Friendship broken! Who is at fault?

Hello everyone,

This time I want to discuss about the friendship of Saanjh and Arjun!
So, their friendship is at the end.. I mean, this came even very late as of my exceptations..
But I thought about this :"Who is at fault?" Who is the reason for it? Is it Maya ? Is it Saanjh or is it Arjun?

Obviously, it's Saanjh's fault! Now, people are gonna hate me for this maybe.. but I just want to let out my thoughts, then let's discuss about this. Please read it before you comment..

I think it's Saanjh's fault.. definitely! That's why I am against a friendship of girl and a boy! This can't be happening! We still try to be friends with boys but as soon or later, one of them fall in love and soon their friendship is on a cliff. I mean, it's definitely great to find your love but finding your love in your friendship? Really? Yes, someone wants a life partner with whom you can share anything and everything, with whom you can talk about anything.. with whom you find comfort and peace. But people mix up what is friendship and what is love! And this is the problem, even now, it's the problem even if we are on 21st century This will never change.

Obviously, it's Arjun's fault aswell.. when he speaks about "you, middle class people won't understand what us high class people talking about"... this is definitely break your heart if you love that person or not.. but I don't want to come to that point.. I am talking about Saanjh right now.. but even when she fell in love with him, she could tell him her feelings.. He is her friend.. "I thought".

Hmm.. let's see what you all are thinking about it..

Vio mata..hello
Now I am waiting when the war starts..
I have taken my jaru and eggs.
I am ready..let the war come..lol

Ps.Will comment tomorrow 😉

lol I totally agree with u
She is been living with false hopes
Arjun has not given her any signals that he loves her in that way
He always has said you and Ayan are the same for me
Running after him is like wasting your time because this boy has different ambitions

Hii I violetta I think no can give you the best answer than me..I am married to my ten year long friend ...we are friends from teens and he fell in love with me...after he proposed and I denied whenever I try to do the friendly chat it was never the same.we end up fighting...he was always in a fear that one fine day I will leave him, I was so sure he will be friend till death but he got never convinced..the joy, fun, lovely family moments was going away slowly because he told his parents about his love and they all wanted us to end up together...But I was very much sure that I wanted only friendship...when we step up into late twenties his parents approached my parents with a wedding offer which I denied ..they felt insulted, he felt hurt and our friendship came to an end, he went to hydrabad for higher studies and I was working...I didn't make any new close friend ...But one day I heard that he got engaged to a girl through one common friend and I broke up into pieces...I don't know why!!! I cried cried and cried like anything , I don't know what I lost but I felt empty...and slowly I realized I am in love with him !!!but I lost him because I never thought that there is a love in our friendship and he was very much correct that I would regret and realize it one day...you know what I prayed God that I should see him at least once in my life time...But God had other plans ...he called me one day for inviting to his wedding...and God the day I met him I didn't see my old friend but this new lover of mine...and rest his history...we are married today and I have a seven month old baby and it's our anniversary tomorrow...to be honest vwith you I am the happiest person today ...because I married my friend.I need not explain everything to him. I need not argue, I need not fight, I am living this free happy life with my friend who loves me endlessly...so you can get it from my life that love in friendship is always beautiful and meaningful...so when arjun yesterday tried to calm down dusky by saying that I am your duffer it clearly shows his love and he will realize that very soon.

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

Hii I violetta I think no can give you the best answer than me..I am married to my ten year long friend ...we are friends from teens and he fell in love with me...after he proposed and I denied whenever I try to do the friendly chat it was never the same.we end up fighting...he was always in a fear that one fine day I will leave him, I was so sure he will be friend till death but he got never convinced..the joy, fun, lovely family moments was going away slowly because he told his parents about his love and they all wanted us to end up together...But I was very much sure that I wanted only friendship...when we step up into late twenties his parents approached my parents with a wedding offer which I denied ..they felt insulted, he felt hurt and our friendship came to an end, he went to hydrabad for higher studies and I was working...I didn't make any new close friend ...But one day I heard that he got engaged to a girl through one common friend and I broke up into pieces...I don't know why!!! I cried cried and cried like anything , I don't know what I lost but I felt empty...and slowly I realized I am in love with him !!!but I lost him because I never thought that there is a love in our friendship and he was very much correct that I would regret and realize it one day...you know what I prayed God that I should see him at least once in my life time...But God had other plans ...he called me one day for inviting to his wedding...and God the day I met him I didn't see my old friend but this new lover of mine...and rest his history...we are married today and I have a seven month old baby and it's our anniversary tomorrow...to be honest vwith you I am the happiest person today ...because I married my friend.I need not explain everything to him. I need not argue, I need not fight, I am living this free happy life with my friend who loves me endlessly...so you can get it from my life that love in friendship is always beautiful and meaningful...so when arjun yesterday tried to calm down dusky by saying that I am your duffer it clearly shows his love and he will realize that very soon.

Thank you so much for sharing your lovely story .You must be seeing your story in duffer and dusky story 😳 I feel so happy for you and God bless you and your family.I genuinely feel reading people are really lucky to get lover as best friend in the same person.

I donno whoz @ fault..

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

Hii I violetta I think no can give you the best answer than me..I am married to my ten year long friend ...we are friends from teens and he fell in love with me...after he proposed and I denied whenever I try to do the friendly chat it was never the same.we end up fighting...he was always in a fear that one fine day I will leave him, I was so sure he will be friend till death but he got never convinced..the joy, fun, lovely family moments was going away slowly because he told his parents about his love and they all wanted us to end up together...But I was very much sure that I wanted only friendship...when we step up into late twenties his parents approached my parents with a wedding offer which I denied ..they felt insulted, he felt hurt and our friendship came to an end, he went to hydrabad for higher studies and I was working...I didn't make any new close friend ...But one day I heard that he got engaged to a girl through one common friend and I broke up into pieces...I don't know why!!! I cried cried and cried like anything , I don't know what I lost but I felt empty...and slowly I realized I am in love with him !!!but I lost him because I never thought that there is a love in our friendship and he was very much correct that I would regret and realize it one day...you know what I prayed God that I should see him at least once in my life time...But God had other plans ...he called me one day for inviting to his wedding...and God the day I met him I didn't see my old friend but this new lover of mine...and rest his history...we are married today and I have a seven month old baby and it's our anniversary tomorrow...to be honest vwith you I am the happiest person today ...because I married my friend.I need not explain everything to him. I need not argue, I need not fight, I am living this free happy life with my friend who loves me endlessly...so you can get it from my life that love in friendship is always beautiful and meaningful...so when arjun yesterday tried to calm down dusky by saying that I am your duffer it clearly shows his love and he will realize that very soon.

Aww.. this is a very sweet love story dear... finding love in your friend is very hard.. but you are lucky that u got a life partner who is even ur best friend. God bless you and your marriage and your cutie si baby <333☺️

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Thank you so much for sharing your lovely story .You must be seeing your story in duffer and dusky story 😳 I feel so happy for you and God bless you and your family.I genuinely feel reading people are really lucky to get lover as best friend in the same person.

I am very much lucky...in this show I didn't expect any couples at all...be it ArYa or ArSa I am ok with anything..all I wanted to see is the thrill they promised us...

Originally posted by: ..Violetta..

Aww.. this is a very sweet love story dear... finding love in your friend is very hard.. but you are lucky that u got a life partner who is even ur best friend. God bless you and your marriage and your cutie si baby <333☺️

thanks 're...

The friendship doesn't really look like only friendship . . They both are almost like partners. Saanjh does everything from arranging his clothes to almost fulfilling his every need. He too is dependent on her for smallest things. The relationships looks really deep and you never know when feeling might switch from arjun s side. I personally feel arjun needs to grow up . . . he simply needs to introspect . . . . He is immature . . . . . He will not realise it and later will create problem for himself and saanjh. . . Maya won't keep him alive if he changes his mind later. . . .