Dev has lost interest in sona ??

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Adiba Bano

@.kashishbano.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: yyy

I have a different opinion here ...If it was just necessity then any girl could have replaced Sona in his life .Natasha was a understanding girl as well and she would have provided the much needed support to him .since it's love no one could take her position in his life even when he saw her with Ritwick he could not think of marrying or dating any other girl .

There is Tina in his life who is shown to be understanding and has supported him during his tough times .During breakup she was shown to be the one supporting him .If it was not love then he would have found solace in Tina or Natasha or any girl

@yyy. Completely Agree.

you always understands Dev condition so well. And make me happy by reading either it is your post or reply.

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#12

replying again to this post now that I have seen today's episode!

Yes,Dev lost his interest in Sona now ..

Quiet evident from the family photo session in which he completely forgot Sona.

There was a time when he was desperately waiting for Sona to be a part of family pic but now it seems she doesn't even exist for him.

He dint even bother to look around for Sona when she stood behind while posing for family pic.

I guess that gesture says it all.

All I can say is ,, a person like Dev is not made to love a woman.

He is made to serve his family, specially his mother as his endless, lifelong duties.

For once he got distracted from his primary responsibility when Sona came in his life( and that was abnormal). Now he is back to his normal self where he is earning money and breathing air for his mother's happiness.

Its clear that he is being dragged away from Sona due to Neha,GKB and Ishwari but he doesn't look unhappy or upset about it.

He ,on the other hand, is quiet comfortable and at ease when Sona is not around.

He doesn't need her anymore.

There was a time when he cherished being in a relationship and quiet passionate about it but now that phase is over in his life.

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Neha Chandna

@Nehz

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: yyy
Everyday they see each other and sleep on the same bed so there is no question of not seeing each other .If he was not interested in her then he would not have gone to Bose house to bring Sona back .He still gets restless when he doesn't see her at home

Priorities change after marriage and there is added responsibility as well so they cannot be like GF BF always.

Yes Ishwari's interference ,work pressure and their own adjustment problems have caused romance to take a back seat but I am sure with time they will sort the issue .These issues are very common in first year of marriage

Coming to their intimacy we can only imagine .In indian TV They won't show them getting intimate after SR .Everything is left to viewers imagination

Anyway dear Dev is gonna be praised in this thread 😆 .I can see that coming .Hope you have a great discussion

Dear yyy priorities change over time not in one month ... first few months of marriage is like extended honeymoon period... they look like 5-10 year old couple .. and about leaving to audiences imagination .. well kich toh aisa dikhao ki jise dekh ke lage ki haa ye log milte hai baat karte hai romantic hote hai aur shayad they make love too ... abhi jo dilha rahe hai us se toh mera imagination yahi kahta hai ki .. sex mein no interest... dono ka ... spouse mein no interest ... esp dev ka ... aab aap aaj ki photo wali baat dekh lo dev me ek baar bhi check nahi kiya ki sona uske paas hai ya kam se kam photo mein hai ... abhi if even if he is shy she can still take a glance at her and kinda confirm or ishara kar ke bol de ki aa jaoo ... sorry hut yeh sab real life mein hota hai ... real life mein shayad arranged marriage mein awkward hot hai but jis trah ka affair devakshi ka tha usme toh normal log shadi ke baad thora sa pagal ho jate hai ek duje ke liye

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@404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Yes you do have a point ...I am not saying that he doesnt like her...probably ..its just that I didnt find it convincing to say that his affection was pure love...because to accept that love he needed his mom's permission...yeah he did deny her and attended her engagement but that again to bring a closure to his relationship with her...

I dont know when its going to happen...I will be convinced of Dev's love for Sona if he can stand by Sona during the infertility and prenup track...and he has to do that infront of his family ...and this time no hide and seek games...

I totally understand your doubts .Post breakup was not handled well and lot of unanswered questions.I always had this question in my mind ..what if Ritwick hadn't cancelled his engagement?What would Sona do ?What if Bijoy had not agreed for the marriage,will Sonakshi go against her family for him .So what makes me feel better is somewhere both wanted their family approval and they would not marry each other without their family consent.When she saw her dad hurt she could not think of marrying Dev without his permissions just like how Dev felt when he saw his mom in the hospital . Sona could not think of going against her family who supported her during breakup and for Dev he could not go against his mom who brought him up by sacrificing her happiness .I don't if anyone would agree with me on this

He stood up for her during prenup discussion and questioned his mother as well . He supported her when infertility issue was out .So unless they don't butcher his character he will stand by his wife but he cannot shut everyone's mouth .Society will continue to taunt her behind his back so depends on how viewers will take it .Some might be happy that he supports his wife openly but some might feel he is not doing enough to stop the society's taunts so it all depends on viewers expectations

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rkrocks

@rkrocks

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Dev is good person good son good bro everything but he can never become husband. I wonder how such successful man cannot express his thoughts . Everyone in house has made sona like a toy for dev who is brought to make him happy . Sona tried her best to ignore things . I wish makers soon end this torture and let her be by herself . We need strong sona back . Dev needs to now either explain up his mom or just leave alone taking care of his family including useless Mami and her son

Edited by rkrocks - 8 years ago