Meet Qazi's Uncle Rafi

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If you are one of the millions of Indians who sent mobile phone text messages to keep Qazi Tauqeer in the running for Sony Entertainment Television's hit reality show Fame Gurukul, you have a government decision and a family from Khanyar area of Srinagar to thank. The government decision in 1998 -- to allow cable television in Kashmir -- gave the then 12-year-old Qazi a new obsession. And the family -- Qazi's -- helped the starry-eyed lad keep his musical dream alive within the confines of their 10-bedroom brick and wood house, shielding him from terrorism's dance of death outside.
"He [Qazi] doesn't know anything about the world. He is obsessed with dancing and acting," says Rafi Qazi, his uncle and mentor, who registered his nephew's name for Fame Gurukul, prepared his portfolio and bought him a ticket to Delhi. In fact, when Qazi was part of the winning Fame Jodi (with Ruprekha Banerjee), he dedicated it to his uncle. Qazi was obsessed with showbiz ever since he was a child. On his demand, his family fixed a huge mirror in his bedroom, so that he could practise his moves in front of it. And when he wanted a harmonium, they bought it for him even though his grandfather's income was only Rs 500. "He knew he would make it big one day. The ambience in our home was such that he was allowed to pursue his passion," says Rafi.

In the picture: Rafi Qazi watches Fame Gurukul with his wife (in pink) and Qazi's grandmother Amina




When Qazi saw Abhijit Sawant become the Indian Idol, he said, 'Yeh to kuch bhi nahin [he is no match for me].' If any such competition came his way he vowed he would win. Mohmmad Khalil, Qazi's 83-year-old retired government servant grandfather, used to tell him, 'Good guys study, educate themselves and only then the windows of world open up. Who is going to know you when you are dancing all the time within these four walls? You should get out of your bedroom.' "He would reply, 'Dadaji, one day I will make it so big that I'll send you my car to pick you up,'" says a smiling Khalil.
Rafi says in the last three years, Qazi never slept at night. He would go to sleep at 7 am and wake up late in the afternoon because he would keep watching television, or keep his tapedeck on to practise dancing throughout the night. Once, their neighbours complained that Qazi's dancing disturbed a newlywed couple in their home! Since the neighbours were their relatives too, they were advised to keep the windows tightly shut. "Qazi's non-stop dancing damaged the wooden flooring of his bedroom. But we didn't scold him. We repaired the flooring, though it cost an arm and a leg," says Rafi. As most of India knows by now, Qazi is not a trained singer. But that never stopped him from warbling in the bathroom. "But if he sang off key, I would shout, 'Qazi, tu besura ho raha hai [Qazi, you're going out of tune]," says the uncle, who was a singer himself. He didn't particularly know how to handle vowels. "Qazi calls me 'oncle'," says Rafi. Relatives' taunts -- that Qazi was not gainfully employed -- fell on deaf ears.

In the picture: Qazi wins at a school competition




Qazi's mother Rukhsana is a schoolteacher. His father Mushtaq Ahmed was an advocate and legal advisor at the local United Nations office in Srinagar. Qazi was the apple of his grandma Amina Begum's eye. "When he was a toddler I used to sing him so many Kashmiri songs. He always loved music and dance," says Amina. "He was very handsome. I never ever took him out because I thought some evil shadow would fall upon him." Qazi, who was born June 4, 1986, was such a cute child that when he was three years old, a Canadian couple, who were passing his home, wrote down the address of his house and sent him a jumper.
Qazi would dance all the time, often bumping his limbs and head against the walls and windows. But children his age often ridiculed Qazi because he was different. At birthday parties, he would be neglected. Once, he was asked to keep away, because he was a 'weird child.' Qazi's first love was cricket. He wanted to be like Rahul Dravid. He even went to Kolkata for a game. He also took up skiing and drama seriously. That was when cable television came to Kashmir, and Qazi's life changed. He was hooked to songs and dances. "He never went out to the streets. He was always glued to the television. Even when he was five years old he knew how to sing and dance. That hobby came alive with the arrival of cable television," says Rafi. Qazi never took his studies seriously. He would just go through his books a few days before the exams and pass with 40 to 45 per cent marks.

In the picture: Qazi's grandfather with Rafi and Rafi's son




Like Haba Kadal, Khaniyar was a safe hideout for anti-India elements in Srinagar. During the peak of the Kashmir militancy, even the Indian Army found it difficult to enter the locality. "When Mushtaq used to practise in court, militants used to demand a share from his income. My son got fed up and quit the legal profession," says Qazi's grandpa Khalil. But Mushtaq says he was inspired by pir Kadir baba in Kupwara, who cured Qazi's grandma Amina of a serious ailment. Mushtaq quit law and became a Sufi pir. "At one point I was a beggar for months in New Delhi's Nizumuddin Dargah. I hardly ate or drank. I was in my own world," he says. Now, many people look up to Mushtaq as a spiritual leader. Qazi was upset to see crowds coming to his home for his father's blessings, but his grandmother would explain to the child why his Abba Huzoor was so sought after by poor and sick people.
Qazi and his younger brother Touseef are a study in contrast. Touseef likes to fix gadgets and is not afraid of travelling and venturing out. Unlike him, Qazi hardly ever ventured out of his house. When he was a child of five or six years, if gunfire erupted outside his house, Qazi would rush to his grandma and hide. He can't stand the sight of blood, and has a phobia of road accident deaths. The inevitable question, why the separatist movement never influenced Qazi, pops out. "He was just three years old when militancy began in Kashmir. You must understand there is a generation gap. He is just not political," says Rafi. "Once he asked me, 'Who is Sheikh Abdullah?' I said he is the father of [then] chief minister Farooq Abdullah. He [Qazi] is an artist. Our family is completely apolitical, so how could militancy touch him? At that time [when the militancy was at its peak], people in our area would abuse us as 'Hindustani.'" Incidentally, the former chief minister was so impressed by Qazi's performance at a public function in Srinagar in 2004 that he gave his wristwatch to the young boy.

In the picture: A very young Qazi




Qazi's family is overwhelmed with the adulation their child has won with Fame Gurkul. Rafi records every single episode with a handycam. "He will make it big if he opts for career in acting, but to sing he will have to take training first," admits Rafi. When he asked Qazi to audition for All India Radio or any state level organisation, Qazi would run away. The lad would ask, 'Did Amitabh Bachchan appear for any test?'
Everyone in the family says Qazi never cared for money. He would not keep money for himself. Whenever he needed it he would ask for it from his parents or grandparents, mostly to buy tapes. Qazi likes Paresh Rawal but not Johnny Lever. He thinks Kareena Kapoor looked great in a burkha in Dev. He loves the songs of Dosti and Jeene Ki Raah -- especially Aane se uske aayi bahar and Ehsan mere dil pe tumhara hai doston. And Ek pal ka jeena from Kaho Na... Pyar Hai is his favourite song. He loves Shahi Kebab and roast chicken marinated in yoghurt. He keeps punctuating everything he says with 'Arre yaar.' And he can't cook. During his maiden venture into the kitchen he added sugar instead of salt to an omelette. In one of the episodes of Fame Gurukul, Qazi said his only girlfriend is his grandma. Ask Rafi if Qazi goes out on dates and his uncle says, "Aisi ghatiya harkat woh nahin karta [He never stoops so low]. "We are happy about Qazi because he deserves it," Rafi adds. "He has earned every bit of his success. Ours is a joint family and Qazi was always a very special child. But he is not as famous in Kashmir as he is in, say, Kolkata or Ahmedabad."

In the picture: Qazi's grandmother sits in front of a picture of a very young and handsome Qazi

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Posted: 19 years ago
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uncle rafi thanks alot for telling us about qazi.we would like to know more about him.we all here in lusaka zambia love him alottttttttttttttttttttttttt.he is great!we are very proud of him.and wish him all the best for his future...duas with him...inshallah he will become more famous one day ameen...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow datz rilly kul...fanx alot barnali..it was wonderful knowin abt his fam..n oh ma GOd qazi is lukn so cute in hiz childhoodz pico... 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow!!!! omg...i never knew how qaziz life style would be!!!! i respect qaziz determination! 😃

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