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Indomitable

@Indomitable

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

I would say that both the sisters are worst in their own way, Vividha being an elder one doesn't respect the institution of marriage though she married Ravish out of force. Being married if she is close to her lover hugging etc in front of her husband though it may be out of guilt or happiness but there is a line of limit, how can such women give lecture to her younger sister that she is wrong when Vividha herself is wrong on her place. I would say both the sisters are crazy & psychic in the name of love playing with poor brothers...

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*Reemz*

@*Reemz*

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Indomitable
I would say that both the sisters are worst in their own way, Vividha being an elder one doesn't respect the institution of marriage though she married Ravish out of force. Being married if she is close to her lover hugging etc in front of her husband though it may be out of guilt or happiness but there is a line of limit, how can such women give lecture to her younger sister that she is wrong when Vividha herself is wrong on her place. I would say both the sisters are crazy & psychic in the name of love playing with poor brothers...

She isn't having sex with Atharv in front of anyone, she's just hugged the man-child she still loves.

She has told Ravish everything and isn't hiding anything. What marriage are you on about? One which was criminally forced in her? How do you find it legal in the first place?

Forced shaadi is ok but a girl willingly trying to move out of it is wrong? If it were up to her she would've walked out of this so called marriage but she's staying because Ravish asked her to for Suman & Atharv.

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Rosh

@mcdreamy.

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

She isn't having sex with Atharv in front of anyone, she's just hugged the man-child she still loves.

She has told Ravish everything and isn't hiding anything. What marriage are you on about? One which was criminally forced in her? How do you find it legal in the first place?

Forced shaadi is ok but a girl willingly trying to move out of it is wrong? If it were up to her she would've walked out of this so called marriage but she's staying because Ravish asked her to for Suman & Atharv.

Word! It's funny how people are so quick to moral police Vividha and conveniently forget how she was FORCED into this marriage! No culture or religion allows a forced marriage and the woman has every right to walk out of it if she wants to. She isn't going around romancing Atharv behind anyone's back, she's just caring for the man she loves who at this point of time is at his most vulnerable. He is a grown up CHILD and there is absloutely nothing sexual or romantic about their relationship as of now. Moreover, she has told Ravish the truth, she's not hiding anything, she would have gone away with Atharv and Sujata had it not been for Ravish and Suman, so for the love of god cut her some slack please!

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Avie

@avyarima

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Indomitable
I would say that both the sisters are worst in their own way, Vividha being an elder one doesn't respect the institution of marriage though she married Ravish out of force. Being married if she is close to her lover hugging etc in front of her husband though it may be out of guilt or happiness but there is a line of limit, how can such give lecture to her younger sister that she is wrong when Vividha herself is wrong on her place. I would say both the sisters are crazy & psychic in the name of love playing with poor brothers...

I disagree with you that Vividha is not handling her marriage well. She isn't romancing Athruv as most of us would like to believe. She is merely taking care of him. She can't shush him away with his condition. It wouldnt make sense to even Suman.

But I also agree with you on one point...Vividha of all people is not is not in any position to give societal moral judgement.

First, she slapped an elderly man because he spoke against her lover.

secondly, I still haven't heard her talking of locking his papa up...for trying to kill an innocent man.

third, even after knowing Athruv and Ravish are brothers, she is ready to complicate the relationship even more by being her brother-in-laws ex-wife.

Let me to clear, I also love what Vividha is doing (Fighting to keep her love strong). I don't want her to make any sacrifices for something she never wanted. Marrying Ravish was not her mistake, and she shouldn't have to pay for it.

But that is why I expected her to understand Guddi more than any body. Love hits hard and unexpected. It doesn't care about right or wrong, and Vividha of all people should know that. Just like Kailash never understood her love, she can't be sure she understands Guddi's love.

We all know tGuddi's love doesn't seem right, but Vividha handled it very badly even after having this much experiences .

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Orchid

@_OrChiD_

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: cactusbutt1123

I agree with you point.

All i am saying is that vividha doesnt have the right to tell guddi she cant think that way or she cant try to impress ravish.

Lets not pretend Vividha is mature girl. If she was mature, we would have witnessed ViTharv honeymoon by now. 😆

Vividha just started to open her eyes. Its too soon to expect every right decision about others from her.

At least she knows what is right for her and what she wants. This is start for her.

Vividha and Guddi's age difference not huge. Vividha couldn't able to see her evil father in 1 year of her relationship. ViTharv celebrated her birthday, so I believe it is more than 1 year relationship. If she was mature, she at least could try to investigate why her trust worthy life partner keep saying about her father.

And I think Vividha lost control when she had seen burnt Atharv, still she tried to talk calmly. If I were her, I would have slapped her for misbehaving with elder first. But she did not slapped her for that. Guddi should be gald for that. 😃

Yet, I would say Vividha has right because she is elder sister. If elder sister has no right, then who has right to stop wrong doings?

We all heard those NO's all the time from our parents at some point. Its NO hearing age. 😆

You can be stubborn more after hearing no, but you cant go haywire. Guddi going haywire, hence she needs to be stopped.

Edited by Orchid25 - 9 years ago