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while i feel dev needs to understand between rite and wrong wen ishwari is emotionally manipulating him i never mean that he shud disrespect her and point accusing fingers at her...
today ishwari taunted sona that she is stepping beyond the boundary that is set in any relationship...of course she was talking about sona making the kachodis which she wanted to do by herself...of course it made no sense since anyone wud do that...ishwari is hurt and so needs to rest...moreover ishwari talking about her own love for her son getting missed since she cud not make the kachodis only makes me see the narrow thinking of her that only by doing such tasks she can express his love for dev...
makes sense in a way since her life revolves around her son...i wud hv sympathized with this lady had she only one son but no daughters...i can never understand her blatant display of partiality to just one child...
ok now back to ishwari taunted sona that she is stepping beyond the boundary that is set in any relationship...isnt ishwari doing the same thing...wen dev went to stay one night at bose house he failed to inform his mom but he did inform neha which is alrite...we dont inform every person at home of our whereabouts...ishwari arriving at boses is just one example...ishwari keeping the keys of dev's wardrobe now that he is married is another example...there r few more which rite now i cant recall...isnt that overstepping into the boundary of a husband and wife...
but for ishwari no logic makes sense...watever sona will do or not do she will be always in conflict with her since she feels sona is a big part of dev's life for whom she used to be the entire.world...even today dev says so but ish knows v well that is not true now and that is wat makes her always see sona as her rival...
now the solution lies in dev's hand...he is not a man who cant sense between right and wrong...obviously he can since he has been the man of the family since 8 years of age and he has built this business empire all with his own efforts...but where does this sense goes wen coming to ishwari...
wen ishwari took overdose of pills and was hospitalized and mamaji said how she feels about sona his immediate decision was to cut off all ties with sona...
wen ishwari manipulated him to cancel HM he readily did so...
wen ishwari pouted that he by calling asha as ma is moving away from her he obliged by promising not to call her ma anymore...
in all these instances and many more where did his sense of right and wrong go..most important is the recent speech made by ish on his bday...he was so swayed by her self obsessed speech that he is determined to prove that he is not that kind of son who forgets his mom after marriage...in every step he is proving this since the speech...in the photo session he pretended to forget sona until bijoy intervened...even in their solo photo dev put his arms around her only after nikki insisted...wat was all that...nothing except to gv the msg to ishwari that sona is secondary in his life...
the morning after his fever wen he woke up and heard from sona how her treatment worked against his ma he immediately went to his ma and put his head on her lap and said all emotional things like up lap is heaven bla bla bla...of course the thot that struck him wen he heard that sona's treatment worked that his ma may be feeling that she is losing grip on him...
this kind of obsession toward son is unhealthy for any mother-son even if the son is not married...and here he is married so such kind of grip on his son can never work wonders on his marital life unless wife is like sona who has patience to tolerate such crap...
but more than ishwari i will blame dev for indulging his mom...after marriage every man needs to understand that his mom may be the first woman in his life but a large portion of his life now belongs solely to his wife like sona said the other day that there shud be something of u that shud be exclusively mine...
i feel dev shud learn to discriminate right and wrong even wen with his ma...at other times he is successful in doing that so wen with ma he shud learn the same too...
dev needs to learn to tell his mom where to stop interfering in his life...if again tmrw she manipulates him to do something that he knows is wrong then he shud learn to voice his opinion that he will not do wat she wants even if she feels hurt...and he shud tell her that if she truly trusts his love towards her then she shud stop feeling insecured by the moments he spends with his wife or wen he is calling his MIL as ma...
finally now ishwari wants a grandchild...ok she genuinely wants one until GKB tells her that baby will be distraction for sona as she will less focus on dev...if this become the reason for ishwari's desire to see grandchild then dev shud better tell her that he will postpone his fatherhood till her mindset changes...
as for sona's inability to conceive letz see how dev handles this matter...
dev has come a long way snce the first episode...now i want to see how he grows from here...how he manages to balance between the two most important ladies in his life which he once said...
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