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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think the entire clan of siwari(singhania-maheshwari) and rama and baisa should stop equating akshara and gayu..
Both are poles apart.
Where akshara was shown to be genuinely good gayatri is not what she shows people she is..

On the other hand naira is always frank.and genuine ans anything but fake...

If they call her akshara's parchayi it aould be apt..
Even when naitik was is coma akshara managed everything effectively...
Whereas gayu couldnt manange anything on.her own.. specially in yash rose wedding where she messed up everything..
Naira on the other hand lived a life of orphan yet never helpless..instead she kept taking care of the ashram
Infact its naira who appears headstrong yet very good at heart..

I hope they clear all the mess soon...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with you on this. Gayu is pure hearted and doesn't have bad intentions, but she displays attention seeking behaviour and quite often insecurities, but i understand that is on part of her being an orphan and feeling sometimes that she isn't actually a part of the family and is second in lines of priority.

The thing is though that gayu needs to understand that the family can't start putting the happiness of the other children second in their priority list just to make her feel loved, because that way another child may start feeling neglected. She needs to understand they are all children of the family and all the children are loved equally and get their due they deserve, she can't expect to receive everything in abundance or more above all the other children to feed her insecurities.

It is for this reason that poor naira is feeling hurt that she is having to hide her pain and love for the man she cannot express her love to due to gayu's very insecurities, and it has also caused naira to feel guilty for something that was neither in her control or her fault. The family need to stop prioritising certain chilren and neglecting the others. That is why i really dislike dadi bua who keeps putting down naira over nothing and elevating gayu to a goddess position. It's ridiculous and completely unfair to treat children in that manner where one child is put down by being called a failure in comparison to their sibling.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes hopefully Singhania's eyes, especially bua dadi's eyes open soon.
Naira is strong, loving and caring like Ak always keeps everyone before herself.
Mishti always keeps track of what is going around her and can easily interpert situations, like Ak
Even Kuhu her mother died when she was young and she came here between strangers but than whole heartedly excepted them as family, just like Ak got married into Singhania household and accepted them.

But gayu I don't see any similarity.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I frankly don't like parchayi word
nobody can be like anyone no matter how much ever u try
U can only imbibe some characteristics from ur parents .whenever gayu feels she should be like mami I mean common yaar u dont want to be different n unique .she always wants to do things like how akshara does n when she fails at it she cries over it.if she had tried to be herself may be she would have been more acceptable character
naira even now she is doing sacrifice is just to fulfill her parents promise n keep up their upbringing even now she doesn't say I want to be like mumma or gayu.she knows her flaws she knows what she is.
agreed both are different but when naira misthii kuhu similar situations similar love everything is same their struggles why the family is hell bent on comparison and only gayu plays victim card.
I didn't like the way gayu keeps saying I dont knwo what I will do if karthik says no and if he says yes I will win is love a game for win n loss.i dont see naira saying for even matter karthik saying mera kya hoga.
coming to family bua dadi agreed sje is old n cant change her at this situation whats the family doing seeing drama whenever naira is put down.what kind of family is this allowing already a girl who has struggled n had so mich past to behurt time again m again
We understand u jave responsibilities towards gayu but that doesn't mean to make her feel loved u neglect other girl pain .to keep up ur elder ones respect doesn't mean u allow her to say anything to younger one.
everyone should get equal priority irrespective of their past .because here every child has gone through similar past in their life.stop playing victim card
try n be urself .this track clearly sends out a msg when one child emotions are priority n when compared with ekder siblings or younger the other child invariably feels inferior n ends up sacrificing their identity to fit in family. This track is parenting skilll for singhanaias who think great about their skills open up
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjalisuhani123

I frankly don't like parchayi word
nobody can be like anyone no matter how much ever u try
U can only imbibe some characteristics from ur parents .whenever gayu feels she should be like mami I mean common yaar u dont want to be different n unique .she always wants to do things like how akshara does n when she fails at it she cries over it.if she had tried to be herself may be she would have been more acceptable character
naira even now she is doing sacrifice is just to fulfill her parents promise n keep up their upbringing even now she doesn't say I want to be like mumma or gayu.she knows her flaws she knows what she is.
agreed both are different but when naira misthii kuhu similar situations similar love everything is same their struggles why the family is hell bent on comparison and only gayu plays victim card.
I didn't like the way gayu keeps saying I dont knwo what I will do if karthik says no and if he says yes I will win is love a game for win n loss.i dont see naira saying for even matter karthik saying mera kya hoga.
coming to family bua dadi agreed sje is old n cant change her at this situation whats the family doing seeing drama whenever naira is put down.what kind of family is this allowing already a girl who has struggled n had so mich past to behurt time again m again
We understand u jave responsibilities towards gayu but that doesn't mean to make her feel loved u neglect other girl pain .to keep up ur elder ones respect doesn't mean u allow her to say anything to younger one.
everyone should get equal priority irrespective of their past .because here every child has gone through similar past in their life.stop playing victim card
try n be urself .this track clearly sends out a msg when one child emotions are priority n when compared with ekder siblings or younger the other child invariably feels inferior n ends up sacrificing their identity to fit in family. This track is parenting skilll for singhanaias who think great about their skills open up


I really wish even Singhania's would understand this, they need to make gayu stand on her feet.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As they always wanna prove akshara is right.. they will probably make her knoe first
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I frankly don't like parchayi word
nobody can be like anyone no matter how much ever u try
U can only imbibe some characteristics from ur parents .whenever gayu feels she should be like mami I mean common yaar u dont want to be different n unique .she always wants to do things like how akshara does n when she fails at it she cries over it.if she had tried to be herself may be she would have been more acceptable character
naira even now she is doing sacrifice is just to fulfill her parents promise n keep up their upbringing even now she doesn't say I want to be like mumma or gayu.she knows her flaws she knows what she is.
agreed both are different but when naira misthii kuhu similar situations similar love everything is same their struggles why the family is hell bent on comparison and only gayu plays victim card.
I didn't like the way gayu keeps saying I dont knwo what I will do if karthik says no and if he says yes I will win is love a game for win n loss.i dont see naira saying for even matter karthik saying mera kya hoga.
coming to family bua dadi agreed sje is old n cant change her at this situation whats the family doing seeing drama whenever naira is put down.what kind of family is this allowing already a girl who has struggled n had so mich past to behurt time again m again
We understand u jave responsibilities towards gayu but that doesn't mean to make her feel loved u neglect other girl pain .to keep up ur elder ones respect doesn't mean u allow her to say anything to younger one.
everyone should get equal priority irrespective of their past .because here every child has gone through similar past in their life.stop playing victim card
try n be urself .this track clearly sends out a msg when one child emotions are priority n when compared with ekder siblings or younger the other child invariably feels inferior n ends up sacrificing their identity to fit in family. This track is parenting skilll for singhanaias who think great about their skills open up[/QUOT


i dont understand one thing why someone should become parchayi...doesnt they have their own uniqueness..why should you compare with someone else and bcome like them..why dont they bcome an inspiration and get a change...its awkward showing gayu like that...it looks like even after marriage she will be spoon fed.,,..life will not be ever the same it will be full of roller coaster rides so one should be ready to face.. and as per the new promo of naira...wish she stands against all odds and bcomes and inspiration to everyone and changes mindset of the people of her household...

and coming to this love triangle...is bcame obsolete and getting worn out..so better to show kaira the end game and later they can drag for the marriage track...its all my views am new here.my intention is not to hurt anyone here ... had been watching this show bcoz of kaira...hope nothing bad lures upon these two...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I dont find any parchayi stuff on gayu's character so i laugh whenever they said gayu is parchayi lol.what i found she is not even near to AK but but she is good on her way so i dont understand why makers are hell bent to force us to hear that.
Mujhe to cvs ko bhi gayu ki tarah lagta hain lol.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i knew it from day 1 when they kept on saying gayu is ak's parchayi that this character ll turn into a mess later 😆 when a story starts a journey starts of a character.say trp aunties or say youth anyone who watch a show relate to the journey of the character.how she grows with time,how she behaves with time,how her flaws become her strength with time,how the character is explored with time.the main reason behind naira being much more loved than gayu is this.they showed naira as a flawed character,a raw mud who with time has evolved.they hv showed her journey.from childhood to her running away to a unknown place,they showed her struggle thr,they showed her coming back to family,her problems,her chng of behaviour in all these years,slowly adjusting with the situations n everything a complete journey they hv shown whras gayu's character has been constant since month.if u give sumone the title of "miss perfect" in the very first epi what would b thr in the character to explore?how many days u ll keep her in the fore front just by showing shes such a goddess?u need flaws to explore.u need active character to explore.gayu is nothing but a spineless n delusional dumb n whats sad is this whole family is feeding her to b more weak n in prpcess hurting another child.gayu isnt the only child who has a bad life in past.the most who has struggled is naira.thrs kuhu who had a bad past.thrs even now mishti whos father has been jailed just now.look at her pain man.thrs yash who was an adopted child.thrs naksh who still hasnt forget tara's betrayal that even after 7yrs hes unable to love another girl.then why such favourism over only gayu?when shes the eldest she should b the one who ll take care of youngerones but here just to feed her weakness more all the younger ones has to sacrifice n adjust with such a spineless elder sis's happiness.the more they ll push her to viewers as ak's parchayi more viewers ll hate her.coz obviously one cant b anyone's parchayi.thr ll b one ak only n ppl ll want to remember her only.why ll ppl want to see a duplicate 😆 thats the reason naira is more loved coz even her nature is quite similar to ak they hv shown a complete different peraon n her own identity.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Producer has too much say in d script i guess...
None of my frnds,r watching gayu drama.. hope trps of these 3days fall n they bring changes..
Now gayu's character has gone beyond redemption... n no matter what they show no one would accept that character...

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