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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey !

I have been avoiding the forum as much as I can but after today's episode I have so much I need to say! I need to get so much shit outta my chest! This is not exactly a rant, it's more like me stating certain facts! Feel free to state your point of view but please maintain decorum while voicing your opinion. Thanks!

First things first !

Ravish knows Atharva is not in a stable state ! Mentally ! Does confining him to a dark room help? He is in need of around the clock care and I think it goes without saying that Atharva needs professional treatment in a safe place where he won't be a threat to himself or the people around him!

Sure Ravish got him a doctor, but you can't deny the fact that Ravish is negligent ! The same goes to Sujata !

So far Atharva has been confined, tied, manhandled & heck even chained up by Ravish & the other dude whose name I can't really bother remembering!

Let's get things sorted now !

Ravish could have made sure Atharva gets the proper treatment in a hospital ! But did he? NO ! Instead he took matters to his own hands !

Yes, he is an army man & I'm sure he has experience in handling similar situations *Rolled My Eyes So Damn Hard I Saw The Inside Of My Brain" but does that justify the shit he has been doing? I mean come on? His behaviour towards Atharva is completely barbaric.

I think it's safe to say I have no respect for this guy ! Sorry !

Lastly I will say this much! Ravish, if a woman tells you that somebody touched them inappropriately then you do something about it instead of being a negligent arse. I'm disappointed in you but honestly I didn't expect any better from you either! Shame on you ! I'm honestly repulsed by this guy because I'm starting to think he's doing it deliberately !


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Posted: 9 years ago
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His character has become haywire! How long is he planning to keep Atharv & Sujata there? What are his actual plans because he can't hide them forever! Sujata isn't doing anything either!

NO-ONE is doing anything! Its just dragging along.

I don't get what reason Ravish had to not trust Vividha that someone touched her inappropriately?! Don't get the logic.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes! There you said it! I have till date not warmed towards Ravish and today he proved it he's not worth it! He's too composed in himself to know anything else! With him it's me and my majboris (& my mummy)! His lack of interest in getting Atharv better is really irking me! Whatever he's done till today is more to keep him out of his family's way rather than as a form of treatment. His barbaric act today is beyond disbelief! I just can not for the life of me understand why on earth would anyone do that! Why the F would a normal person do that?!

Ravish is proving to be a naam ka fujee; I've not encountered many Army personnels but the ones I have are nothing like Ravish. :/

I've already said this and I will repeat it here; Arharv should NOT be confined in a cupboard! When is Ravish going to realise this. Heck I don't even understand why he's got them there in the first place?! Other than a money saving scheme I see this as nothing else! 😆

What can I say about Vividah! I've given up on that creature! :|
Edited by llMinHoll - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ravish having Atharv chained up like that was barbaric!
Sujtata begged him to take him to a hospital and for his own selfish reasons he said no. I'm sorry but today Ravish crossed a line.

And what he is doing to Vividha cannot be justified. Firstly making her think she is seeing things and secondly not believing her when she says she was inappropriately touched! No wonder she thinks she's losing it.

Ravish was not simply negligent today. He was wrong!


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Posted: 9 years ago
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You just made a lot of sense Steph, thanks for this post.

Frankly, if he was in this big a conflict he shouldn't have taken this responsibility. And the fact that he's doing it cos it was his father's last wish makes no sense to me cos he knew it wasn't gonna be easy.

Locking away a mentally unstable guy in a room 24*7 was never going to help. And today, chaining him while he was resisting was INHUMAN! If this is how he thinks he can treat Atharv, please don't. Just let him go.

In plain words, if you can't do justice to whatever you're at, just don't do it. Simple.

And the last part, if a guy takes his wife's dignity so lightly I have no respect for him. The least expected was him atleast giving it a thought, not just throwing it out of the window.
An Vividha, please use your head. You DO NOT need someone to push you to do that.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..HowRude..

Hey !

I have been avoiding the forum as much as I can but after today's episode I have so much I need to say! I need to get so much shit outta my chest! This is not exactly a rant, it's more like me stating certain facts! Feel free to state your point of view but please maintain decorum while voicing your opinion. Thanks!

First things first !

Ravish knows Atharva is not in a stable state ! Mentally ! Does confining him to a dark room help? He is in need of around the clock care and I think it goes without saying that Atharva needs professional treatment in a safe place where he won't be a threat to himself or the people around him!

Sure Ravish got him a doctor, but you can't deny the fact that Ravish is negligent ! The same goes to Sujata !

So far Atharva has been confined, tied, manhandled & heck even chained up by Ravish & the other dude whose name I can't really bother remembering!

Let's get things sorted now !

Ravish could have made sure Atharva gets the proper treatment in a hospital ! But did he? NO ! Instead he took matters to his own hands !

Yes, he is an army man & I'm sure he has experience in handling similar situations *Rolled My Eyes So Damn Hard I Saw The Inside Of My Brain" but does that justify the shit he has been doing? I mean come on? His behaviour towards Atharva is completely barbaric.

I think it's safe to say I have no respect for this guy ! Sorry !

Lastly I will say this much! Ravish, if a woman tells you that somebody touched them inappropriately then you do something about it instead of being a negligent arse. I'm disappointed in you but honestly I didn't expect any better from you either! Shame on you ! I'm honestly repulsed by this guy because I'm starting to think he's doing it deliberately !



Okay First Of All. That Chain Scene Was Not Necessary At All. What He Did I Dont Support That. And I Dont Know What Kind Of Majburi He Was Talking About But I Do Not Support That Chain Scene. I Am Against What He Did Today!
I Know The Way Atharv Was Handled Was Rough But Dont Forget Even Atharv Was Being Violent Too. Did You See Ravish Hitting Atharv? No. Then Again That Chain Scene Was Not Required. I Felt Bad For Atharv. And Seeing Sujata In That Way Made My Heart Sank.
Then He Stated That Majburi Word. I Was Like What He Is Talking About.
And Lastly That Vividha Scene. See I Understood What You Are Saying But Understand One Thing That Whenever Vividha Used To Shout That Someone Was There Or Someone Is Following Or She Felt Someone Is There All The Time Atharv Was Shown. Ravish Used To See Atharv Roaming Here And There All The Time Whenever Vividha Told Him. So He Always Thought Vividha Is Talking About Atharv. Today She Said She Felt Some Voices Which Ravish Understood She Is Talking About Atharv. Then She Said Someone Touched Her. Now Atharv Was Infront Of Him So Obviously He Thought How Is It Possible? Then He Cannot Doubt On His Family Memebers In A Matter Of Second. Obviously No One Will. So You Cant Expect Him To Doubt His Family When He Thought She Is Talking About Atharv. He Paused For A Moment Then He Said Impossible. Thats All I Wanted To Say!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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No reason is going to justify Ravish's action towards Atharva & Sujata today. I feel Sujata should start taking actions now & should stop BLINDLY trusting Ravish.
Excuses like Atharva was chained or Ravish doesn't know vividha well enough is not going to justify why ravish didn't trust vividha. A women (forget wife) is telling you that somebody is touching her & you TRUST her. No women is going to lie about their dignity.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Okay, so, I think Ravish's main flaw is the fact that he thinks he's always right, & outright refuses to listen to others. There, at least he has a flaw, I was afraid this guy was an Angel sent from Heaven & immune to making mistakes 😆 anyway, what Ravish needs to do is to stop prioritising his father's so-called last wish, & focus on treating Atharva the proper way, & can fulfill his father's damned wish later on, when Atharva is stable. I don't understand what his majboori is? 😕 Of course, I understand he doesn't want his family finding out that he's kept Atharva & Sujata under their roof, but they'll never find out about the two of them if Atharva is taken to the hospital, now are they? They'll definitely find out if they remain where they are. Sujata, Sita, & Ravish are clearly incompetent when it comes to Atharva, they're not professional doctors! Atharva has escaped countless times under their 'care.' They clearly aren't taking care of him very well. Second of all, chaining him up isn't right either, especially at that point because he was sedated anyway. What was the need of that?
And isn't chaining him up going to make it so much worse? Look at him today, due to the way they've manhandled him so far, he imagined the goons that beat him before in front of him, because Ravish & Sita both have handled him quite violently, albeit with any negative intentions, but still, it was playing in his mind wasn't it?
Keeping him confined in a room isn't going to help, he's constantly escaping because he feels trapped, like anybody would in that state. It's much worse for mental patients because their mind is constantly playing with them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It just hurts to see Atharva injected everynow and then as well chained today inspite of lying lifeless though consious was just not done. What this guy has done in life to deserve this, for heavens he jsut loved a girl and his so called father spoiled it, Brother being so inhuman to him just to hide him from his family and cannot disclose him so he has to chain him. Inspite of Sujata begging him not to do this though he was controlled after injecting him.
He knew other day Atharva was there in room then too he made Vividha believe she saw was her hallucination, today again she told him someone touched her inappropriately, he knew Atharva was with himand still he didnt pay any attention that who can do this because he knows Vividha is not imagining.

Sujata too feels obliged to him as he is indirectly taking care of them be it justified or no. I liked brothers bonding and his being patient with Atharva till now but its leading nowhere.





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Posted: 9 years ago
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I completely agree with you... I did not like Ravish from day one... Let everyone tell hes good, he saved Atharv and blah blah .. But I'll stick to what I said from day one... And the reason-

1)This guy jumps of nowhere and married vividha without even asking if she likes him or not
not even a phone call... WHo does that?!

2)This guy does not even have patience to listen to what Vivi wants to tell...

3) He takes his own decisions without thinking much about others. Like locking up Atharv without taking any professional help..

4) Neither he is trying to confront Sujata to know why Atharva landed up being mental

5) He is just whiling away time instead of confronting things and making Vividha believe she's going crazy by gaslighting

6) He does not even believe her when she says somebody is trying to molest her

7)He does not for once think what will happen to Atharv and Sujata when he resumes his army duty.

8)How long does he plan to keep ATharv like this by injecting him and chaining him up

Being an army guy why is he here for so long .. How come he gets so many holidays.. I was disappointed when people when they said Ravish is an ideal guy and husband. Even some Vitharv fans supported him

Edited by cool_kriti - 9 years ago

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