Bijoy was so rude today!

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Kamal kulshreshta

@srilotus

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Posted: 8 years ago

#41

Fantastic take on Bejoy
completely agree with u.
Bejoy is as irritating as Ishwari...both have not accepted their new family members.Both are possessive abt their kids.
Bejoy ne abhi tak concern to dikhaya nahi hai...agar concerned hota toh Asha ki tarah behave karta...parents support their daughter ,wrong right ka difference batate hain ...But wat Bejoy is doing is not acceptable.

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Sutapa

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Posted: 8 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: saurdeep

I know Bijoy is concerned about his daughter and any father would be concerned looking around the circumstances in which Dev-Sona got married. Acceptance is very difficult from both sides but still I feel as a basic courtesy, Bijoy should have talked to Dev nicely!

how can he be polite when he has just learnt his sona cant relish her fav dishes .. she has to eat fruit for 9 days while dev can eat what he pleases !!! he thinks this is injustice agaist his beti .. and fro his POV he is correct

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Sutapa

@Sutapasima

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Posted: 8 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: pkbdas61
Bijoy is asking the right questions for today's society!If I were Sona's father, i too would ask Dev the same questions! I hate society's differential outlook towards women, in the garb of customs and age old rituals! Girls need fathers like Bijoy (and me) in today's world!

What I am seeing now in Ishwari and Dev is exactly what I and my daughter used to talk about! It is more of a generalized experience, with exceptions here and there!

yeah I too believe in equality

so does Bijoy

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Sutapa

@Sutapasima

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Posted: 8 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

Kudos the above replies!!! 👏👏

Kudos the above replies!!! 👏👏

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.FlyingClouds.

@.FlyingClouds.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#45

Yeah..I too agree that Bijoy should have talked nicely with him.

What Dev and his family did was past. If he had any problems with them he shouldn't have agreed for the marriage. Now the marriage is done and Dev is his SIL, he should be given respect.

The way he behaved yesterday was totally unacceptable.

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gmgi

@gmgi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: saurdeep
It was really interesting to read everyone's pov here but just wanted to add - There is always a nice way while asking right questions,how can you expect same respect from other person when you leave no chance to degrade him every time?! I feel Asha is really mature,she is a wonderful wife,DIL & mother who always understands her children,support their decisions and advice them accordingly! Being a woman I also support equal rights for men and women and feel pathetic when I see certain customs and rituals are for women only and not for Men! But here,Mamaji kept fast and Dev did not since he is an atheist.I feel after marriage where parents should try to make their children understand that relationship is not built in a day or two its a constant process and both have to make efforts to maintain it as Dev said earlier "banane mai bahut samay lagta hai but todna bahut aasan hota hai" but overprotective behavior and too much interference from parents side creates unnecessary problems in their children's life and even a small issue is made big!I always believe, both should try to resolve their issues untill and unless their is a problem where parents intervention becomes necessary.

The whole situation can be concluded in just the line in bold. It will take time for Dev to earn the trust and respect he lost. Dev knows Bijoy and how much respect he had for Dev. Dev will understand Bijoy's stance when he himself becomes a father. If some unlucky fellow will have the audacity to break Dev's daughter's heart, I pity not only him but his whole family and 3 to 4 generations to come. Dev will blast them from the face of the earth.😆

Bijoy doesn't know Dev is an atheist. So we cannot blame him on expecting him to take vrat.😉

I would also like to point out that it was Bijoy who tried to make Sona understand why Dev is unable to open up to his mother regarding their relationship when Sona asked him if they are doing something wrong since Dev is reluctant to reveal their relationship. Let him see his daughter is truly happy and is taken care of with utmost love and care. He will come around and give him his due respect even if grudgingly at first.

Edited by gmgi - 8 years ago

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AnanyaGhosh

@AnanyaGhosh

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Posted: 8 years ago

#47

Sry i m late in commenting bt had to... Idk wht others hv written bt putting my pov

Bijoy is still nt sure abt dev's behavior and respect towards sona. He saw his daughter break after her brkup wid him... And also saw how far dev can go to bring sona back to him(acc to him dat fainting in sona ritwick engagement was intentionaly done) den later on he fixed sona ka marriage wid dev coz he wanted to see his daughter hpy.. On d marriage day dadi bua and gkb made Sona cry in front of him and also during kanyadaan he was taunted dat sona is now paraya to dem... None of dese times he was assured of his daughter happiness... So dis rude nature is common and i think shld b thr fr some extent...

Dont wry dear dev wll surely do something one day dat wll install bijoy's faith in him once again

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lavanya

@dlavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#48

Bijoy is absolutely right in his place.. He is asking all the right questions.. I am glad that CVs are showing a FIL taunting SIL for all right reasons where as a MIL taunting her DIL on the otherside..

How come bijoys rightful action is questioned where as ishwaris actions are allowed to pass by... I guess it is just the mentality that girls have to put up withtaunts where as boys deserve allthe respect in the world...my pov

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saurdeep

@saurdeep

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Posted: 8 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: AnanyaGhosh
Sry i m late in commenting bt had to... Idk wht others hv written bt putting my pov
Bijoy is still nt sure abt dev's behavior and respect towards sona. He saw his daughter break after her brkup wid him... And also saw how far dev can go to bring sona back to him(acc to him dat fainting in sona ritwick engagement was intentionaly done) den later on he fixed sona ka marriage wid dev coz he wanted to see his daughter hpy.. On d marriage day dadi bua and gkb made Sona cry in front of him and also during kanyadaan he was taunted dat sona is now paraya to dem... None of dese times he was assured of his daughter happiness... So dis rude nature is common and i think shld b thr fr some extent...
Dont wry dear dev wll surely do something one day dat wll install bijoy's faith in him once again

Agree, Bijoy is so concerned for Sona' happiness due to all past incidents and its natural on his part to ask right questions but as I said earlier he can do same without insulting him.He forgave Sona for what she did on her engagement day and It has been shown from day one that how much he is proud of his daughter. It was Sona's decision to marry Dev and now when they are married , he can try to trust his daughter's choice and talk to him a bit politely.

Edited by saurdeep - 8 years ago

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saurdeep

@saurdeep

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Posted: 8 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: dlavanya
Bijoy is absolutely right in his place.. He is asking all the right questions.. I am glad that CVs are showing a FIL taunting SIL for all right reasons where as a MIL taunting her DIL on the otherside..

How come bijoys rightful action is questioned where as ishwaris actions are allowed to pass by... I guess it is just the mentality that girls have to put up withtaunts where as boys deserve allthe respect in the world...my pov

Right questions but behavior so insulting! I loved the way Dev answered him so politely and he could not say a single word after that!II feel equally bad for Sona too when Ishwari and her family members misbehaves with her like today the way Neha talked with her was really rude!Even when Dev became hyper on Ranveer, she asked him to understand the whole situation first and then react.

When you are talking about mentality,it happens these days too where people think, boys are always right and girls are made for taunts only and let me tell you I believe in treating boys and girls equally, what is wrong for girls it should be wrong for boys too. Everyone on this forum has a right to express their views and not necessary everyone is convinced with other,we should try to understand other's pov too and but to talk about someone's mentality is something I never expected here.

What I strongly believe,there are always two ways of handling any situation 1-shout,fight and make things worse 2- try to talk calmly,discuss and resolve the issues.And without making any ego issue I always try to follow 2nd way.My pov

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