningful na...though it was arjun own words but it suits arjun perfectly...he needs to change his nazariya towards his stepmom...as much as i hate vandana but i hope thy patchup soon...she has true intentions in her heart and also arjun doesnt deserve to live wth so much hatred and misunderstanding ..he needs most deserved peace...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It was really sad for the 2
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Me too felt sad for arjun throughout d epi but prob is in this case he would not listen to ne1 neither in past nor in future, its a very sensitive thing tbh , noone can accept a step mom so early after their own mom's demise plus i think vandana is at fault too no matter how good her intentions were but she cud've stayed smwhere else n looked after arjun instead of staying under the same roof with his father, such a situation raises eyebrows why? because of the d very reason dt d woman wants to marry/ get hold over the departed's household which in vandana's case turned out to be true, had arjun bin so much imp to her, she wud've won his love n trust first instead of tying d knot wid his dad first, she shud hv gotten her own place n moved out for starters, personally i found her to be too overly bechaari to digest, for d first tym i feel for arjun (though i agree dt arjun shudnt hv misbehaved, vandana luvs him he shud see dt n respect her cuz his real parents arent even there with him nemore)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sellysona

I felt so bad for vandana today.. She doesnot deserve such hurtful words.. But still i sympathize more wth arjun today.. Thinking about him as a small kid who has a view that his stepmom wishes for his mom death..it must be so painful for him.. He is carrying so much burden on his heart...why didnt his father( when alive) or anyone explained him patiently... Child is like wet mud...can easily be mould in any way.. Instead of forcing his new marriage on him his father must hve dealt in more patient manner..

And realy today what arjun needed was best frnd to explain him calmly and not order him.. Saanjh knows he is hot headed...instead of shouting she must hve dealt peacefuly.. Taking him away from house that time, letting him cool down and thn make him realise hw rude he was..
By the way what maya said to him was so meaningful na...though it was arjun own words but it suits arjun perfectly...he needs to change his nazariya towards his stepmom...as much as i hate vandana but i hope thy patchup soon...she has true intentions in her heart and also arjun doesnt deserve to live wth so much hatred and misunderstanding ..he needs most deserved peace...

Yup you have exactly said right !!👏
Though I don't like Vandana..but she isn't a bad person either...but feels insecure that her arjun would run away from her if she doesn't take right step..
And her ways of doing things are just wrong..thays it ..but
Like you said Arjun should change his Point of view towards Vandana..only then he will be able to love her back..and will call her his own mother...
😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The idiotic part is when vandana said to arjun "aankhe churane we chori chup na jati"
Wth u mean by that ? Do u mean arjun has done some theft or crime by giving dress to maya his another frnd !!!!
I'm amused with that stupidity of her & one more is she said 'arjun doesn't know to handle rishta'.
Let me know what is this blame unnecessarily? And why the ladies are creating such a ruckuss for damned dress!
And vandana says "saanjh ka hisa ka... Tum Maya ko dene lage ho" what is this yar... Is it wrong to give gifts to friend & is saanjh his wife & he betrayed her !!
First things vandana is wrong in her place today on her blames with arjun irritating the hell out of him.
He respects her & gives her his affection in his way & we seen that from police station scene where he says to take care of her & not to worry of his bro.
Today she really pissed him & he went out of control.
But when maya asked him to change his perception I was really in love with her bcoz always vandana taunts her as chudail but here she only supported vandana.
But honestly even I felt sad for vandana's side of story. There's mistake from arjun side but the way she's thinking abt how saanjh is only ryt for arjun & no girl shud come in his life is wrong. She needs to understand that he's elder enough.


And first try to mend her relationship with arjun instead of ordering him abt saanjh.
May be she's thinking if saanjh comes to her home as bahu then arjun will love her & things will change.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I feel like Saanjh was there but she couldn't really show him the right path

What she couldn't do maybe now Maya will be able to do :)
And I am still mad about the body doubles tho :(
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nithunavi

The idiotic part is when vandana said to arjun "aankhe churane we chori chup na jati"
Wth u mean by that ? Do u mean arjun has done some theft or crime by giving dress to maya his another frnd !!!!
I'm amused with that stupidity of her & one more is she said 'arjun doesn't know to handle rishta'.
Let me know what is this blame unnecessarily? And why the ladies are creating such a ruckuss for damned dress!
And vandana says "saanjh ka hisa ka... Tum Maya ko dene lage ho" what is this yar... Is it wrong to give gifts to friend & is saanjh his wife & he betrayed her !!
First things vandana is wrong in her place today on her blames with arjun irritating the hell out of him.
He respects her & gives her his affection in his way & we seen that from police station scene where he says to take care of her & not to worry of his bro.
Today she really pissed him & he went out of control.
But when maya asked him to change his perception I was really in love with her bcoz always vandana taunts her as chudail but here she only supported vandana.
But honestly even I felt sad for vandana's side of story. There's mistake from arjun side but the way she's thinking abt how saanjh is only ryt for arjun & no girl shud come in his life is wrong. She needs to understand that he's elder enough.

Exactly my point.. When vandana was scolding arjun i was like is she mad.. There was no reason for this arguement.. Giving dress to another frnd is not crime.. Saanjh is not the centre of his universe.. Its not like arjun did it purposely to hurt saanjh...he had no idea of saanj and ayan misunderstanding...how he doesnt care for relations?? Evrytime whn saanjh gets angry he goes to pacify her...and what does saanjh ke hisse ki khusi?? Its as if saanjh is his wife and he is doing extramarital affair by giving a gft which is his wife haq to another woman..
Vandana needs reality chck...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nithunavi

The idiotic part is when vandana said to arjun "aankhe churane we chori chup na jati"
Wth u mean by that ? Do u mean arjun has done some theft or crime by giving dress to maya his another frnd !!!!
I'm amused with that stupidity of her & one more is she said 'arjun doesn't know to handle rishta'.
Let me know what is this blame unnecessarily? And why the ladies are creating such a ruckuss for damned dress!
And vandana says "saanjh ka hisa ka... Tum Maya ko dene lage ho" what is this yar... Is it wrong to give gifts to friend & is saanjh his wife & he betrayed her !!
First things vandana is wrong in her place today on her blames with arjun irritating the hell out of him.
He respects her & gives her his affection in his way & we seen that from police station scene where he says to take care of her & not to worry of his bro.
Today she really pissed him & he went out of control.
But when maya asked him to change his perception I was really in love with her bcoz always vandana taunts her as chudail but here she only supported vandana.
But honestly even I felt sad for vandana's side of story. There's mistake from arjun side but the way she's thinking abt how saanjh is only ryt for arjun & no girl shud come in his life is wrong. She needs to understand that he's elder enough.

Yup me too was angry..when vandana said that.. to Arjun..
You gave Saanjh's hissa to Maya..
I mean saanjh isn't his biwi or gf yet . .so what hissa he has given..
Or if it is about friendship hissa . .
C'mon can't we give gifts to our other friends...??!!
I mean we all don't have just only one friend in our whole life.. we have many ..atleast more than one friend in our life...😉
So that's doesn't make sense..
I am thinking if she had change her way to talk to Arjun.. .
Arjun might have listened . .
Cause just like Maya used to do that to Arjun.. before shanti spot wala scene...
But as I said earlier.. Arjun should have controlled his emotions..
But I am really glad..maya is trying to mend his and Vandana's misunderstanding by saying his own dialouge...to him!!
Damm.. .this girl never leaves an opportunity to awe us . .👏

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