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Nirja1994

@Nirja1994

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Posted: 8 years ago

I do not understand why sanchi and aryan got married.

Their wedding was a absolute disaster. I know people are saying mausa ji was an idiot and increibly rude and disrespectful..which he was however the kind of comments that some people of the sethia family were making were terrible. It was the kind of situation where you just say -SHUT UPand be as vindictive as possible. However mausa ji should have kept it mouth shut and removed himself from the situation. He didnt and we all saw the resulting mayhem.

My heart went out to the Sethia family. They were dignified throughout it.

Virens family did not do anything however since it was their elder who caused it they are obviously held culpable.

My problem with this whole sequence is this-

The ONLY reason sethias agree to marry sanchi to aryan is because they are too good to do it to a innocent girl and because she will be disrespected and people will talk shit about her. ookay.

However, Viren who is shown to adore his daughter so much does not realise that marrying his daughter only for those above reasons is a foolish thing to do? They may not mistreat her obviously- but obviously they will resent her. She will not have an easy time with people accepting her. So he literally is getting his daughter married because of societal demands. Ofcourse its a terrible thing, but is sanchis future not important? They dont know if the situation will get resolved in the future... what if the sethias always hate them? it would be tough for sanchi to meet her family because of her other family always disliking it.

I feel it was a very short sighted decision.

I would have preferred the misunderstanding to be resolved and then the marriage. This is a sham and i did not expect such a regressive move on the makers part.

Very disappointed with sanchis family.

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Arshi

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Posted: 8 years ago

OK I think verain knows Devakar very well and trust him as well .. I guess just for that trust he got her married to Aryan . . and this is India the girl even she doesn't have done any mistakes she is blamed 🥺

I ll tell you about my friend in her wedding( love marrage of around 4 years) something like this happen where some of her family members interfere by saying that your dulha should call your mom and brother every Sunday .. the boy and my friend mom relation wasn't that good ..in fact it was very bad ...my friend got influence from her relative she call the boy and start the argue this was just before 2day from the nikha .. the boy refused to obey her and he break the marraige he got married to anther girl while she couldn't get married tell 2day..it have been years tellater now🥱

Thts y I totally understand the dilemma of verain

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Missesha

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Posted: 8 years ago

@ Post maker.

Yes, Sanchi will have a tough time at Sethias' after this incident. She will be constantly under people's eyes and will have to prove her intentions / worth continously, to be accepted whole heartedly.

But don't know what Viren could have done. He was put into such a fragile situation, that either ways his daughter would have faced the brunt.

So niether situation would have been in Sanchi's favour.

And the idea of talking and clearing the misunderstanding would never work in this case.

Yeah, the marriage lost its charm. Time will be the only healer, till then tough tasks for Sanchi.

The good part though is that Sethias are good people and Aryan loves Sanchi. Eventually, when their hurt subsides, they will start giving Sanchi her due respect.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hai friend

Viren is caught in such a situation like this which is so difficult to handle.😆 Whoever is at fault for the mess,but sethiyas r so badly insulted which they r not going to forget easily.

And if the marriage did not happen,the issue becomes more complicated for both the families.

It's a matter of reputation for not only for the girl,but also for the boy family if the marriage did not happen..

And Aryan,in the heat of the moment,may want to break the marriage but he will regret later for leaving Sachi in mandap as he too loves her. And knows what will be the fate of such brides in the society.😕😕

Only time heals the situation 😊

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Nirja1994

@Nirja1994

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: -Arishi-
OK I think verain knows Devakar very well and trust him as well .. I guess just for that trust he got her married to Aryan . . and this is India the girl even she doesn't have done any mistakes she is blamed🥺
I ll tell you about my friend in her wedding( love marrage of around 4 years) something like this happen where some of her family members interfere by saying that your dulha should call your momand brother every Sunday .. the boy and my friend mom relation wasn't that good ..in fact it was very bad ...my friend got influence from her relative she call the boy and start the argue this was just before 2day from the nikha .. the boy refused to obey her and he break the marraigehe got married to anther girl while she couldn't get married tell 2day..it have been years tellater now🥱
Thts y I totally understand the dilemma of verain

You are right that Viren trusts Diwakar and that they are good people. I just find it hard that Viren would be able to trust them AFTER they were insulted so grievously and when they wouldn't even talk to Viren.
And as for your friend.. With all due respect, if she did not realise after 4 years that he wouldn't do those things and of this was enough to break them up it was probably never going to work out.

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Nirja1994

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Missesha
@ Post maker.
Yes, Sanchi will have a tough time at Sethias' after this incident. She will be constantly under people's eyes and will have to prove her intentions / worth continously, to be accepted whole heartedly.

But don't know what Viren could have done. He was put into such a fragile situation, that either ways his daughter would have faced the brunt.

So niether situation would have been in Sanchi's favour.

And the idea of talking and clearing the misunderstanding would never work in this case.

Yeah, the marriage lost its charm. Time will be the only healer, till then tough tasks for Sanchi.

The good part though is that Sethias are good people and Aryan loves Sanchi. Eventually, when their hurt subsides, they will start giving Sanchi her due respect.

You are right... In such cases time is the only healer and eventually Sanchi will be accepted.

Viren was in a horrible position. I just feel a little let down I guess.. After watching this serial I would have expected a change from other saas bahu shows where the marriage ALWAYS takes place no matter what. I wish they would have taken a step back and thought - why?! They clearly will hate for some time so is it okay to Send our daughter to such a place... ?
Instead of OMG OMG shaadi tut jayegi and they will leave.
Chandra and everyone was actually smiling that it took place! I mean Chandra has come back from a marriage herself. Shouldn't they have been more cautious.
Thank you for your replies though.. Atleast there's some activity.

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manya

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well I guess this was done to show archi's sajhedari after marriage as we know from the latest YouTube video that Aryan feels bad for fighting with Sanchi on their first night and is waiting for her return from her maayeka. I guess both will try to patch up the differences between their parents once they both r on the same page. Agar sab acche se Ho jaata to aage kya dikhaate. Also both the families know that archi love each other and that is why Viren had gone to give money to sethiya's in the first place when they had earlier broken the alliance . Viren knew that Sanchi loves Aryan. It would hv been very difficult for archi to move ahead in life without each other. Remember their families said ki though it is a arrange marriage but it looks like it is love marriage coz archi had bonded well during their meeting at jaiselmer

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nirja1994

You are right... In such cases time is the only healer and eventually Sanchi will be accepted.

Viren was in a horrible position. I just feel a little let down I guess.. After watching this serial I would have expected a change from other saas bahu shows where the marriage ALWAYS takes place no matter what. I wish they would have taken a step back and thought - why?! They clearly will hate for some time so is it okay to Send our daughter to such a place... ?
Instead of OMG OMG shaadi tut jayegi and they will leave.
Chandra and everyone was actually smiling that it took place! I mean Chandra has come back from a marriage herself. Shouldn't they have been more cautious.
Thank you for your replies though.. Atleast there's some activity.

@ bold - Yes, I see what you mean.

But frankly, this reason of marrying is far more convincing that what is shown in regular saas bahu dramas, where marriages happen due to kasams, majbooris, guilt, betrayal, badle ki aag, loveless couple , iski-uski aakhri ichaa... phew 🤪

In fact, this show is much better than regular saas-bahu drama, because most of its characters are positive or practical. Even Neelima and Chandra aren't exactly mean people. So far, it is quite a nice feel-good show. (p.s. I don'r like Mausa mausi and feel their characters are outrageous compared to the cultures of the two families shown)

I also enjoy the practical side of Archi romance. Their talks / expectations from each other are quite subtle, realistic and modern, and not cheesy or sugar coated.

That's why, as per the pre-cap, if ArChi are to have an argument over the recent happenings, it only seems right. Until they both don't air it out their real emotions, they won't be able to come out of this gloomy feeling. And happy that the female lead also shows her hurt (angry) emotions instead of swallowing everything silently

Lets see how the show shapes further.

Edited by Missesha - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yes I liked the fact how pour his hurt and anger out to Sachi.

It's shown how sushanth and kaka shared the pain to their better halves

And good how Sachi stood for her fathers respect rather swallowing the insult. If not ,it's against the nature of Sachi showed till now in the show

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Arshi

@-Arishi-

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nirja1994

You are right that Viren trusts Diwakar and that they are good people. I just find it hard that Viren would be able to trust them AFTER they were insulted so grievously and when they wouldn't even talk to Viren.
And as for your friend.. With all due respect, if she did not realise after 4 years that he wouldn't do those things and of this was enough to break them up it was probably never going to work out.

Yaa probably

But what m trying to say that her parents weren't able to get anther rishta for her ..after the first one 🥱

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