Originally posted by: gemini54
First of all I want to applaud you on such a beautiful post👏. You have voiced what a lot if us were trying to say when we came across as bashing Dev. Just because we are asking Dev to stand up for Sona does not mean we are asking him to ignore his mother. If we thought like that that none of us mothers will dare to even get their sons married. Here it is about Dev recognizing that he is married has responsibilities towards his new wife and learning to stand up when he needs to so that Easwari also understands what is happening. Instead in this show they show him not standing up for her when needed , always trying to pacify Easwari even though he is really not ignoring her . The way I see it the ball is in Dev's hands he needs wake up and see what is happening around him and take action.There is saying in Tamil but I will translate in English when a cat closes its eyes it feels the whole world is sleeping. So just because we choose to be oblivious to our surroundings it does not make it trueThanks again for a beautiful postthank u so much dear...
like u said the ball is in dev's court so he needs to play it...playing the dumb husband wont get him anywhere...tmrw wen sona will need his support regarding pregnancy or prenup he needs to speak up even if he has to go against his mom...
first of all he needs to put his mom down from that pedestal where he has placed...let that place be for actual god and not ishwari who is a very much flawed human being...once he see her that way he will also learn to speak where necessary...