What is vividha's problem ?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ok W*F happnt today .
1stly i feel guddis action of burning the photo was wrong but why is vividha showing her authority over ravush and this house.

Is vividha confused ? If so then fts. What is the problem if guddi finds love in ravish. If ravush disapproves on her shell understand and f**k off who is vividha to say guddis love is wrong?

Her obsessive depiction was really stupid but if vividha would have asked her to wait a little bit till things sorted out. It wouldnt have awaken guddis worst side.

Do the cvs imply by this that vividha is falling for ravish.if not then what is her problem.she doesnt want ravish and at the same time doesnt want to let go .

If she can choose who to love. Why cant guddi?

How is vividhas love strong and guddis infactuation ?

Who is vividha to decide ? Let ravish decide if he likes guddi or not.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Vividha has right to say because she is her sister. And, she is showing sisterly RIGHT not any other right. She even said straightly that I am your badi behen 😃 here badi behen talking to choti. elder has right to say when younger is wrong.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Orchid25

Vividha has right to say because she is her sister. And, she is showing sisterly RIGHT not any other right. She even said straightly that I am your badi behen 😃 here badi behen talking to choti. elder has right to say when younger is wrong.


But how is she wrong ? Shes in love!! Thats not a mistake ? Let her find out if its love or infactuation with time.

What is the problem of ravish can find a soul mate in guddi ?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Isn't it clear that Vividha is concerned because Guddi is acting like a psycho?

Guddi knows Ravish doesn't want her but is obsessing over him. She doesn't even really know the guy, how can she claim to be in love with him, all because he fought to save her dignity.

And Vividha might have hurt Ravish, doesn't mean she wants to see her sister create problems for Ravish.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: cactusbutt1123


But how is she wrong ? Shes in love!! Thats not a mistake ? Let her find out if its love or infactuation with time.

What is the problem of ravish can find a soul mate in guddi ?


Anyone has the right to find out if they're in love or just infatuation. But no one has the right to act like a crazy stalker hugging people's clothes, stealing their pictures, burning their pictures etc. That's psychotic.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: cactusbutt1123


But how is she wrong ? Shes in love!! Thats not a mistake ? Let her find out if its love or infactuation with time.

What is the problem of ravish can find a soul mate in guddi ?



I was happy to see Guddi in love, I was cheering for her 😆
But you can see that she is behaving like psycho.

A lover would dream, stare (normally), blush etc when usually caught by parents or siblings. 😆

Here, she took a picture and went to burn it,even the way she behaved with Atharva who is elder, its wrong.

She is not in any state to think. Its not love and she is not in any state to find what it is !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The fact that you think Guddi thinks she is in love kind of explains how you're not really seeing what Vividha is coming from at all!


Do you see how Guddi is acting? You think that's love??? It's PSYCHOTIC! Vividha has been trying to explain to her properly that this isn't love, this isn't appropriate! The relationships in that house are already so complicated, forget bringing in something else to make it even worse.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: cactusbutt1123


But how is she wrong ? Shes in love!! Thats not a mistake ? Let her find out if its love or infactuation with time.

What is the problem of ravish can find a soul mate in guddi ?


its not any kind of jealousy or love for Ravish..

vv knows hw much guddi was hurt cz of her infactuation with chintu .

she clearly knows R doesnt love guddi..n so wen guddi will realise it shel get hurt...her image will b spoiled again..so she just wants to protect her sis
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Vividha doesn't want to let go of Ravish? Sorry but Ravish is the one that 'ordered' Vividha to stay back for the sake of his mother. She was ready to leave with Atharv and Sujata.


I don't know why you are implying Vividha is falling for Ravish. Are you telling me that if someone you knew acted like a psycho you would just watch, and let them do whatever they like? I don't think any of us would. Hell, if that was my sister I would put her in her place straightaway.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Guddi's character is totally destroyed for no dem good reason. The way she thinks she should get take away Vividha from the picture suggests that she can kill her. Poor Guddi, CV decided to destroy such a beautiful character to brag the story. I agree, even if she is in love, this the not the right time to act on it. I think she should have told her sister first.
With that been said, I agree with the post starter on just two point. One, it is true Guddi can mistake everyone that smiles toward her as being in love, but It is not for Vividha is judge how she feels. She does not have a good record of decoding people's emotions. For example, Athruv also stalk her, was possessive, was defending, was vocal about his love, she thought his LOVE was wrong. Secondly, she lived with a father who abuses her mom for more than 20 years, but she thought he was a demi god.
Now she knows how Kailash feels? because she is sure acting like him... at least in Guddi's eyes.

Guddi has seen and witness true love, and how one can stand up against everyone and society for whom they love, so Vividha's excuse of "complicated relationship" would not hold water in Guddi's ears.

Guddi also witness how one love can be enough for two until the other person joins in, so the argument of "just a one sided love" will not hold ground either.

If I was Vividha, I would have let Guddi not feel guilty about how she feels. I would let her know I understand her because I am also in love, and is acting on it even though its against the societal norm. Then, I will guide her to wait with open eyes to see if her feelings persist. I will also advise her that since she is very young, and she is not competing with any girl for Ravish,she should not be in the rush. Ravish is not a ladies man that will be slayed away. Ravish is also going through a lot both physically and emotionally, so it is best to give him time. I will also reassure that if this is true love, When she is done with school, she will help her in anyway she can.

If she had talked in this manner to Guddi, things wouldn't have taken this ugly turn. Maybe Guddi wouldn't have been as interested as she is now.
Lord help us.
Edited by avyarima - 9 years ago

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