Friendship broken! Who is at fault? - Page 2

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

Hii I violetta I think no can give you the best answer than me..I am married to my ten year long friend ...we are friends from teens and he fell in love with me...after he proposed and I denied whenever I try to do the friendly chat it was never the same.we end up fighting...he was always in a fear that one fine day I will leave him, I was so sure he will be friend till death but he got never convinced..the joy, fun, lovely family moments was going away slowly because he told his parents about his love and they all wanted us to end up together...But I was very much sure that I wanted only friendship...when we step up into late twenties his parents approached my parents with a wedding offer which I denied ..they felt insulted, he felt hurt and our friendship came to an end, he went to hydrabad for higher studies and I was working...I didn't make any new close friend ...But one day I heard that he got engaged to a girl through one common friend and I broke up into pieces...I don't know why!!! I cried cried and cried like anything , I don't know what I lost but I felt empty...and slowly I realized I am in love with him !!!but I lost him because I never thought that there is a love in our friendship and he was very much correct that I would regret and realize it one day...you know what I prayed God that I should see him at least once in my life time...But God had other plans ...he called me one day for inviting to his wedding...and God the day I met him I didn't see my old friend but this new lover of mine...and rest his history...we are married today and I have a seven month old baby and it's our anniversary tomorrow...to be honest vwith you I am the happiest person today ...because I married my friend.I need not explain everything to him. I need not argue, I need not fight, I am living this free happy life with my friend who loves me endlessly...so you can get it from my life that love in friendship is always beautiful and meaningful...so when arjun yesterday tried to calm down dusky by saying that I am your duffer it clearly shows his love and he will realize that very soon.

Oh my God your story made me so emotional
What a beautiful yet emotional love story
God bless your marriage and bless your lil family
I'm glad you both had a happy ending together

But I'm team Maya and Arjun 😳 but want the best for saanjh ❤️

@vio mata don't know what to say..
Trying to work my brain..but it isn't working..after reading @sindhu's story..
It is making me emotional..
I also want thrill beyhadh thrill as the show makers have promised to us..
Every thriller gets wasted with love story..
From this show I only want everything. Beyhadh..

The friendship doesn't really look like only friendship . . They both are almost like partners. Saanjh does everything from arranging his clothes to almost fulfilling his every need. He too is dependent on her for smallest things. The relationships looks really deep and you never know when feeling might switch from arjun s side. I personally feel arjun needs to grow up . . . he simply needs to introspect . . . . He is immature . . . . . He will not realise it and later will create problem for himself and saanjh. . . Maya won't keep him alive if he changes his mind later. . . . [/QUOTE]🤣ek dum ullu ke patte..But if he tries to switch sides after accepting Maya ki proposal then I feel he is too way wrong.

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

@vio mata don't know what to say..
Trying to work my brain..but it isn't working..after reading @sindhu's story..
It is making me emotional..
I also want thrill beyhadh thrill as the show makers have promised to us..
Every thriller gets wasted with love story..
From this show I only want everything. Beyhadh..

arrey I am not Maya neither hot ,spicey or obsessive..so my story is emotional..Maya mam will give us all what we wanted also Mr.ashwin is there to play the dirty game and arjun baba is there is mess up everything and will stimulate mayas pagalpan..😉

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

Hii I violetta I think no can give you the best answer than me..I am married to my ten year long friend ...we are friends from teens and he fell in love with me...after he proposed and I denied whenever I try to do the friendly chat it was never the same.we end up fighting...he was always in a fear that one fine day I will leave him, I was so sure he will be friend till death but he got never convinced..the joy, fun, lovely family moments was going away slowly because he told his parents about his love and they all wanted us to end up together...But I was very much sure that I wanted only friendship...when we step up into late twenties his parents approached my parents with a wedding offer which I denied ..they felt insulted, he felt hurt and our friendship came to an end, he went to hydrabad for higher studies and I was working...I didn't make any new close friend ...But one day I heard that he got engaged to a girl through one common friend and I broke up into pieces...I don't know why!!! I cried cried and cried like anything , I don't know what I lost but I felt empty...and slowly I realized I am in love with him !!!but I lost him because I never thought that there is a love in our friendship and he was very much correct that I would regret and realize it one day...you know what I prayed God that I should see him at least once in my life time...But God had other plans ...he called me one day for inviting to his wedding...and God the day I met him I didn't see my old friend but this new lover of mine...and rest his history...we are married today and I have a seven month old baby and it's our anniversary tomorrow...to be honest vwith you I am the happiest person today ...because I married my friend.I need not explain everything to him. I need not argue, I need not fight, I am living this free happy life with my friend who loves me endlessly...so you can get it from my life that love in friendship is always beautiful and meaningful...so when arjun yesterday tried to calm down dusky by saying that I am your duffer it clearly shows his love and he will realize that very soon.

Originally posted by: xsumi

Oh my God your story made me so emotional
What a beautiful yet emotional love story
God bless your marriage and bless your lil family
I'm glad you both had a happy ending together

But I'm team Maya and Arjun 😳 but want the best for saanjh ❤️

thanks yarr...what if arjun loves Maya it would be nice...But then where comes this thrill part??? As this is not the love story I don't ship any couple sumi

@kavya anjali...no offense taken...you are correct in your perspective..I just tried to explain violetta that love happens in its way and it's not saanjhs intentional mistake nor arjuns...that's all..I was not moved when my mother-in-law was searching a girl for my husband at that time and one of the girl she chose was my best friend...I was not moved by then...I feel the distance between us made me realize my love so will happen for arjun...

Originally posted by: tanvismile

The friendship doesn't really look like only friendship . . They both are almost like partners. Saanjh does everything from arranging his clothes to almost fulfilling his every need. He too is dependent on her for smallest things. The relationships looks really deep and you never know when feeling might switch from arjun s side. I personally feel arjun needs to grow up . . . he simply needs to introspect . . . . He is immature . . . . . He will not realise it and later will create problem for himself and saanjh. . . Maya won't keep him alive if he changes his mind later. . . .

Originally posted by: kavyanjali08

Yes Arjun is immature most of the times but he can be mature if he wants to... behind all of his playfulness & jokes, he had shown his maturity when situation demanded from him... I feel his playful personality is his defence machanism to hide his pain like Maya hides her true self behind her cold personality & Saanjh masks her pains behind false smiles... so Arjun mostly hides himself behind all the immaturity & indifference towards most things. Yes he had shown some dumbness in being to detect what sort of feelings people around him have towards him but aren't most men always quite dumb & slow when it comes emotions compared to women. Now about Maya flipping if he breaks up with her later after accepting her... well not only Maya but isn't it common notion that most people don't take breakups well both in real & real life. I mean in real life 75% people have had breakups which either ends in bitter note or one having hard time accepting it... isn't this one of the reasons for 'Crime of passion' happening around us in our daily life. Even in reel life it is shown time & again that no one takes rejection easily... be it Mandira & Meera of 'Kyuki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi' who were razy after Mihir or Tanu of 'Kumkum Bhagya' who is after Abhi & doing all sorts of plotting-planning or Malaikka of 'Kasam...' who is still trying to somehow break Tanu-Rishi's marriage so she could marry Rishi... so yeah this proves that no one takes breakup that easily & except it just like that, so why expect from Maya to simply accept & back off if it ever happens.

Now about Arjun depending so much on Saanjh & her doing every little thing for him...well I think she herself made him so depended on her because she doesn't let him do anything himself nor she lets him try to.. as she knows somewhere knows herself that if he becomes too independent than maybe she would be sidelined in his life from that day onwards, which was seen that one morning Arjun had gone office himself without her walking or helping...that has made her upset. Also another reason I think Arjun depends so much on Saanjh is because of lack of strong female figure in his life... his stern relationship with Vandana too plays a part here, maybe if he has a good relationship with Vandhana than maybe he wouldn't have been so depended on Saanjh. Generally female is the emotional source in life especially in a guy's life, which is why boys are tend to be more close to there mother than thete father. Now since Arjun doesn't have such emotional source in form of a mother figure, he seeks that emotional comfort in closest available person which happens to be Saanjh, his best friend. So yeah I think all depending on Saanjh so much till now mostly because of lack of a female figure in his life & then Saanjh herself made him to be so depended on her...

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

@kavya anjali...no offense taken...you are correct in your perspective..I just tried to explain violetta that love happens in its way and it's not saanjhs intentional mistake nor arjuns...that's all..I was not moved when my mother-in-law was searching a girl for my husband at that time and one of the girl she chose was my best friend...I was not moved by then...I feel the distance between us made me realize my love so will happen for arjun...