Anika & the Obros!!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism
If you see the pre accident scene she was shown to be very confident (was only 18 then and wanted to drive the car, I consider myself very modern but drove the car for the first time at the age of 24, and that too after my mom insisted), the accident is something which can break you to the core, it was not much about male domination or stuff, she had lost her self confidence post that, did you see her ever wearing modern clothes? But she gave a modern dress from her closet to Anika for the party which means she had those, just the accident broke her and made her patient of panic attacks, mental trauma and stammering so the point of not being equal doesn't matter here, she was very much equal (actually the way Anika is behaving by not filing a case against her abusive husband she is becoming docile and not equal)

Do you want to say the brothers used to include her before and stopped her post she went into a cocoon? That was too illogical and selfish
BTW she is still a college student and maximum girls in India don't do a part time job

The dresses can't be taken into account at all, in IB they are always circulating stuffs, Priyanka & Anika are not having same sizes, she gave like 3 to 4 modern dresses at different occasions. But if everything flipped like that after the accident then Shivaay didn't look into the matter at all? The first thing is that the whole accident drama was crafted post the exit of vrushika, Om telling her on her last scene, very confidently that he will choose truth against family...I never said they ignored her after she became quiet, but they never included her, they definitely cared for her & loved her, but they had already thought of marrying her off before allowing her to build up a strong career...And even in her own marriage she didn't have a say, see!!! Morever I felt she is having public anxiety disorder than depression. The car driving and all, this is all just new they never planned it before..we can see the gaps!!

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FlauntPesimism

@FlauntPessimism

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: MariaRebecca

The dresses can't be taken into account at all, in IB they are always circulating stuffs, Priyanka & Anika are not having same sizes, she gave like 3 to 4 modern dresses at different occasions. But if everything flipped like that after the accident then Shivaay didn't look into the matter at all? The first thing is that the whole accident drama was crafted post the exit of vrushika, Om telling her on her last scene, very confidently that he will choose truth against family...I never said they ignored her after she became quiet, but they never included her, they definitely cared for her & loved her, but they had already thought of marrying her off before allowing her to build up a strong career...And even in her own marriage she didn't have a say, see!!! Morever I felt she is having public anxiety disorder than depression. The car driving and all, this is all just new they never planned it before..we can see the gaps!!

It was shown that she gave ANika the modern dresses, and about SHivaaye, he never went to ask why suddenly Om went into drugs what makes you feel he would have that he would have tried to dig into reason for Prinku's problem

Om became a truthworthy person only after that accident, till then he was a normal human being.

About marrying this happened post accident when she wasn't in a condition to get out of the cocoon or make a career choice
About the gaps everything has gaps in the show.

My point is simple that before the accident she was normal and equal still they did not include her

Edited by FlauntPessimism - 8 years ago

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Its easy to say Anika is a good human being so she is reuniting d brothers but does all dis actually happens in reality? Imagine a guy torturing u for any silly reason(actually there sud not be any justification of torturing someone) then will u hate dat person to d core or feel bad at his tears before uniting him wid his family? Plz answer dis after thinking carefully.

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surbhijain

@surbhijain

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

I think you said right for anika who United the family

Because one of the initial promo of the show had something like dadi saying my grandsons would bring such daughter in laws who would always keep the family together

So yes anika only did that as Oberoi bahu(SORRY FOR THIS but here i am ignoring all the things that shivaay did to anika)

They can't be justified thats for sure

But my problem is not why anika did this

It is why only anika does it always

Both shivaay and rudra are both married now

But if you see pre wedding episodes then there too it was anika only who was like more involved in helping Oberoi's than saumya during gayatri track

Both entered Oberoi mansion like equally only and saumya to used to stay in Oberoi mansion

Omkara considered her as her sister but then too she was not involved in whole matter

I won't say that anika helped them by finding clues was wrong but yes they could have gone like this too saumya finding some clue and she discussing it with anika and gave her little contribution but no everything was done by anika from finding clues to going with Oberoi's to catch the culprit

And now after marriages too its only anika who is like shown as well wisher of oberois

Ok i agree this is the first time only after marriage but they could have shown it in a different way

No doubt anika could take centre stage but they could have involved saumya in some way or other

And even after 160+ episodes they aren't involving saumya it might be like saumya is a grey character

So its high time to show some grey shades of her

And for anika in obro moment we can i think just hope that we would get their moments alone in future

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

@Surbhijain:

Yes even I feel they were trying to set Annika up as a Super Bahu even before the marriage. Like that song "Who you gonna call?" Instead of Ghostbusters, its Annika! LOL

They could have easily involved Soumya in more Oberoi household matters but they didn't. Even though it would have given her more SS, I am in a way glad they didnt mess up Soumya by showing her as all up in the Oberoi household business. She usually is not shown butting into their things, and in her place neither would I. Maybe if they ask for my help I would involve myself. But if I was a guest in someone's house I would not try to involve myself in their family issues.

@Flauntpessimism:

Yes Priyanka clearly had changed since the accident, and she may have been a confident and regular sort of girl before that. But even then, she was never a part of their "Dil Bole Oberoi" O-Bro moment. She had her Prinku pehelwan moments with her brothers, but that O-Bro thing was exclusive to them. Hence the word "Bro". So agree, that they dont need a 4th O-Bro, whoever it might be. If their own sister is not invited, I dont see why Shivaay's wife would be, or even Rudra's wife? I think that gesture is a bit cheesy for women anyway. It just feels more like a lame thing guys would do! LOL

@Angle_Juhi:

In the real world, this sort of thing would never happen. A girl like Annika in the situation she has fallen into would hardly be trying to sort out Oberoi family unity when she has bigger things to worry about. If Shivaay's family is mad at him it's for a reason. I don't see why she needs to preach to them about it. But since now she is a Sati Savitri Devi type, this is to be expected.

@TM:

Yes I know that Shivaay thinks that Daksh gave money to Annika for sleeping with him? He even pretended he was giving her some legal papers? Since when do men pay women with legal documents for having one night stands? It's more a strict "Cash" sort of affair. It's kind of lame that Shivaay would believe the words of a Cheepada like Daksh? Why didn't he just ask to see the documents, that would have put Daksh on the back-foot? Also, those documents were loan papers from the bank! So it would have been pretty obvious who was lying at that point. But then Shivaay said the line "You betrayed me". That itself proves that he thought Annika being with Daksh was a betrayal of him! That is why I say it's hypocrisy when he had never told her how he feels and was willing to marry Tia, coz Annika was not high class enough for him. So Shivaay has no justifications for his behavior or his willingness to believe a creep like Daksh!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago

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