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Fool's Gold, or pyrite, is a mineral with a superficial resemblance to gold. It resembles the real thing but is actually a hoax.

While it is successful in making a fool out of inexperienced jewellers, a keen gem and jewel expert can see through their false image.

Why I am talking about this mineral?

Well, because if Sonakshi's love is pure 24 carat hallmark gold, Ishwari's love was Fool's Gold.

There are some people in the world who will treat you like the most important person and butter you up and down when they need something from you or there is something they want that you can provide but the moment their need gets fulfilled or they find out that you won't or can't provide them what they want, you become garbage in their eyes...

Yup, you guessed it. I am talking about Ishwari.

If I just started to watch the show yesterday, the episode would have melt my heart.

What is more endearing than a mother-in-law pampering her daughter-in-law, in-laws having a meal and joking together like Sooraj Barjatya family, husband coming home and romancing wifey in private while the family snicker downstairs imagining what they are up to and progressively going gutter mind?

But it was a mirage. Nothing seemed real to me.

The emotions seemed fake, the love was a lie and the happiness tainted with heartbreak.

The love which binds with a million strings of condition instead of setting you free, is it worth anything?

We say blood ties are strongest. But if you ask me, I will take unconditional love from a friend not related by blood over conditional love from a blood relative any day.

Which brings me to Neha.

Neha came to stay at Ishwari Niwas believing a promise from her mother that she will be kept on her palken and Ishwari will make up for all the neglect inflicted on her since childhood.

Yesterday, she was happy about the news. But when she saw her mother showering the pampering which she usually reserves only for Dev, she didn't like it. Over the time, she got trained to force herself to be okay with Ishwari's over the top addiction to Dev and not ever showering even one percent of the same attention to her three daughters combined.

But she has never seen Ishwari treating a woman so well the way she is treating Sonakshi and again, she is watching from outside. I was feeling pity for her. I wish I could tell her that even now, Ishwari is pampering Dev's child, which she thinks is in Sonakshi. It's like if we think that Santa got us something spectacular in a Christmas gift wrapped in dazzling papers with a floppy bow, how protective we get of the box? It might have a pencil in it. But as long as we think that our heart's desire is in the box, we don't let anyone bump into it or bruise it. That's precisely the same thing.

The question is that when Sona finds out how worthless that conditional love was from her dear mother-in-law, will she be able to tolerate the pain on top of her own heartbreak? Will the lesson "All that glitters isn't Gold" will be hard to digest then?


EPISODE EDIT:

Are you tired of taunts and insults from your saas (mother-in-law)?

Haan (Yes)

Are you frustrated with her constant hovering over your husband?

Haan (Yes)

Do you want to have a Sooraj Barjatya approved Mummy-in-law?

Haan bhai haan...

Then pile up on aphrodisiac and get pregnant.

Effects last only until delivery.

Today Bijoy tells Asha and Ishwari tells Dev that she become mother from Saas.

No you guys, she didn't become mother.

A mother loves her children unconditionally. That's the only pure ans selfless love in the world.

What Ishwari became is a fake-mother from saas which won't take long to disappear.

On the other hand, Dev chooses to believe his mother and tear up the report. Of course mother is always right.

Ishwari asks Dev to take care of Sona (only until delivery and not a moment after).

Dev on the other hand is shocked that his mother is showering love on a woman. It's a very rare occurrence like sighting of Dodo bird.

Dev here thinks like all rational being Sona must have done tests before announcing everything. So asked when did she do test?

Sona said that the diagnostics were done by the Goddess herself.

That gets Dev worried enough to suggest doing test the next day. If I were you Dev, I will also book an appointment with a psychiatrist. Sona needs to get her head checked before her pregnancy checked.

Riya today stole the show with her dialogue, "There are many advantages of being pregnant."

A girl who never got her mother's attention for being a girl, learned the lesson that the only way to get it is to get pregnant.

A daughter-in-law who always had to fight to be part of her own husband's family was finally treated as a cherished member because they thought she was pregnant.

So if after all these, a woman can go to any length to get pregnant and barring that wants to commit suicide/leave her husband or take some other wrong step, can we blame her? Is this a woman's worth?

Congratulations CV, if you wanted to reduce a woman's worth to her fertile womb and make every unmarried and married woman believe that the only way to get love and approval from in-laws is to get pregnant while reducing the respect and dignity of those woman who can't or don't want to be a mother, you have succeeded. There is a thing called social responsibility, which obviously a foreign concept for you.

Vilena wants a baby too. Because Baby = Love + Royal Treatment.

Dev makes a bargain with God that if Sona is really pregnant and the previous report turns out to be wrong, he will believe in him.

If that happens, Dev darling, how would CVs humiliate a woman? They need an excuse na to reduce female lead to a pathetic being who only gets pity? Torture/humiliate/insult woman in victim mode = TRP. Don't you know the formula?

Sona is grateful for the acceptance this baby is getting her that her generous and loving nature couldn't. If we wondered at some point of time what makes a woman clutch onto her child and constantly try to justify her own self-worth through her baby? This is why.

We create this situation for women as a society where she is only valued when pregnant.

Precap: Dev arrives with report and whole family wants to see the confirmation but he is tensed.

I wonder why they are so eager to hear what is in the report. As far as they are considered, Ishwari ne jo diagnostic kar diya, bas kar diya. Ab bhagwan bhi usse badal nehin sakta...






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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shaheer,Erica N Supriya ji acting was good in today episode.But seriously I could not feel the emotions.Script is so weak.Execution is so bad.Sona confirmed she is pregnant.Being a nutrition she does not know.Baby parts will not be developed soon.Her talking touching her womb made no sense to me.Erica acting was good in the scene.Same way Dev praying in Mandir.Shaheer acting was good.It's good to see Dev praying to god n bending down his head to wish happiness for his Wife N Mother.That's about it.Nothing more than that.I wish Sona don't get pregnant.Let her face complications in her pregnancy.Let Ish get upset.I want to see how Dev handles the situation.I don't want a smooth ride.Let this ride be bumpy.Let Ish insecurity come out in open.Dev N Sona silently acknowledging the fact.Ish changed behaviour due to Sona's is pregnant.Even Sona said her un-born baby brought luck.This will be fresh start.I was like what nonsense is this.Because a bahu is pregnant.She gets royal treatment.Husband also happy seeing his mom papering her wife because she is pregnant not because of respect.I want CV's to add little bit realistic drama.Sona should not be pregnant now.Infertility track should be used to make Dev question Ish.Reg her selfish love.He openly in sense saying to his mom.You loved Sona because she is giving warris to our family.CV's need to address this issue.They cannot let it go.Lets see what CV's have in stores for us.But honestly I am disappointed the way this track is being handled till now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today's episode looks like everyone got character makeover.I can't seems to enjoy episode no matter what because No one in their right mind thinking To Get Confirmation dude. baki sab baad main. it's also irking me why dev was also praying for ishwari happiness in front of god when he knows this sudden love is Conditional one and totally fake.😕When He's going to make Sonkashi his priority?Right now more than anything his wife going to be Hurt most? 😕
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Word for this👏👏
A mother loves her children unconditionally. That's the only pure ans selfless love in the world.

For the rest I do not have any comments except if Sona is pregnant wouldn't she want to go to the Dr to get the reports or does she live in the victorian age?

Edited by gemini54 - 8 years ago
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@BOLD That's precisely my point with this entire track. I just could not wrap my head against this new way to show regressive attitude towards women.

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Shaheer,Erica N Supriya ji acting was good in today episode.But seriously I could not feel the emotions.Script is so weak.Execution is so bad.Sona confirmed she is pregnant.Being a nutrition she does not know.Baby parts will not be developed soon.Her talking touching her womb made no sense to me.Erica acting was good in the scene.Same way Dev praying in Mandir.Shaheer acting was good.It's good to see Dev praying to god n bending down his head to wish happiness for his Wife N Mother.That's about it.Nothing more than that.I wish Sona don't get pregnant.Let her face complications in her pregnancy.Let Ish get upset.I want to see how Dev handles the situation.I don't want a smooth ride.Let this ride be bumpy.Let Ish insecurity come out in open.Dev N Sona silently acknowledging the fact.Ish changed behaviour due to Sona's is pregnant.Even Sona said her un-born baby brought luck.This will be fresh start.I was like what nonsense is this.Because a bahu is pregnant.She gets royal treatment.Husband also happy seeing his mom papering her wife because she is pregnant not because of respect.I want CV's to add little bit realistic drama.Sona should not be pregnant now.Infertility track should be used to make Dev question Ish.Reg her selfish love.He openly in sense saying to his mom.You loved Sona because she is giving warris to our family.CV's need to address this issue.They cannot let it go.Lets see what CV's have in stores for us.But honestly I am disappointed the way this track is being handled till now.

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Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Today's episode looks like everyone got character makeover.I can't seems to enjoy episode no matter what because No one in their right mind thinking To Get Confirmation dude. baki sab baad main. it's also irking me why dev was also praying for ishwari happiness in front of god when he knows this sudden love is Conditional one and totally fake.😕When He's going to make Sonkashi his priority?Right now more than anything his wife going to be Hurt most? 😕



@Bold - I hated it.Praying god to make his Mom N Wife happy.When he clearly knows his mom love is conditional one n not unconditional one.Dev always search for quick solution.Not a permanent solution.Now also he want quick solution to make problems in his life vanish.That's why if Sona is actually pregnant.Ish will not be against Sona.She will love her.Dev's main issue.His mom loving Sona.Will be solved.That's why I want Dev to be in tough spot again.Sona should not be pregnant.Let Ish get upset.I want to see what will Dev do. Will he do what he did in break up track or stand for Sona.Make her as his priority.
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As I said, now the baby is all about Ishwari. Her happiness, her khandan ka waris, her wish, her change of attitude. I am seriously getting pissed off at this Bhagwan Maata's selfishness..

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Today's episode looks like everyone got character makeover.I can't seems to enjoy episode no matter what because No one in their right mind thinking To Get Confirmation dude. baki sab baad main. it's also irking me why dev was also praying for ishwari happiness in front of god when he knows this sudden love is Conditional one and totally fake.😕When He's going to make Sonkashi his priority?Right now more than anything his wife going to be Hurt most? 😕

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Originally posted by: tia.o

@BOLD That's precisely my point with this entire track. I just could not wrap my head against this new way to show regressive attitude towards women.



Some show openly show regressive attitude.In this show also they r showing regressive attitude.In a indirect way.I hate it.Motherhood is a part of Women's life.But it is not the only most imp part in Women's life.DIL's should always be treated with love n respect.Irrespective of she can become pregnant or not.Love n respect should not be based on if a women can become pregnant or not.This thought is so regressive.It needed to be changed.CV's can use this track to change this thinking.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very true. Any sane person would announce a news after getting at least one confirmation. She is the only woman who is jumping in joy based on an illiterate woman's hunch when the same symptoms could be anything from acidity to gastric ulcer. Are you kidding me?

Originally posted by: gemini54

Word for this👏👏

A mother loves her children unconditionally. That's the only pure ans selfless love in the world.

For the rest I do not have any comments except if Sona is pregnant wouldn't she want to go to the Dr to get the reports or does she live in the victorian age?

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



@Bold - I hated it.Praying god to make his Mom N Wife happy.When he clearly knows his mom love is conditional one n not unconditional one.Dev always search fro quick solution.Not a permanent solution.Now also he want quick solution to make problems in his life vanish.That's why if Sona is actually pregnant.Ish will not be against Sona.She will love her.Dev's main issue.His mom loving Sona.Will be solved.That's why I want Dev to be in tough spot again.Sona should not be pregnant.Let Ish get upset.I want to see what will Dev do.He will do what he did in break up track or stand for Sona.Make her as his priority.

LOL CV's will do everything but never going to make Dev against his mom with valid reason.What a husband Sona have.Ulta they have made Sona also ishwari's pujaran.

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