Dev has lost interest in sona ??

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have a serious doubt.
According to the story line it is only a month since Dev & sona got married.
Couple usually in first few months of marriage tend to spend time with each other as far as possible.
Even in joint families.

Here both are working; there are any number of opportunities to meet outside.
Spend some quality time together.
From the look of it Dev or for that matter, sona also not interested in
physical intimacy.that is what I have gathered from what they are showing.
Maybe I am wrong also.

First few months of marriage is a real bliss.the couple will really enjoy the company of each other
Here they were head over heels in love before marriage.
They couldn't live without each other.

What happened in a month's time?
Love vanished?
Or iswari's interference is too much that they are unable to be happy together.
If that was the case , isn't time that dev start introspecting things .
Why they aren't happy together?

But here dev is shown not to be bothered at all.
At least before marriage, if he didn't see her , he used to be restless. Now it looks like he is not particularly anxious to meet his wife.

It it that the lust has gone & no more love is left?
I know they have never shown Dev lusting for sona.
I am not seeing love either.

Sorry for my rant. Share your views.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Everyday they see each other and sleep on the same bed so there is no question of not seeing each other .If he was not interested in her then he would not have gone to Bose house to bring Sona back .He still gets restless when he doesn't see her at home

Priorities change after marriage and there is added responsibility as well so they cannot be like GF BF always.

Yes Ishwari's interference ,work pressure and their own adjustment problems have caused romance to take a back seat but I am sure with time they will sort the issue .These issues are very common in first year of marriage

Coming to their intimacy we can only imagine .In indian TV They won't show them getting intimate after SR .Everything is left to viewers imagination

Anyway dear Dev is gonna be praised in this thread 😆 .I can see that coming .Hope you have a great discussion
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I cannot say if he lost his interest in Sona or not
Action speaks louder than words..I doubt now if he truly loved Sona or was it just a infatuation

But he is constantly made guilty by Ishwari whenever he tries to do something for Sona, something with Sona or something advised by Sona.

So I guess he is trying his best to ensure Ishu's happiness even if it requires to break heart of his own wife..

He has done it in past so he is kindda comfortable doing it again n again!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I feel the ishwari drama is too much now a days so we don't enjoy devakshi scenes or there r no intimate devakshi scenes I guess
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev applying cake on Sona's face is causing Ishu to hyper-ventilate.. Why do you think God-son will want to spend time with the evil 3rd person who is planning plotting so much to destroy couple Dev-Ishwari's divine relationship !! 😈
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Posted: 8 years ago
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They both want to spend time with each other but every time someone disturb them. That date dinner got cancelled and when they are in there bedroom everyone keep knocking and than they didn't get time.plus ishwari emotional blackmailing also is cherry on top.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Everyday they see each other and sleep on the same bed so there is no question of not seeing each other .If he was not interested in her then he would not have gone to Bose house to bring Sona back .He still gets restless when he doesn't see her at home

Priorities change after marriage and there is added responsibility as well so they cannot be like GF BF always.

Yes Ishwari's interference ,work pressure and their own adjustment problems have caused romance to take a back seat but I am sure with time they will sort the issue .These issues are very common in first year of marriage

Coming to their intimacy we can only imagine .In indian TV They won't show them getting intimate after SR .Everything is left to viewers imagination

Anyway dear Dev is gonna be praised in this thread 😆 .I can see that coming .Hope you have a great discussion


Yes you are right wrt lovers and their behaviour post marriage...but from the begining I have felt that for Dev Sona is more of a necessity than love...he likes her but he needs her around for emotional support...I dont think there is that physical need as well which we see among newly married couples... at least till now CV couldnt justify that angle completely ..
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Yes you are right wrt lovers and their behaviour post marriage...but from the begining I have felt that for Dev Sona is more of a necessity than love...he likes her but he needs her around for emotional support...I dont think there is that physical need as well which we see among newly married couples... at least till now CV couldnt justify that angle completely ..



I have a different opinion here ...If it was just necessity then any girl could have replaced Sona in his life .Natasha was a understanding girl as well and she would have provided the much needed support to him .since it's love no one could take her position in his life even when he saw her with Ritwick he could not think of marrying or dating any other girl .

There is Tina in his life who is shown to be understanding and has supported him during his tough times .During breakup she was shown to be the one supporting him .If it was not love then he would have found solace in Tina or Natasha or any girl
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He is too much interested in ishu ka pyaar that he dont need sona now...
Sona is there with him at night...baki time its mamma time
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



I have a different opinion here ...If it was just necessity then any girl could have replaced Sona in his life .Natasha was a understanding girl as well and she would have provided the much needed support to him .since it's love no one could take her position in his life even when he saw her with Ritwick he could not think of marrying or dating any other girl .

There is Tina in his life who is shown to be understanding and has supported him during his tough times .During breakup she was shown to be the one supporting him .If it was not love then he would have found solace in Tina or Natasha or any girl


Yes you do have a point ...I am not saying that he doesnt like her...probably ..its just that I didnt find it convincing to say that his affection was pure love...because to accept that love he needed his mom's permission...yeah he did deny her and attended her engagement but that again to bring a closure to his relationship with her...

I dont know when its going to happen...I will be convinced of Dev's love for Sona if he can stand by Sona during the infertility and prenup track...and he has to do that infront of his family ...and this time no hide and seek games...

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