Dev is a moron. - Page 4

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Physical part of a marriage is very important for a man and is the cement on which a relationship is built.

If the wife is ill, the husband will happily abstain but wife is absolutely fine and still not fulfilling his wishes. Any husband will become a horny frustrated moron and boor.

Ishwari knew this and used it.

But is this all Sonakshi fault? Didn't Dev always gave her the indication that she is in this house only because of Ishwari's kindness and it is much more important to keep Ishwari happy as compared to Dev.

The only thing that can be said said in defence of Dev is that he had no male role model in his life except mamaji who instead of correcting his vulgar wife made a career of mocking her. What Dev doesn't understand is 1.GKB is shameless Sona is not. 2. GKB and mamaji belong to another generation.

He also doesn't have any male friends courtesy Ishwari. So the learning curve for him is going to be long. In any family the eldest brother's suffers the most by the MIL. the younger brothers have learnt the lesson by the time of their marriage.

In such a scenario it is Sona who has to act firm and smart. Instead of molly coddling him she should have made him the realise his grave error in sleeping on the sofa. One can't be forgiving all the time.

Further it's high Time she realises Ishwari's game and consummates her marriage else she will be causing irreparable damage to her relationship.

Originally posted by: Monaleojan

Ho Dill Jhoom Jhoom..dil jhoom jhoom Soniya..watch this vm of Sharica.. And about the serial.. Go with its flow.

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

Your replies and posts always helps me understand this show better.

One needs to be married to understand this show, which I am not. Hence I am always edgy with show.

What I fail to understand is why the CV's cannot show balanced reality - just like Dev's one sided breakup here its one sided reality which is negative why ??

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

you know what. I can only echo your statement. I never thought that i will ever agree with the "doctor" but here i am completely agreeing to what was written here. Dev should have been sent to a marrige counsellor before marriage.. to be taught the A.B.C D's of marriage.. Being in love is one thing, being married is altogether different. With it comes more responsibility, more sensitivity, especially if a man has married a person who is not just disliked by his family, but more, despised by his family members.

i felt dev absolutely insensitive today.. maybe in the next episode he will be better.. i suspect that Dev , the character, is conforming to a true sun-sign "geminian" - one who can love intensely, caring, but at the same time absolutely unpredictable. One episode sweet, one episode sour, one episode adorable, another episode hateful... Gosh... this pendulum keeps swinging...

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

It will take Time for him to learn balance the relation.
He loves sona very and care also about him but when ishwari remind him of his past, he couldn't take decision as his past is very rough

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Their fight has moved away from the topic it started with...now its not about Vikky or his job...its about the fact that they cant understand why the other is not giving in ...initial love😆...he was angry because his expectation was she will be waiting for him❤️...he didn't not know that she was waiting for him in the bedroom...her expectation was that he will come to bedroom and then will talk...nothing happened like they had imagined...❤️

What ever said , when it came to an issue with much more gravity and felt that she would see the report and get hurt...even might walk away from his life...he didn't think twice..he didn't care about his ego...he left everything to save the situation ...to save their happiness...isn't that love ??...

Originally posted by: tia.o

You are absolutely right. But when has Dev ever kept any of his promises?

He makes promises just to keep Sona temporarily in delusion and conveniently breaks them whenever it suits his purpose.

But he has been doing it ever since they fell in love, even before break up.

No wonder Sona is so insecure in her relationship and her life that she can't even stand up for herself as if someone has broken her down to this subdued, beaten creature.

A confident woman who is secure in her relationship and the power of her love will walk up to her husband and ask why he is behaving like a jerk to her when he is the one who went back on his words, he is the one at fault?

An insecure woman who fears to get kicked out of a relationship tries to put patch on a already broken trust and continues to pretend that everything is all right.

Which one do you think sounds like Sona?

How a woman go from confident, secure in her self-worth to bury-her-face-in-the-sand and hope-the-issues-will-go-away kind of woman who is so pathetically desperate for even a little crumb of affection?

Even a plant doesn't bloom if you scream at it at constant interval, even with all kind of fertiliser, water and sunlight.

If a mute life like plant can't thrive, imagine what it does to a living human being.

Physical abuse shows on skin but eventually fades away, but mental and emotional abuse leaves scar on soul which always remain in subconscious.

I'm afraid even if Sona walks away from this marriage today, she won't ever be the same Sona who left her parent's house.