Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Poor Sona , I understand her situation very well. Its not that easy to say a no . Ishu is smart to tell it later. It takes time for the DIL to say no especially in our society because from our young age its been drilled to be a good daughter in law first than a good wife!! And its a lil embarrassing to say that she cant stay away from Dev for 9 days ...look at the way Ishu puts forth the topic...very smart...The coming generation may not feel it that way.. but ppl like me would find it a lil tricky there...it takes a year or two to actually learn to say no to in laws ...most of the time DIL take help of their husband...once a child is born , that is when the lady start getting her foothold..I have never understood why ...but in most cases that is the truth...
This happens in most of the houses . Newly married women will be told the abt the culture , rituals etc as if the whole family follows it and its imp etc..and that married women will do this pooaj ..good for the house and husband etc etc...then they add a line to it at the end...if you are not comfortable no need to do...its ok we will do and manage..Now imagine the condition of new lady ...just few weeks at the house ...she will agree.
Trust me , its easy to join a new organisation , you will be accepted faster at the new work place than by your in laws...🤣
All I can say is this is the state of many indian households. ...whr they expect their daughters to be treated as angels at their inlaws place bt dis rule dosnt apply to the dil