Bijoy was so rude today!

I just didn't like the way Bijoy treated Dev today! Dev is no more Sona's boyfriend,he has become SIL of Bose house now and the way Bijoy talked to him was really rude.He was talking about your culture and all so wanted to ask him -"This is the way you treat your SIL when he comes first time to meet you after marriage,It was Sona's decision to keep fast and without understanding the whole situation you just lashed out at Dev"?? I felt so bad for Dev,he can not come close to his wife for 9 days,in spite of arguments he went to Bose house to meet Sona & everyone and he was treated so badly by his Father-in law! 😭😭

Originally posted by: saurdeep

I just didn't like the way Bijoy treated Dev today! Dev is no more Sona's boyfriend,he has become SIL of Bose house now and the way Bijoy talked to him was really rude.He was talking about your culture and all so wanted to ask him -"This is the way you treat your SIL when he comes first time to meet you after marriage,It was Sona's decision to keep fast and without understanding the whole situation you just lashed out at Dev"?? I felt so bad for Dev,he can not come close to his wife or 9 days,in spite of arguments he went to Bose house to meet Sona & everyone and he was treated so badly by his Father-in law!😭😭

This is ought to happen in cross cultural marriages if the marriage happens on the grounds of so much of clutches illtreatment happens... elders are like that the disappointment comes out naturally coz Bijoy is not yet convinced with the way iswari behaved prenup and the way Dev first broke Sonas heart and later was behind her and then marriage ...

Bijoy atleast in the course of time will for sure realise deva kind heart but devil iswari is hopeless

Except asha from parents and Manaji no body is convinced there in Dixit house Sona gets the wrath and Bose house Dev ... simple

I also din like they way he behaved with him...ok when he had broken up with sona it was ok to lash out at him...but now he's married to her and still he dsn change his attitude

Actually Bijoy is concerned about his beti and he still has not completely accepted Dev as SIL just like Ishwari has not accepted Sona as part of Dev's life ...

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy

I also din like they way he behaved with him...ok when he had broken up with sona it was ok to lash out at him...but now he's married to her and still he dsn change his attitude

I think he is taking out his Fear as pain and anger that to of Ishwari on Dev
I always find this in Bijoy behaviour

yeah bijoy was too rude with dev..really dont like the way he talked to his sil..i hope sona will take dev side

I really didn't like his behavior towards dev. Poor dev noone is understanding him psycho mata, dumb wife and khadoos FIL.

Originally posted by: artzdreamer

This is ought to happen in cross cultural marriages if the marriage happens on the grounds of so much of clutches illtreatment happens... elders are like that the disappointment comes out naturally coz Bijoy is not yet convinced with the way iswari behaved prenup and the way Dev first broke Sonas heart and later was behind her and then marriage ...

Bijoy atleast in the course of time will for sure realise deva kind heart but devil iswari is hopeless

Originally posted by: rcha_bhrt

I really didn't like his behavior towards dev. Poor dev noone is understanding him psycho mata, dumb wife and khadoos FIL.

Actually I also didn't like bijoy because of not respecting other's culture.ok you are a bangali a proud bangali I get it and you love your culture and thinks that it's the best I get that too but you have no right to disrespect others.

I was always in support of bijoy but seriously man he needs to tone down common he is talking to his SIL not his daughter's boyfriend anymore.

I feel bad when sona is treated badly by ishwari and so I feel for dev too.

Sorry! I don't think Sona is DUMB. It's a big word. She's getting carried away. It is just that. Everybody does it in a moment of weakness.