Sona's Unilateral decision

I am really mad at Sona today. All this time she has been lecturing that one should not take unilateral descision... This is exactly what she did...
I agree Ishwari laid out her trap very well... This woman i tell you.. she is very intelligent and knows exactly how to work her way..with out the other person realizing what is she doing to her.

She did the same thing, she emotionally manipulated Sona into saying that She does the pooja for family's welfare -- she knows Sona will try to copy everything she does.
She did not tell the important rule until Sona already committed to doing the pooja for family's good.. Then she tells her she has to abstain etc...
Sona is trapped now... A sensible Sona that I knew would have said " I will check with Dev if he is ok with me doing this vrat" ... I am sure DEV would have said NO.

But instead she committed trying to win the Most wonderful Daughter in law pageant (which unfortunately she can never win) and now is going to face the wrath of Dev

Dev expressed the thoughts of viewers ( trying to win the best DIL pageant ... she is not even trying to be a decent wife)... I am positive CVs are doing this purposefully and hoping Sona will come out this illusion asap...

I soo wished Sona shud have said she will check with dev...

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

I soo wished Sona shud have said she will check with dev...

Ir atleast inform him before committing...

Absolutely, she could have easily escaped the vrat if she told Ishwari she need to check with DEV.
She needs to start being herself and care about DEV and still just respect Ishwari.. but dont try to over do things and try to conquer the world in a single day...

CV's are purposefully showing her like this,otherwise those dialogue would not be there 😆😆

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

CV's are purposefully showing her like this,otherwise those dialogue would not be there 😆😆

There is reason why they showed bijoy and asha scene about sona's competitive nature and her excellence in studies , that she always wanted to be first ,

now that is the emotion ishwari is using against sona😆😆

Hope This Phase of her achieving the" best Bahu award " will pass .

Yes I believe Cvs are doing it purposefully ..fine try to be a good DIL but dont ignore your husband - it seems only Dev is making attempt to get close to her.. she is like pushing him away all the time...

I hope CVs change this attitude and not make her a saint.

CVs are doing this nonsense to create drama for TRP. no newly married woman in reality would agree to this without talking to hubby. but, Ishwari was at her manipulative best. she laid a trap and unsuspecting Sona fell in it. all those people who were saying ishwai didn't force her.. NO, she didn't.. but she manipulated her.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I am really mad at Sona today. All this time she has been lecturing that one should not take unilateral descision... This is exactly what she did...
I agree Ishwari laid out her trap very well... This woman i tell you.. she is very intelligent and knows exactly how to work her way..with out the other person realizing what is she doing to her.

She did the same thing, she emotionally manipulated Sona into saying that She does the pooja for family's welfare -- she knows Sona will try to copy everything she does.
She did not tell the important rule until Sona already committed to doing the pooja for family's good.. Then she tells her she has to abstain etc...
Sona is trapped now... A sensible Sona that I knew would have said " I will check with Dev if he is ok with me doing this vrat" ... I am sure DEV would have said NO.

But instead she committed trying to win the Most wonderful Daughter in law pageant (which unfortunately she can never win) and now is going to face the wrath of Dev

Dev expressed the thoughts of viewers ( trying to win the best DIL pageant ... she is not even trying to be a decent wife)... I am positive CVs are doing this purposefully and hoping Sona will come out this illusion asap...

Poor Sona , I understand her situation very well. Its not that easy to say a no . Ishu is smart to tell it later. It takes time for the DIL to say no especially in our society because from our young age its been drilled to be a good daughter in law first than a good wife!! And its a lil embarrassing to say that she cant stay away from Dev for 9 days ...look at the way Ishu puts forth the topic...very smart...The coming generation may not feel it that way.. but ppl like me would find it a lil tricky there...it takes a year or two to actually learn to say no to in laws ...most of the time DIL take help of their husband...once a child is born , that is when the lady start getting her foothold..I have never understood why ...but in most cases that is the truth...

This happens in most of the houses . Newly married women will be told the abt the culture , rituals etc as if the whole family follows it and its imp etc..and that married women will do this pooaj ..good for the house and husband etc etc...then they add a line to it at the end...if you are not comfortable no need to do...its ok we will do and manage..Now imagine the condition of new lady ...just few weeks at the house ...she will agree.

Trust me , its easy to join a new organisation , you will be accepted faster at the new work place than by your in laws...🤣

Yes, Sona should have told that she will check with Dev and confirm it.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

CV's are purposefully showing her like this,otherwise those dialogue would not be there 😆😆

There is reason why they showed bijoy and asha scene about sona's competitive nature and her excellence in studies , that she always wanted to be first ,

now that is the emotion ishwari is using against sona😆😆

Hope This Phase of her achieving the" best Bahu award " will pass .

For me that convo betwn Ishu and Sona regarding fasting ...it was so real...a lot of us have gone thru this in the initial days of our marriage...in laws and their rituals ...many a times you wouldnt want to do and then you just wont know how to say no because they would say its good for family , husband , and your future life etc...once they say this...we just dont feel like saying a no...some kind of fear happens with in you thinking that if we dont do it then something will go wrong...Yes , today I understand its a mind game played ...but at that point in time...it just doesnt help...even the educated ones like us have fallen into the trap...So I felt that scene was so true...

A learning for all you young lovely unmarried laddies out there...kitchen politics is a tough game...and if you are a professional trust me it gets tougher!!

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Poor Sona , I understand her situation very well. Its not that easy to say a no . Ishu is smart to tell it later. It takes time for the DIL to say no especially in our society because from our young age its been drilled to be a good daughter in law first than a good wife!! And its a lil embarrassing to say that she cant stay away from Dev for 9 days ...look at the way Ishu puts forth the topic...very smart...The coming generation may not feel it that way.. but ppl like me would find it a lil tricky there...it takes a year or two to actually learn to say no to in laws ...most of the time DIL take help of their husband...once a child is born , that is when the lady start getting her foothold..I have never understood why ...but in most cases that is the truth...

This happens in most of the houses . Newly married women will be told the abt the culture , rituals etc as if the whole family follows it and its imp etc..and that married women will do this pooaj ..good for the house and husband etc etc...then they add a line to it at the end...if you are not comfortable no need to do...its ok we will do and manage..Now imagine the condition of new lady ...just few weeks at the house ...she will agree.

Trust me , its easy to join a new organisation , you will be accepted faster at the new work place than by your in laws...🤣

I agree and understand what Sona must be going thru.. Sona might be insecure as Dev left her once for Ishwari and it is understandable that she is trying to be in good books of her MIL. But, Sona needs to understand Ishwari's manipulations... She is smart with a high IQ for god sake.. i hope the spoilers are true and Sona will start Issue's intentions...

What my complaint is -- bechara Dev is all over her and sona is acting like a sanyasini ( even before the Vrat and all)... constantly pushing him away and trying to find reasons to escape from their bedroom.
No doubt Dev thought it doesnt make any difference to sona if he is gone for a night ... She is acting like that... I know FL expressing love for ML may be a taboo on TV but please makers claim it is realistic... so show the reality