What's Your Beyhadh Story? - Fun Post

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Posted: 8 years ago
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So, it may just be me but the forum feels a little tense. And since it is the weekend with no new episodes, here is a fun post! 😳

We all agree either Maya, Saanjh or both are doing slightly crazy things in love. But this post isn't about who is the crazy one or the evil one. It's about you!

We all get a little crazy when in love or a crush at the least. So lets share these stories!

What is something crazy that you have done for a boy/girl which you look back today and think "What was I thinking?"😆

I'll start with one:

As a teen, I use to have the biggest crush on this guy at school! The guy barely new I existed, but I thought he was so cute.😆

But being a chicken, I was too scared to talk to him. Basically struggled to get proper words out in front of him. So instead telling him that I liked him, I changed my route to classes at school so I can at least pass by him. This new route was out of my way but I use to do that just so I just walk by him.

I now look back at this and realize how silly that was of me, I should have just said "Hey". But I guess the teen me thought that it was a better idea to agonize myself by silently crushing over him like that in the shadows for months. So not creepy right? 😆😆

What's your "God dammit, that was so embarrassing, cringe worthy, I'll forever feel stupid" moment?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lol

Something similar has happened to me last year...
I saw someone at my cousins wedding and wanted to really be with him. He was very good looking had a great personality and was a surgeon... basically complete Punjabi package... but since I couldn't express myself and was quite shy I couldn't talk to him much. I wish I tried to talk to him, and tried my luck ;)
Don't even know if we will ever meet again :(
Damn I was such a kid... wish I acted a little more confident and beyhadh :P
Maybe the story would have been different today :|
Wish I had been beyhadh like Maya LoL 😆
Edited by ishakumar - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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My beyhad story--I had many crushes from school to college but was never interested in talking to dem..silenty line maarroing...😛
Edited by naaju - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh there are too many to choose from. In real life I am a bit like Maya. So if I fall in love I get obsessed with that person very easily 😛
My ex like Maya was an insomniac. Usse 5 baje se pehle nind nahi ata tha. And I generally go to bed pretty early. But while I was in that relationship just to give him company i used to talk to him over the phone everyday without fail from 12:30-5...sometimes till 7o' clock as well...

So aisa bohot bar hua hai k I kept the phone down and was planning to go to sleep while my parents were about to go to brush 😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Isha
Been there, done that so many times. 😆 That's okay, we can learn a little from each experience and maybe by the time we're 60 we can talk to a boy.😆

@naaju

Same! It's so sad.😆

@shaenma

Oh the things we do when we like someone right?😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: starasdf

@Isha

Been there, done that so many times.😆That's okay, we can learn a little from each experience and maybe by the time we're 60 we can talk to a boy.😆

@naaju

Same! It's so sad.😆

@shaenma

Oh the things we do when we like someone right?😳


Lolll 60!!!!
Lmfao I was thinking maybe after we die 😆
But seriously looking at Maya we should learn from her
Kya confidence hai ladki mein 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh gosh.. my story is tooo crazy.. I am still ashamed of it. 😳
I am sooo stupid!! 😳

So, for like 3 years ago, I got a chance to go to turkey in June, whereas I only go in summer. But this time, my mom, my 2 sisters, we flew to turkey. And the most important part is, my cousin's marriage was coming. 😳 Was that a coincidence? Really? Coz there, I met a guy. I was completely like frozen in front of him! I was like looking at him for 24/7 !! 😳 I am still confused.. if there is a coincidence! I mean, I even heard he was my childhood friend. We were used to play together. But I still don't remember my childhood with him. Anyway, I met him, he was sweet to me. Oh gosh his smile. 😳 Still kills me..!!
I am origin turkish. So, the marriage was turkish style.. Do you know the dance *halay* ?? Google it then you'll know. 😆 Btw.. at that time I got the chance to hold his hand. ☺️ Oh god.. he looked at me like what the f*ck??? 😳 But for me, it was worth it. ☺️ But then the next day of marriage,they left to their place (Istanbul). I was soo sad that I couldn't see him again. And still that was the last time I saw him. And now, you know what happened??? His sister got married yesterday!!! And in Kayseri!! (it's a city in turkey where I always go when I go to turkey and where I met him last time!)..
Anyway.. after the last meet.. I started to search him on social media.. but couldn't fnd him.. and so I gave up.. So like 2 years ago, I found him on instagram finally! He uses some other ssurname... that's why I couldn't find him easily.. But I was soo happy that I found him! I saw he had ask.fm aswel.. so I went there and asked him for his facebook account.. he gave me the link and we chatted on facebook.. He was sweet to me.. but it seemed like he wasn't interested in chatting with me as he cutted the conversation always off.. But I didn't give up, so I asked for his number.. we kept on chatting on WA.. he knows that I am from germany.. he asked me to marry him.. 😳 I was like W*f... who guy could ask something like that via WA???😳 and soo fast?? I knew there was something wrogn.. I kept on saying no etc.. But then he asked me to not msg him again.. and after that time, we don't talk anymore.. and a conversation of ours, was that he didn't have hope that we could ever meet... but...
This year his sister got married in same city where I always go and she is going to stay there when she is married.. Is it really a coincidence?? Am asking you.. pleas tell me it's not a coincidence.. because this is too much.. yaar.. we have even talked that we didn't have hope that we could ever meet again.. and now this!! I can always meet him when I go to turkey.. As he could go to that city to meet her sister.. that's obvious.. I don't know you can call me as obsessed but I am stalking him since I got his insta account and his number! 😆 And in suit, he looks too handsome.. ☺️

What do you think about my story?? Can I ever meet him again? I am soo curious to meet him again..
Edited by ..Violetta.. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Violetta..

Oh gosh.. my story is tooo crazy.. I am still ashamed of it. 😳
I am sooo stupid!! 😳

So, for like 3 years ago, I got a chance to go to turkey in June, whereas I only go in summer. But this time, my mom, my 2 sisters, we flew to turkey. And the most important part is, my cousin's marriage was coming. 😳 Was that a coincidence? Really? Coz there, I met a guy. I was completely like frozen in front of him! I was like looking at him for 24/7 !! 😳 I am still confused.. if there is a coincidence! I mean, I even heard he was my childhood friend. We were used to play together. But I still don't remember my childhood with him. Anyway, I met him, he was sweet to me. Oh gosh his smile. 😳 Still kills me..!!
I am origin turkish. So, the marriage was turkish style.. Do you know the dance *halay* ?? Google it then you'll know. 😆 Btw.. at that time I got the chance to hold his hand. ☺️ Oh god.. he looked at me like what the f*ck??? 😳 But for me, it was worth it. ☺️ But then the next day of marriage,they left to their place (Istanbul). I was soo sad that I couldn't see him again. And still that was the last time I saw him. And now, you know what happened??? His sister got married yesterday!!! And in Kayseri!! (it's a city in turkey where I always go when I go to turkey and where I met him last time!)..
Anyway.. after the last meet.. I started to search him on social media.. but couldn't fnd him.. and so I gave up.. So like 2 years ago, I found him on instagram finally! He uses some other ssurname... that's why I couldn't find him easily.. But I was soo happy that I found him! I saw he had ask.fm aswel.. so I went there and asked him for his facebook account.. he gave me the link and we chatted on facebook.. He was sweet to me.. but it seemed like he wasn't interested in chatting with me as he cutted the conversation always off.. But I didn't give up, so I asked for his number.. we kept on chatting on WA.. he knows that I am from germany.. he asked me to marry him.. 😳 I was like W*f... who guy could ask something like that via WA???😳 and soo fast?? I knew there was something wrogn.. I kept on saying no etc.. But then he asked me to not msg him again.. and after that time, we don't talk anymore.. and a conversation of ours, was that he didn't have hope that we could ever meet... but...
This year his sister got married in same city where I always go and she is going to stay there when she is married.. Is it really a coincidence?? Am asking you.. pleas tell me it's not a coincidence.. because this is too much.. yaar.. we have even talked that we didn't have hope that we could ever meet again.. and now this!! I can always meet him when I go to turkey.. As he could go to that city to meet her sister.. that's obvious.. I don't know you can call me as obsessed but I am stalking him since I got his insta account and his number! 😆 And in suit, he looks too handsome.. ☺️

What do you think about my story?? Can I ever meet him again? I am soo curious to meet him again..


Hey Violetta!

That is odd that he asked you to marry you over Whats App. Personally, I like the old school way, dating and what not, not Whats App proposals.

It's sweet though, you really do seem to like him. And its okay, we all use social media to stalk people. 😆 I'm sure he's done it as well.

I think you made the right call to say no to the Whats App proposal. You know, when we like someone, sometimes we convince ourselves that coincidences are not just that, but something like destiny. Its really easy to do so because we really want to believe but sometimes a coincidence is just that, a coincidence.

I don't know if you will ever meet him again, maybe yes and maybe no. But I wouldn't wait for him. I would try to move own by telling myself that if its meant to be then we will run into each other again. And if not, that means that there is someone better suited for you out there that you will meet. And with this person, timing, location and compatibility will be a lot better then this guy. And you'll know that, that is the reason it never worked out with him.

Of course advice is always easier said then done, but I hope that helps!

Star

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