I felt bad for Sona!!

Today I felt bad for Sona that she was not informed of Riya's marriage proposal. I must say that Dev is again in denial ...I felt really irritated with Dev that he did not stand up for her again..At the dining table when Sona kept asking questions none of them actually bothered to answer her and then GKB's taunt to Vicky not to bring a Benagli girl...Even at that time he never said a single word. He is worried why mom is angry with him . He acting blind and he doesnt seem to understand how much its hurting his wife...I doubt if he will realise it...no , let me correct my statement ,,I am not sure when he will accept the fact that his mom has not accepted his wife...willful blindness!! Because if he accepts it then the god image will crash land which he doesnt like...but what he doesnt understand is that willful blindness is dangerous and can destroy his relationship with his wife...he is already sitting on 2 ticking bombs - prenup and infertility ...if he is not careful she will just walk out of his life one day ...

Yeah dev was only concerned about his mother..like sona correctly call her buddhu ram maa k taunts bhi samaj nhi pata😕

I too feel bad for Sona but I hate her when she knowingly chooses to live in a denial mode.

Originally posted by: Shilky88

I too feel bad for Sona but I hate her when she knowingly chooses to live in a denial mode.

At this point all I can say is..

If Sona has clearly observed that she is not accepted in Dev's family specially by Ishu and GKB then she should just step back and give some rest to her feeble attempts.

Even if you are in a joint family setup, you can very well mind your own business which includes your Job and your husband.

She should just try to make a permanent home in her husband's heart first ignoring others. Everything and everyone else will eventually follow.

She herself is confused ..first she got it confirmed from Dev if she can redecorate her room and then went to Ishwari to ask if she likes it or not or if Dev will like it or not.

By this time she should understand that she cannot change Ishwari's behaviour towards her then why cannot she just take a chill pill, relax and mind her own business.

Sometimes ignorance is a bliss.

She is definitely not brought into this family to solve everyone's problem, peep into everyone's business ,win everyone's hearts or to made aware of current happenings/live updates of Dixits ...and even if she thinks its her right to know all of that then she should have that patience to firm her position in Dixit family first.

Ishwari is not right but she has given 50-60 years to build her position.

She should be worried if she is not given enough time or well-in-advance notice to get her dresses stitched on time for Riya's wedding.😉

Should leave rest to elders to decide and worry about.

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Originally posted by: Shilky88

I too feel bad for Sona but I hate her when she knowingly chooses to live in a denial mode.

At this point all I can say is..

If Sona has clearly observed that she is not accepted in Dev's family specially by Ishu and GKB then she should just step back and give some rest to her feeble attempts.

Even if you are in a joint family setup, you can very well mind your own business which includes your Job and your husband.

She should just try to make a permanent home in her husband's heart first ignoring others. Everything and everyone else will eventually follow.

She herself is confused ..first she got it confirmed from Dev if she can redecorate her room and then went to Ishwari to ask if she likes it or not or if Dev will like it or not.

By this time she should understand that she cannot change Ishwari's behaviour towards her then why cannot she just take a chill pill, relax and mind her own business.

Sometimes ignorance is a bliss.

She is definitely not brought into this family to solve everyone's problem, peep into everyone's business ,win everyone's hearts or to made aware of current happenings/live updates of Dixits ...and even if she thinks its her right to know all of that then she should have that patience to firm her position in Dixit family first.

Ishwari is not right but she has given 50-60 years to build her position.

She should be worried if she is not given enough time or well-in-advance notice to get her dresses stitched on time for Riya's wedding.😉

Should leave rest to elders to decide and worry about.

Originally posted by: Shilky88

I too feel bad for Sona but I hate her when she knowingly chooses to live in a denial mode.

At this point all I can say is..

If Sona has clearly observed that she is not accepted in Dev's family specially by Ishu and GKB then she should just step back and give some rest to her feeble attempts.

Even if you are in a joint family setup, you can very well mind your own business which includes your Job and your husband.

She should just try to make a permanent home in her husband's heart first ignoring others. Everything and everyone else will eventually follow.

She herself is confused ..first she got it confirmed from Dev if she can redecorate her room and then went to Ishwari to ask if she likes it or not or if Dev will like it or not.

By this time she should understand that she cannot change Ishwari's behaviour towards her then why cannot she just take a chill pill, relax and mind her own business.

Sometimes ignorance is a bliss.

She is definitely not brought into this family to solve everyone's problem, peep into everyone's business ,win everyone's hearts or to made aware of current happenings/live updates of Dixits ...and even if she thinks its her right to know all of that then she should have that patience to firm her position in Dixit family first.

Ishwari is not right but she has given 50-60 years to build her position.

She should be worried if she is not given enough time or well-in-advance notice to get her dresses stitched on time for Riya's wedding.😉

Should leave rest to elders to decide and worry about.

and the worse prt was.. dev worrying about ishwari instead of sona! jisko ignore kiya jaa raha tha, verbal abusing ho rahi tha and matajee never stopped GKB.. he disnt even once talk to her. sona didnt do drama like ishwari.

seriously.. woman is evil!

Originally posted by: vibg

and the worse prt was.. dev worrying about ishwari instead of sona! jisko ignore kiya jaa raha tha, verbal abusing ho rahi tha and matajee never stopped GKB.. he disnt even once talk to her. sona didnt do drama like ishwari.

seriously.. woman is evil!

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Exactly !! I agree MIL and GKB have their intentions in taunting Sona...but what I cant understand is his silence...otherwise he has thousand words to tell her...and now all of sudden he going into mute more