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Posted: 8 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm


In most of the posts I have read which are in "favour" of the show have tagged the "negative" - (sarcastic, exaggerated) post the BOLD.
Rather not were - still are being called that.



all i am saying is, in order to defend fictional characters, don't go after real people with real feelings. i rip apart characters but i don't make low comments about other members. that is a boundary i will not cross

learn to debate in a civil manner instead of resorting to name calling and pettines.


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Posted: 8 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: pomegranate



all i am saying is, in order to defend fictional characters, don't go after real people with real feelings. i rip apart characters but i don't make low comments about other members. that is a boundary i will not cross

learn to debate in a civil manner instead of resorting to name calling and pettines.



People like us understand that but they don't. According to them we are preachers of feminism and that's bad.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#53
There is a reason I stopped watching the show, I dont want to pollute my mind with negativity of the show. The WU is enough to make my blood boil. The more I watch the show, the more I would be active on the forum, the more posts I would make on mere fictional characters which may or may not be a reality. I have been in IPKKND 1 forum which is much worse, I have seen the worst of name calling forum members for fictional characters. There is no point in discussing something which demeans an actual person for a fictional character.
Just learn to respect their POV or better agree to disagree. I have not seen the "negative posts" name calling. I have seen only the ones in favour of the current track name calling indirectly.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...


Okay I'm not a married woman.
And I look forward to your replies because they give me a different perspective.

Now tell me, consummating is that important in a marriage? IS it that people who're sexually frustrated forget about the love and affection they had for their partner and make them the target for venting out their frustration?

Also, can someone who has been the object of insults, jibes, anger and so much more, think of consummation? Sona has been burdened with these unending rituals and fasts and insults, can she even think about intimacy with Dev? And Dev keeps fighting with her every alternate day, mood kaise banega?


Physical intimacy is very very important for men. Their thought process is different from women and are completely capable of forgetting a fight for intimacy

If the wife is perfectly capable and healthy they will expect her to acquise. Wife being incapable, unhealthy or staying far is totally different.

Ishwari very smartly used Sonakshis insecurity and innocence in her favour. As I said in my earlier post also Dev himself is responsible for this.

Ishwari knew that this was the easiest way to drive a wedge between them.

And see agree that if you are humiliated, the last thing on your mind will be intimacy. This is a vicious circle Ishwari has trapped them into. The more frustrated Dev gets, the more moronic he will behave as somewhere his male ego is also getting hurt that his wife doesn't want him enough. The more he hurts Sona, the more she will draw back.

And Ishwari will dance happily.

Someone out of the two has to smarten up. Only if to show that vile woman her true place. I have no hopes from Dev in this regard.

I sincerely believe that Sonakshi should never have married Dev. But now that she has, she should not allow Ishwari to use her as a puppet
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Posted: 8 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: pomegranate

we were called people with bakws opinions, here to mess up the forum atmosphere


copying & pasting...


I didn't realize that this forum was KRPKAB and Dev fan club😆

i come here to discuss all I love and all I don't love about the show. and I don't take positive and negative about the characters or the show... personally!

in the name of positivity.. some people are finding it perfectly xptable to taunt and belittle people's personal opinions and way they live their lives even👎🏼. and making assumptions about other's they know nothing about.👎🏼

I will continue to come here and discuss it all... criticize, love, and express my disappointments and appreciation!!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Doctor...


The one thing that he should have learned after the breakup was to keep Sona on his priority list but he learnt nothing. Sona forgave him so easily, it feels like he lost all respect for her after that. He thinks of her as someone who has no other option but him. How could he make her cry like that? And he didn't even react when she was crying? How shallow can you be!


i disagree about losing respect for Sona. to me, it seems, Dev goes into a trance like state after ishwari dumps years of pain, the sacrifices, the burden, the past.. on the poor chap. and that's why what Ishwari says and does is in private. REMEMBER: how she walked away from the conversation cause Sona was right there. she went to her room where she knew Dev will follow to manaao her. cause outside.. he was justifying his decision and speaking against her thinking. my problem with Dev is... he is taking Sona for granted cause she loves and xpts him with all his faults. so.. bina kahe she should magically understand why he does what he does😡 as for making her cry... that's soo funny... when his blood boils seeing his sister cry.. and say "how can Raveer do this to someone you love" DUDE.. wake up and smell the coffee... you are doing the same to the one you love😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Be it we label dev as a moron or Sonakshi as doormat the bottomline is both behave the way due to their own fallacies.

Coming to Dev, he forgot all about shouting at Sona long ago... The only thing that he remembers now is that she did not try to have a word with him through out the day. he has a mistaken belief that she is trying to reach out to him at her convenient time, regardless of his feelings . The feeling is like she doesn't care about me!!!!!! 😕


For sona, its like i am hurt, and you are not even responding even after me taking the initiative inspite of all the hurt. the minute she realizes dev is not in the room, she goes looking for him.
her concern regarding dev is much higher in regard as compared to her self respect. infact the love we have for our spouse will over shadow the rest of the things.

no matter how much we argue about our respect, our hurt feelings... blah blah blah... somewhere the minute we feel that our husband may be sulking or feeling hurt , the next second we seek out for them. Guess this is what being married entails for a woman.



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