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Tia.0 thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yep. He just doesn't want to control everything, but now he wants to control even his wife's choices. He didn't even went to a different doctor for consult or research on the net to find out what is the real complication. He just thought to make both his mother and Sonakshi happy in one shot so he didn't think twice to take decisions on Sonakshi's behalf. Come to think of it, he did the same thing during break up. He took away Sonakshi's right to take decisions about her own life then as well. So that means there had been absolutely no character growth since break up track.

Originally posted by: dsr11

Talk about complicating simple things! Was Dev always a brainless squirrel?! All he does these days is running here and there trying to protect something that doesn't need any protection! Just like those damned squirrels run across the road with an acorn in their mouth and end up as a roadkill. Dev always wanted to be in control of situations and he did twist arms in the past to get his way, but he was reasonable and smart. The guy I am seeing now is such a pathetic clone of the original guy.

I don't even want to talk about the rest of the drama. Utter nonsense.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not sure how much he loves his wife actually! Today when he found that his wife was injured , he did not want them to reach the doctor before himself. Hello ! Your wife is injured and needs medical attention and you are more worried about your lie getting detected ? Serioausly!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: baijubavra

I am not sure how much he loves his wife actually! Today when he found that his wife was injured , he did not want them to reach the doctor before himself. Hello ! Your wife is injured and needs medical attention and you are more worried about your lie getting detected ? Serioausly!




There is more, apparently according to the SBS segment, Dev would want Riya and Ayaan's marriage to happen because for him keeping his lie a secret is more important than his sister's life. 😲
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely awesome. Agree 200%..Yes is Yes and No is No. Thats what I teach my kids..No matter what the situation is, however hard the truth is - just get it out, its better to face it than hide it and live with it..
Someone forwarded me a psychiatric question..about the Dr. showing half a glass of water..General question is what the audience thoughts would be..But her question was - how heavy is the glass..Got everyone thinking..Then she answered - if you hold for an hour, its not heavy, for half a day it gets heavier, for a full day, it becomes a pain and start cramping..Anxiety and stress are similar to that, the more you hold them, you get destroyed the worst. Let them rest and find peace..

I am so proud for one thing in the forum - all of our thoughts are similar and we respect everyone's point of views.

I lived in US for 14 years and yes one simple answer is Indians nod their heads and no one can make it if its a yes or a no ..am sure we are nodding while reading this..LOL

have a wonderful day folks.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He is like Ishwari. Pregnant nehin to Sonakshi ki health ki koi value nehin. Watch spoiler to see. If Sona was pregnant, Dev would have treated her like delicate crystal, if she wasn't pregnant, Ishwari won't give a damn how he treats his wife.

Originally posted by: baijubavra

I am not sure how much he loves his wife actually! Today when he found that his wife was injured , he did not want them to reach the doctor before himself. Hello ! Your wife is injured and needs medical attention and you are more worried about your lie getting detected ? Serioausly!



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, you are absolutely right. I read that question too. The problem with secrets is that it becomes harder to carry with time. The sooner it's shared, the easier you get relieved.

About the Indian nod, someone shared this to me. Check it out. It's super funny.

https://youtu.be/0RaBxH_MKQI

Originally posted by: GeekSquad

Absolutely awesome. Agree 200%..Yes is Yes and No is No. Thats what I teach my kids..No matter what the situation is, however hard the truth is - just get it out, its better to face it than hide it and live with it..

Someone forwarded me a psychiatric question..about the Dr. showing half a glass of water..General question is what the audience thoughts would be..But her question was - how heavy is the glass..Got everyone thinking..Then she answered - if you hold for an hour, its not heavy, for half a day it gets heavier, for a full day, it becomes a pain and start cramping..Anxiety and stress are similar to that, the more you hold them, you get destroyed the worst. Let them rest and find peace..

I am so proud for one thing in the forum - all of our thoughts are similar and we respect everyone's point of views.

I lived in US for 14 years and yes one simple answer is Indians nod their heads and no one can make it if its a yes or a no ..am sure we are nodding while reading this..LOL

have a wonderful day folks.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#330099">I am very sorry to hear about your experience, Shaavi. I may not have experienced it, but recently one of my cousins gave birth to twins and only the younger girl survived. The older child died for no reason after being born healthy. It was a devastating experience for all family since she already miscarried twice. So I understand.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">However, you made a choice about your own body. That's a basic human right to make choices about our own body with free will. That is what Dev is denying Sonakshi. That's my issue with him.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">Had he told Sonakshi about her report and supported her if she decided to go through fertility treatment, then yes, he would have been a great husband. But how is he saving Sonakshi from being hurt? She is a woman and a doctor. How long it will take for her to find out that she is not pregnant? Less than a month, that's how long. Right now she is dreaming of her baby who is already real for her because Dev said there is a baby. How much hurt she will be when she finds out that not only there isn't a baby and her husband looked into her eyes and lied to her but also that he went behind her back making mockery of her profession and her path and tried to make her pregnant by defrauding her.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">Imagine if she was a cop and her husband stole from someone claiming it was for their happy life. This is the same scenario.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">I was watching Jolly LLB 2 trailer and in the end there is a killer dialogue by Akshay Kumar.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">World's biggest idiot said, All is fair in Love and War.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">Because if it was, then someone who cuts the head of the soldiers in the border will be justified as well as those so-called lovers who throw acid on the face of the woman they claim to love.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">The point he was trying to make is that loving someone doesn't mean locking them in a padded cage creating a fool's paradise inside so that they never realize that they are living a false reality. Loving someone means when life throws a curve ball to them, standing in front of them to take the attack first on oneself and being firmly by their side like your husband did for you even though he didn't want you to be at risk.</font>

<font size="3" color="#330099">That's why I can't see this as love. Taking away someone's choice and free will in the name of love is an insult to love in my opinion.</font>


Love your analysis it's bang on.But Dev as it is not someone with this level of profound judgement.Even Sona for that matter The Rithvik fiasco is the best example.She did it solely for her parents acceptance without any regard for rithwicks feelings.she has this desperation for love and acknowledgement that she just basked in it when she got it.Its our mistake that we fell in love with them.At present they both are looking nothing like strong.
Edited by mily_mathew - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#663399">I honestly can't connect with these characters anymore. I can't justify how irresponsible they are. There's honesty nothing to admire in them anymore. So I think I won't watch the episodes until they fix the script.</font>




agree! I used to relate to Sonakshi and to some extent have experienced ishwari & Dev type of characters. but where these people now is completely in an alternate reality. i have been pretty much off the show.. come here to chk update and comments then decide. the couple episodes I recently watched.. regretted 😡

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