Originally posted by: tia.o
<font size="3" color="#330099">I am very sorry to hear about your experience, Shaavi. I may not have experienced it, but recently one of my cousins gave birth to twins and only the younger girl survived. The older child died for no reason after being born healthy. It was a devastating experience for all family since she already miscarried twice. So I understand.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">However, you made a choice about your own body. That's a basic human right to make choices about our own body with free will. That is what Dev is denying Sonakshi. That's my issue with him.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">Had he told Sonakshi about her report and supported her if she decided to go through fertility treatment, then yes, he would have been a great husband. But how is he saving Sonakshi from being hurt? She is a woman and a doctor. How long it will take for her to find out that she is not pregnant? Less than a month, that's how long. Right now she is dreaming of her baby who is already real for her because Dev said there is a baby. How much hurt she will be when she finds out that not only there isn't a baby and her husband looked into her eyes and lied to her but also that he went behind her back making mockery of her profession and her path and tried to make her pregnant by defrauding her.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">Imagine if she was a cop and her husband stole from someone claiming it was for their happy life. This is the same scenario.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">I was watching Jolly LLB 2 trailer and in the end there is a killer dialogue by Akshay Kumar.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">World's biggest idiot said, All is fair in Love and War.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">Because if it was, then someone who cuts the head of the soldiers in the border will be justified as well as those so-called lovers who throw acid on the face of the woman they claim to love.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">The point he was trying to make is that loving someone doesn't mean locking them in a padded cage creating a fool's paradise inside so that they never realize that they are living a false reality. Loving someone means when life throws a curve ball to them, standing in front of them to take the attack first on oneself and being firmly by their side like your husband did for you even though he didn't want you to be at risk.</font>
<font size="3" color="#330099">That's why I can't see this as love. Taking away someone's choice and free will in the name of love is an insult to love in my opinion.</font>