Sona's Unilateral decision - Page 2

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Yes I believe Cvs are doing it purposefully ..fine try to be a good DIL but dont ignore your husband - it seems only Dev is making attempt to get close to her.. she is like pushing him away all the time...

I hope CVs change this attitude and not make her a saint.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

In a way they have shown two contrast scene about how sonakshi has taken decision for fast without consulting dev while Dev was looking for sonakshi for her opinion regarding vicky's issue😆

I know right... 6 months me woh ye hote hai... aur ye woh ... kahavat suni thi...
Sona is like making decisions for both of them and Dev is the one who is looking for her POV ...

huh , i am really liking the new DEV after marriage...Sona has to do a lot to catchup to his level now

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

In a way they have shown two contrast scene about how sonakshi has taken decision for fast without consulting dev while Dev was looking for sonakshi for her opinion regarding vicky's issue😆

Very rightly spoken...Sona is on a new ground , she has to get a foot hold in the house . Dev is the ONLY person that she is familier and knows that she can rely on . She doesnt have to prove anything to him and hence he takes a back seat now ( Most love marriages this happens ) ..With all the others she is at a loose end. She needs create that rapport . It will take time ...and regarding her running away from intimacy ...she is not very comfortable at this place...probably at her home she will be more free with him. Here the moment some one knocks she is scared and runs to open ...this is her first time so she is bound to be hesitant...and that too with all those ppl coming and disturbing them.

Dev is at his place with his ppl . You would have found Dev in the same situation as Sona if he was at Sona's place.

Sona agreed for fasting before Ish putforth the great abstinence clause. Sona really had no other choice than to stick to her decision. If she said no, it wud show her desperation which no one wants to show to their inlaws or parents. N if she said that she wud consult with Dev after she had already agreed, again it wud show that Dev might be getting desperate. There was no way she could avoid any embarrassment.

Dev made the plan for SR, n when Ish told him, Dev also agreed to drop Dadi bua. He also didn't consult Sona before taking the decision to cancel their SR. Sona understood his situation n didn't give him a hardtime. Even Dev got manipulated by Ish.

Originally posted by: randommusings

Dev made the plan for SR, n when Ish told him, Dev also agreed to drop Dadi bua. He also didn't consult Sona before taking the decision to cancel their SR. Sona understood his situation n didn't give him a hardtime. Even Dev got manipulated by Ish.

I agree but sona had a choice and dev didnt. Dev tried to find alternatives - asked dadi bua to stay longer or asked if mamji can go instead...
Problem is sona did not even try even though ishwari gave her two chances to back off..
I understand she may feel embarassed to back off but still.. When ishwari said second time - dont do the vrat.. All sona had to say was "ok maa nahi karungi".. No explanation needed as ishwari gave her the option.. But sona chose to keep the fast and win the ideal bahu competition..

Agree totally. She should have definitely checked with Dev before agreeing to this 🤔 I dont know why being the best bahu has suddenly become to important to her 😵 This is annoying me since the outcome is quite clear - Zero achievement from Ishwari. But Dev would also be drifted apart from her amidst all these pooja paath. 😵 Hope she goes back to work or takes 'Oshtomongola' before the scheduled time. 😡

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Agree totally. She should have definitely checked with Dev before agreeing to this🤔I dont know why being the best bahu has suddenly become to important to her😵This is annoying me since the outcome is quite clear - Zero achievement from Ishwari. But Dev would also be drifted apart from her amidst all these pooja paath.😵Hope she goes back to work or takes 'Oshtomongola' before the scheduled time.😡

I know .. She is already behaving like a sanyasini..pushing dev away all the time even before vrat and all... I am sure dev willbe pissed off and hope sona will end up seducing him onceshe gets to know about ishwaris problem...

So i can forgive sona only if she seduces dev lol --- thats my stand as of now 😆 🤣

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I am really mad at Sona today. All this time she has been lecturing that one should not take unilateral descision... This is exactly what she did...
I agree Ishwari laid out her trap very well... This woman i tell you.. she is very intelligent and knows exactly how to work her way..with out the other person realizing what is she doing to her.

She did the same thing, she emotionally manipulated Sona into saying that She does the pooja for family's welfare -- she knows Sona will try to copy everything she does.
She did not tell the important rule until Sona already committed to doing the pooja for family's good.. Then she tells her she has to abstain etc...
Sona is trapped now... A sensible Sona that I knew would have said " I will check with Dev if he is ok with me doing this vrat" ... I am sure DEV would have said NO.

But instead she committed trying to win the Most wonderful Daughter in law pageant (which unfortunately she can never win) and now is going to face the wrath of Dev

Dev expressed the thoughts of viewers ( trying to win the best DIL pageant ... she is not even trying to be a decent wife)... I am positive CVs are doing this purposefully and hoping Sona will come out this illusion asap...

Yes v can give the benefit of doubt to Sonakshi today coz V all know how manipulative is Ishwari but eversince the marriage happened. Y sonakshi is only focusing on others on the other hand Dev is doing everything a husband should do..She knows everyone in the family from very long but y she seems to b so nervous all the time as she has done something wrong(specially when Dev handed over a note in hall,they way she said Kuch kaam kar rahi thi )She doesn't talk to Dev in front of anyone...I mean she used to very confident I can understand now she is a bahu and all n whatever happened during marriage must have shook her...her basic is nature is lost somewhere..

This was not even expected from an intelligent girl like sona who have blown away dev with her intelligency. Now she is behaving like a doormat And duffer Gopi vahu who follows saas instructions blindly.