pass the snow white parcel....

Dear kind and generous ( ha I know the irony ) jnndsds fandom... Dear vv and dear young girls who are watching this. Show you know what dear women and men who are watch this show , dear society ... I have something to say to vv that you should probably listen to ...

Vividha kayshap...
YOU are NOT a consolation price...
Let me repeat a person / woman ( we shall stick to women for now ) is not a consolation price ...
She is not an item to be passed around according how the MEN in her life feel...

I was doing well this morning procrastination about finishing my next post , when I came across a something about how when atharv finds out how much ravish has done he will should give vividha to his brother .. And I was



😕

She is a mother f**king human being , she is not a price to be given to whoever is hero enough...


She is not an item for these brothers to play pass the parcel...
For the brothers to be like you have her , no you have her ...

And I will be like



... Because That shit is not acceptable...

Vividha kayshap has a brain of her own , its her life she gets to decide who she wants and what she wants. Why do people always find an excuse to take away her decisions for her ...



If its not forcing her into a forced marriage. its Atharva passing her off to his brother because ravish is so amazing , if atharva pulls that shit on me I will blow a fuse 🤬but not to worry , he is more of a feminist than me ...

Let me let this shit sink a woman is not property ,a woman is not something you pass around all willy nilly because that's how you feel ...

Imagine this shit atharva should be like Nooo 😔 my brother has done a lot for me so I will hand over vividha another human being as his consolation price

And of course we know ravish will be like nooo my brother has suffered to much let me pass back the parcel...



And am guessing vv as a woman has no right to speak and make decisions for her self as to who she loves and wants even though this girl has been very clear about this from the beginning



So am going to be like nooo




and set the beyond dreams studio on fire ...and safe my soul from this bullshit...

I know we all In our little worlds and on indian tv think , passing a person around and taking away their rights ... but guess what



And while we are at it ... I have another bone to pick...

A woman is a woman ... I don't get how a person can call vv. , names , call her cheap , lusty , sinful ,shameless ,impure there is a lot of other words and insult her on and on about how dare she not love her husband who she was forced to marry , how dare she how dare she ...

And I was okay with that shit because well read my banner or what ever ...


I have always wondered if you hate vv so much if you think this girl is a piece of shit.. Why , why would you still want her with your fav... Wouldn't you want them not to come ten foot close to her...this has always baffled me


And then I finally found out why because of my own stupidity , I end up understanding from what I read that all of this "qualities" vividha has from the cheapness ,lustiness ,sinfulness ,shamelessness ,impurity , can all be washed , her soul and body can be cleansed ...



I mean , how dare she? women are suppose to be , pure , fragile snow flakes , who are mindless robots who live to please and worship the men in their lives , they are suppose to be virgins , who are not even suppose to know how to spell the word sex...the are suppose to go in there blindfolded ...

Vividha was impure because she loves someone else ... She was impure because she owned her sexuality , she was impure because she didn't put much into a marriage that was against her free will... A marriage she has made clear many times means nothing to her but we still take away her free will by not even considering her opinion , we are no less than kk , because we want what we want and to hell with vv and her need of freedom ...

Guess what , because ravish is the purest thing the earth has ever seen , he can make vv pure ... The minute she gets with him all her sins will be washed away and this girl will become as pure as snow too... And then I get blamed thinking ravish is god...

And this is where I f**king draw that mother f**king line...


Let me say this shit as I will say it only once ...

Dear vv you where not born to , be pure for the sake of a man .



A man , does not have the ability to make a woman pure by being godly enough to accept her "despite" of her not falling into your twisted sense of right...

A girl is born to be a lot more on this earth than to please others and live in a golden cage...

Please tell your children this , tell them , make those young girls know they have the right to themselves and tell those young boys a girl is not a piece of property or prize , she is human and to be treated as such and they can not have such superiority complex...

Please am begging you , because it seems as if we women seem to teach our children that if they are not "pure" they are useless and teach our boys that if a girl is not "pure" she is worthless and only good men will take pity of such girls and MAKE them pure ...

The second painful thing I read today"was a speech by kidnapping and rape survivor Elizabeth Smart. Speaking at a Johns Hopkins human trafficking forum, Smart explained why she didn't try to run from her captors, or even cry for help when they took her out in public: Smart said she "felt so dirty and so filthy" after she was raped by her captor, and she understands why someone wouldn't run "because of that alone."
Smart spoke at a Johns Hopkins human
trafficking forum, saying she was raised
in a religious household and recalled a
school teacher who spoke once about
abstinence and compared sex to
chewing gum.
"I thought, 'Oh, my gosh, I'm that
chewed up piece of gum, nobody re-
chews a piece of gum, you throw it
away.' And that's how easy it is to feel
like you know longer have worth, you
know longer have value," Smart said.
"Why would it even be worth screaming
out? Why would it even make a
difference if you are rescued? Your life
still has no value."

Smart's reluctance to fight for her freedom isn't the cause of her rape or her harrowing 9- month imprisonment (her captors hold those distinctions entirely), but it's possible that she might have been rescued sooner had she not been socialized to believe dangerous ideas about female virtue and worth. Smart, understandably, internalized the things she had been taught all her life: that her value was inextricable from her "purity," that a woman without value had no reason to live, and, more obliquely, that her life and her body weren't really her own anyway. So what was the point? Why live? Why fight? The myth of female purity"the idea that "good girls have become as extinct as unicorns""could very easily have contributed to years more sexual slavery for Elizabeth Smart. Or her death.

Girls and women, if no one has ever told you this before, or if you just have trouble believing it: you are good, you are whole, you are yours. You do not exist to please men, and your value as a human being is not contingent upon your sexual capital. "Purity" is a lie.

Men can't actually care whether or not women are "pure," because there is no way for "purity" to be verified. It's just not a real thing, and chasing some phantom virtue for your entire life is a great way to ensure that you waste your goddamn life.

This entire "conversation" is just an effort to rig a system in which men get to determine female worthlessness no matter the input. There is nothing you can do to be pure. Meanwhile, they get to do literally whatever they want with anyone, to anyone, at any time. The double standard is so blatant it's
almost too boring to point out.
[www.alternet.org/gender/why-sexually-pure-good-girl-bs-myth-screws-both-women-and-men]

And before any one tries to say its not about sex or sexaulity ..




If that was true , why do we go around calling vitharv a lusty couple , why is every interact involving them deem too , intimate,.. why are we always complaining about vitharv , why is the only thing you see about phase one is the hugs and kisses , phase one was soo much more ... Why can't anyone see pass the hugs and kisses ...

Yes it might not be all about the intimacy , but 90 % of your problem and why you think vv is impure is because this girl knows who she is and what/ who she wants ... And ravish accepts, her choices to decide for herself , why can't we?...

And with that I will leave you with vv's theme song...

Whether I'm right or whether I'm wrong
Whether I find a place in this world or never
belong
I gotta be me, I've gotta be me
What else can I be but what I am
I want to live, not merely survive
And I won't give up this dream
Of life that keeps me alive
I gotta be me, I gotta be me
The dream that I see makes me what I am
That far-away prize, a world of success
Is waiting for me if I heed the call
I won't settle down, won't settle for less
As long as there's a chance that I can have it all
I'll go it alone, that's how it must be
I can't be right for somebody else
If I'm not right for me
I gotta be free, I've gotta be free
Daring to try, to do it or die
I've gotta be me
I'll go it alone, that's how it must be
I can't be right for somebody else
If I'm not right for me
I gotta be free, I just gotta be free
Daring to try, to do it or die
I gotta be me

I'm pro-hoe, pro-prude, pro-sex-on-the-first-date, pro-only-with-a-partner, pro-no-sex-until-marriage. Pro-your-body-your-rules. Pro-no-sex-at-all ,Pro-your-life-your-choice, and most importantly Pro-free-will...

First of all let me applaud for your post... You said it girl! 👏👏

I absolutely LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your post Kells!!!

Dont be so sweet that people gobble u up with the Coffee.

kells!

Originally posted by: srilatha1

kells!

that was an intense post unlike your sarcastic best. i don't believe that the only language you speak is sarcasm (this is the reply to gave to me for my response to one of your posts).

though not with interest i did read a few posts by these strange people who, just as you said, abuse vividha for her choice, call her impure, but want her to fall for ravish. kells you know what even i want to to ask them, what if vividha lost her virginity to atharv on that night? would they still want her for him or would want a PURE new girl coz ravish is god and nothing less than pure be served to him as an offering. who are any one to decide what is purity?

and to expect atharv, of all people, to offer vividha as a gesture of gratitude to his brother for saving and taking care of him is preposterous. first of all atharv himself never declared any rights on her. he in fact made her understand that she is not a thing to give away, or have rights on. for him she is an entity herself and she is the one who will decide what to do with self. had it been otherwise and thought as his property and as he has rights on her, he would have convinced her to consummate. but he promises her, things will happen just the way and how she wants it.

so to chose between atharv & ravish is solely her decision (not that we don't know).

btw, your song is something i am going to make my niece ready who is now being forced to chose to marry over career.

Kells...well...I don't have anything to say...🤔

Originally posted by: cool_kriti

First of all let me applaud for your post... You said it girl! 👏👏

So well said👏Vivi is not a parcel to pass around... I very well know by now that Vitharv are the end game... Although I was so confused earlier, now I have the clarity that Vitharv are the end game. Dont ask me how.. After much research I have come to this conclusion.😆😆

But coming back to your topic, Indian TV serials are full of these kind of sacrifices. And thats the reason I hate watching them... This is the only show I watch...But I am hoping they dont turn our show like this for trp's sake..

I too read the posts where they said marrying Ravish made Vivi "pure"..My blood boiled hearing that! This is the worst statement I ever heard...How can Somebody make somebody pure? And what makes me sad is that these are a bunch of girls who are making such posts...

Women are not objects to be treated like that!! Women empowerment is one of the biggest issues of the century

"A man , does not have the ability to make a woman pure by being godly enough to accept her "despite" of her not falling into your twisted sense of right...

A girl is born to be a lot more on this earth than to please others and live in a golden cage..."

You said it here...A girl is always expected to follow her father post marriage and husband after marriage as if she does not have the freedom to choose on her own...

"Please tell your children this , tell them , make those young girls know they have the right to themselves and tell those young boys a girl is not a piece of property or prize , she is human and to be treated as such and they can not have such superiority complex...

Please am begging you , because it seems as if we women seem to teach our children that if they are not "pure" they are useless and teach our boys that if a girl is not "pure" she is worthless and only good men will take pity of such girls and MAKE them pure .."

You rocked once again with this post Kell👏

Thank you 😳

And I will just take your word for it and believe with all my heart vitharv is end game... Girl I have always ignored everything because as you well know I can get into long complicated post ...

But I couldn't help it when I heard vv can get pure due to ravish 😕😡


And I just exploded I would have , gone crazy if I didn't vent...

And thank you once again...

Let me applaud u for ur post girl. You said it all.

Of course no woman is a thing and should not be treated as such. Love is a pure emotion that comes directly from the heart, it is a feeling which cannot be forced upon anyone.