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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lols what a logic labeling those people insensitive who are saying Vividha is doing injustice with the family she is married into so what she is doing is noble work ? Was there no other way to save Atharv other than marrying Ravish ? What vividha did was wrong with Ravish and she is still doing wrong When she is in love with someone else then how she is fair with her husband and her in laws ?She should speak the truth to them Own up the wrong she did , not do wrong with them further
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Posted: 9 years ago
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ThankYou everyone for putting your opinion.
Let's say that Suman was not able to get a divorce from Ramakanth. It was her decision. Then why so much anger towards Sujata?! Ramakanth was not able to move on Sujata, it was his mistake. She should be angry on him more than she is angry on Sujata. Actually she should have hate him, but instead she is going on & crying for him & trying to fulfill his last wishes.

This topic was never about Vividha. But since the topic has been raised, Vividha is trying to tell Ravish the truth, but she is being interrupted. She has already tried telling Ravish 2 times in last 3-4 days (according to the show). So you cannot blame her for not telling her truth.

P.s. Please everyone keep this a healthy topic & don't get personal.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Khushi...

@everyone. To me it seems like Suman knew beforehand about Sujata, simply because Sunjiv Puri, the dialogue writer, said something along the lines of Suman thought marriage would make things work out. I can't remember the exact words he used. So something was up.


I could obviously be wrong, as maybe Suman didn't know. But still my point stands. Suman should've left Ramakant when she found out.
It's like how everyone says Ravish would never stay with Vividha once he finds out she loves someone else because he is an honourable man, and not desperate. So what does that make his mother?

Yeah anyone can stay in a loveless marriage. It's their choice. But Suman stated she always knew he never loved her, she's been going on about it long enough already. So if something makes you that unhappy, why stay behind? Her unhappiness is fair, any wife would be unhappy that her husband still loves another woman.

But she chose to stay with him for so many years. She made that decision. So she can't blame other people for it. Especially not Sujata. So many people hate on Vividha because apparently she chose to marry Ravish, so she should live with it, even though it was forced. Well Suman chose to be in a loveless marriage, she lived with it, so why be so bitter?

P.s. @Hina, there's no need to get personal and say things like maybe you should watch the show etc. I have watched all episodes. And it's just my opinion.

P.s. 2 SUNJIV PURI @sunjivpuri
@mimimohanty1 yes..she knew before marriage what she will be getting into but she did not anticipate that she wd not be able to wean away RK

So Suman did know for definite. I rest my case lol.

First of all i am not getting personal i did not bash you What you are saying was not shown in serial so i had to ask to watch the serial and then say In serial it was shown suman asking from Dada ji after her marriage with ramakant i want to know about who is that other woman in colonel's sahab's life That was a post marriage scene not before marriage scene
In serial it was shown suman was unaware of ramakant have a son with sujata too which she now came to know
but yes sujata is well aware of ramakant's second marriage because she gave him permission herself to go ahead and marry according to his father 's wish Sujata and ramakant parted ways with mutual consent Unlike sujata suman does not have a clear picture of what happened between sujata and ramakant , she did not even know the existence of their son , she does not know why their marriage was not given permission by Dada ji Suman does not know many things Her again and again referring to sujata as DUSRI AURAT also gives the feeling she probably thinks ramakant kept some extra martial affair with sujata She does not know about their marriage
and sanjiv puri is dialogue writer not story writer He himself says i only write dialogues for the show nothing more Many details even i dont know and how the story will progress so lets not just make the god of the show
Vividha is hated because she was wrong when she did this marriage A strong , sensible , sensitive woman would never have done wrong with others just because she wants to save her lover There were many ways to save Atharv Vividha chose the worst way She was insensitive to her groom and the family she was getting married into and post marriage again she is wrong with Ravish and suman by lying to them Vividha loves Atharv then why she trying with Ravish ?If she cannot forget Atharv then just speak the truth to Ravish and close this marriage Just like a wife wants her husband's sincerity towards her A husband want same Marriage is not just serving tea , milk , breakfast to your husband its much more than that The woman who cannot give love to her husband and she is loving someone else how she is right with her husband ? so yes we hate Vividha for what she is doing In my moral compass what Vividha is doing is a sin She should be clean in front of husband By this is i am not asking her to continue this marriage I want her to speak the truth and then close this marriage gracefully if she loves Atharv so much she should not stay with Ravish in this marriage Vividha should stop playing the double game She cannot love Atharv and be wife of Ravish at same time Vividha is no different than Ramakant Who loved sujata but lived with suman as a duty only Vividha also loves Atharv and staying with Ravish as his wife for her so called duty Suman knew about ramakant loves another woman Ravish does not even know that Vividha loves someone Vividha should stop cheating Ravish and tell him the truth Thats all i want
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Hina
My debate isn't about Vividha, Atharva or Ravish. I was just saying she was forced and people still hate her, so why are people so nice about Suman, when she chose to marry a man that was in love with another woman?

I never said Vividha was right in hiding things from Ravish. That is a completely different story.

Sunjiv Puri might not know all the details of the story, but he knows a lot, and has stated he is given the scripts and then he writes the dialogue. He has mentioned more than once that Suman knew about Ramakant's love for Sujata, yet still married him because she thought he could love her later.

Either way Suman shouldn't blame other people.

Would you or I marry a man knowing he loves another woman? Would we stay with a man that loves another woman? Would we stay with him if we thought he was having an affair? Would we build a family with him and have kids with him knowing he still loves another woman? I say no. And that is my argument. I would never stay with such a man. And if anyone stays with that man then they are at fault for their own unhappiness. In life you make your own happiness, if you choose to stay in an unhappy situation, then that is your fault. Ramakant was also an idiot, but Suman didn't have to stay with such an idiot.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hina-

First of all i am not getting personal i did not bash you What you are saying was not shown in serial so i had to ask to watch the serial and then say In serial it was shown suman asking from Dada ji after her marriage with ramakant i want to know about who is that other woman in colonel's sahab's life That was a post marriage scene not before marriage scene

In serial it was shown suman was unaware of ramakant have a son with sujata too which she now came to know
but yes sujata is well aware of ramakant's second marriage because she gave him permission herself to go ahead and marry according to his father 's wish Sujata and ramakant parted ways with mutual consent Unlike sujata suman does not have a clear picture of what happened between sujata and ramakant , she did not even know the existence of their son , she does not know why their marriage was not given permission by Dada ji Suman does not know many things Her again and again referring to sujata as DUSRI AURAT also gives the feeling she probably thinks ramakant kept some extra martial affair with sujata She does not know about their marriage
and sanjiv puri is dialogue writer not story writer He himself says i only write dialogues for the show nothing more Many details even i dont know and how the story will progress so lets not just make the god of the show
Vividha is hated because she was wrong when she did this marriage A strong , sensible , sensitive woman would never have done wrong with others just because she wants to save her lover There were many ways to save Atharv Vividha chose the worst way She was insensitive to her groom and the family she was getting married into and post marriage again she is wrong with Ravish and suman by lying to them Vividha loves Atharv then why she trying with Ravish ?If she cannot forget Atharv then just speak the truth to Ravish and close this marriage Just like a wife wants her husband's sincerity towards her A husband want same Marriage is not just serving tea , milk , breakfast to your husband its much more than that The woman who cannot give love to her husband and she is loving someone else how she is right with her husband ? so yes we hate Vividha for what she is doing In my moral compass what Vividha is doing is a sin She should be clean in front of husband By this is i am not asking her to continue this marriage I want her to speak the truth and then close this marriage gracefully if she loves Atharv so much she should not stay with Ravish in this marriage Vividha should stop playing the double game She cannot love Atharv and be wife of Ravish at same time Vividha is no different than Ramakant Who loved sujata but lived with suman as a duty only Vividha also loves Atharv and staying with Ravish as his wife for her so called duty Suman knew about ramakant loves another woman Ravish does not even know that Vividha loves someone Vividha should stop cheating Ravish and tell him the truth Thats all i want

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